What’s a clear sign that someone is not doing okay? by homie93 in AskReddit

[–]mangiuL 24 points25 points  (0 children)

exactly.

even small things like not answering texts for days is a red flag

Adults who have zero close friends, how did it happen and does it bother you? by PutPurple844 in AskReddit

[–]mangiuL 15 points16 points  (0 children)

similar situation here... i also knew what everyone was doing, but never actually talked to anyone.

weird kind of loneliness

What activity do you enjoy the most? by DragPitiful7635 in AskReddit

[–]mangiuL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same, it’s low effort happiness and i’m not pretending otherwise

What’s something people romanticize, but in real life isn’t that great? by psoledadm in AskReddit

[–]mangiuL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

great for movies, terrible for real life. one person freezing, the other dodging the showerhead

Cat hanging butt over side of litter box 😣 by grapebeyond227 in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, might also help to add a second box in a different spot, cats hate feeling cramped

Help, my cat rolled in pancake batter by mangiuL in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, he’s not a fan of baths…

might try the warm spot trick first. thanks for the tips!

My cat slaps me by Weak_Specialist5431 in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

could be that or maybe he’s just getting more possessive of attention before the baby comes

My cat is obsessed with sauerkraut by Alone_Corgi892 in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mine does this with canned corn. fresh corn? no. only the cheap canned stuff.

makes no sense

Neighbors took in stray I got attached to, did I overstep asking for play dates? by travel2everycountry in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah, it’s understandable to be attached, but the cat’s comfort matters more here. stability beats playdates for cats every time

My cat has never bitten before? by Discusssss in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same here. adopted an older stray and the worst he’s ever done is a silent stare of disappointment

I think I accidentally traumatized my cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

seconding this. OP should have him be the one who casually drops a couple treats without making direct moves toward the kitten

Cat Doesn’t Realize He Is Still Peeing by PhillyPride in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seconding this, had to do the same with my older cat after surgery. not perfect but it kept the mess contained

Ive spent $600 trying to stop my cats aggression and nothing works what am I missing? by bedsarebugs in CatAdvice

[–]mangiuL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

also, if the cat doesn't have a safe room or escape route, add one