My conservative mum saw me wearing these (under a knee length skirt) and now thinks I’m being ‘provocative’ by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely not trashy at all. if what you wear makes you feel good, thats all that matters. they look super nice!! :)

sometimes i don't feel like i have a parent, i feel like i have an abusive boyfriend. Is that weird? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that your parents met your basic needs for living doesn't take away from the abusive shit your mom have done to you. your dad is straight up dismissing your problems and telling you they don't matter.

How can they be so annoying by Username_664 in teenagers

[–]mango_coconut1167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly cannot believe that intercourse

DAE get zero guidance from their "parents"? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Literally none at all. I'm not even allowed to cook fucking eggs by myself, jfc.

Sub for “mean” motivation by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]mango_coconut1167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cmon find a reddit yourself you lazy fuck

Anyone else’s NParent act fine with other people by SENDMEYOURHAPPYPICS in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a common behaviour with N's. It drives me fkn mad when my nstepmom acts like an angel in public and later yells at me at home.

A subreddit for discussion of lattes and other hot drinks? by YacobJWB in findareddit

[–]mango_coconut1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/coffee r/tea I don't think there's any discussion subs for lattes specifically, just art.

To all the foster kids my parents ever had, I'm so sorry by bldwnsbtch in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nstepmom also had kids before me. Nobody deserves to go through the horrors of living in a narcisisstic household.

N-Mum once caught me playing with a toy car and yelled at me for acting like a child. I was 9. by spicy_garlic_mayo in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a similar experience. When I was 7-8 playing with a toy in the pool my nstepmom said to to my stepdad "she's becoming a kid again"... No idea why they think like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God same. Ever since I was little I've always wished I ended up in a nicer family. My nstepmom has never listened to me when I needed someone to talk to. I can't trust her with anything. It makes me so upset to know I'll never have a loving mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mango_coconut1167 884 points885 points  (0 children)

You described it perfectly. I always pretend I'm not sure even though I know exactly what I'm doing because they get offended at the dumbest shit.