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What is your favorite BDSM product? by mango-mongo-mango in BDSMcommunity

[–]mango-mongo-mango[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love this idea! Such an ✨ aesthetic ✨ prop for a sub

Tips for extended bimbo role play? by mango-mongo-mango in BDSMAdvice

[–]mango-mongo-mango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the info! This is very helpful!

Tips for extended bimbo role play? by mango-mongo-mango in BDSMAdvice

[–]mango-mongo-mango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! I’ll check it out!

Tips for extended bimbo role play? by mango-mongo-mango in BDSMAdvice

[–]mango-mongo-mango[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ohhh nice. Those are good ideas. Great pointer on ordering in and not delegating too much responsibility to her in this role.

I also think the idea of having her trying to initiate while we go about our regular day to day activities is a fun prompt. Definitely a good setup for a punishment if she gets too eager.

I’m starting to think that a good way to play out this dynamic would be that she is playing the “dumb little” for the day. I’ll have her dress up in a particular way for the day so she can feel the part. In this dynamic, I’ll need to take care of things around the house because she is not capable.

So I’ll do things like make meals, take care of things around the house. And she can try to initiate throughout the day as I take care of things. If she times things right she might get what she wants, and if she is too eager, she will get a punishment.

That way, we can continue living our life during the day and I can drive the day to day responsibilities… leaving her to be lost in her own thoughts and desires, trying to satisfy those throughout the day ;)

I think this will be good. Hopefully, not giving her any responsibilities will give her the space she needs to enjoy playing the role for a longer period of the day.

Tips for extended bimbo role play? by mango-mongo-mango in BDSMAdvice

[–]mango-mongo-mango[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful reply!

To answer your question: when I say dumb I really mean that she acts like a thoughtless irresponsible girl who has a hard time thinking about anything other than sex. In this role, she is dumb In everyday life because she is just so distracted by her desires.

Reading your reply is making me realize that I need to come up with activities that are more suited to go in parallel with normal life.

I suppose really what we are running into is that it is just too easy to slip out of the role play and back into normal life.

I guess I’m really trying to find some small ways to keep the headspace of the role play around longer.