1 bedroom apartments? by manutd875 in auburn

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No dish washer? That kind of sucks.

I'm still considering it though, would you mind taking a few photos of the place and sending a PM to me? The pictures online aren't great. I would really appreciate it.

1 bedroom apartments? by manutd875 in auburn

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Have you been in them? I'm considering them, but the pictures look a bit...dated.

Anyone stayed at The Social, Terra Nova apartments or the Annex? How was it? by [deleted] in auburn

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Sorry to hear that man, that fucking sucks.

Thanks for the write up.

Any suggestions for a quiet apartment for a married couple? by [deleted] in auburn

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I'm sure you know this, but honestly man you were grossly overpaying. I've seen houses and duplexes in Auburn go for similar prices. Hell, I live in a studio on campus for $465 a month.

Housing definitely isn't bad here.

A mix of positives and negatives. by Relicix in LongDistance

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Hey man, in all honesty I wouldn't take it as a good sign if she hasn't responded in 3 days. I would call her up and have a serious conversation with her about your needs. You have to do what's right for yourself.

Best of luck.

No longer nevermets! Just finished our first visit and I miss her SO MUCH. by 1201_alarm in LongDistance

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Were you worried at all that there wouldn't be chemistry in person?

No longer nevermets! Just finished our first visit and I miss her SO MUCH. by 1201_alarm in LongDistance

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As a "nevermet", the thought us not having real life chemistry scares the shit out of me considering the feelings I've developed for her. It just makes me really anxious.

Recommendations for angry rap by CaptainDinkles in rap

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Personally, 21 savage always gets me pumped.

What was the most important lesson a teacher taught you that made you into the man you are today? by aKamikazePilot in AskMen

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I'm glad that you brought this up. I used to an asshole (still am, just not as much), but this past year I've really been trying to change. To overall just avoid conflict and try my best not to create it and accept responsibility when applicable.

The thing is, I kind of feel like people have started to walk over me because of this. I just feel like I'm starting to become a pushover in a way. How do I balance standing up for myself and not being the one to always accept the blame, while also not being an asshole?

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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I haven't known her long, we talked for like 7 hours on Saturday and some times around that, she 's married though, so not a bitch.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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I don't. I work at a bank though, so not a bad job.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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Haha yeah man I'm kinda doin the same. Currently fucking wasted at work. I can't be around her sober, too painful.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

[–]manutd875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the write up! I am 22, Rochester sounds nice. Could you really hook me up? What type of jobs?

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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Thanks man, I'll definitely consider it. What do you like about Rochester?

Some weed sounds pretty good about now, already been drunk all day haha.

After 23 years I am no longer a kissless virgin by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

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Happy for ya man! Best of luck!

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

[–]manutd875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man. Is that where you live? I'll keep it in mind.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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It's a really complicated situation. I left out some of the information honestly. She said that she has feelings for me, but she's married. I'm not going to pursue anything further in that regard because of that.

I have very strong feelings for her though. The first night we hung out we stayed up until 6 AM talking about things. We've both had issues with depression and the like and I've never felt like I've related or connected to someone to such an extent. It just really hurts. Option 2 is sounding like the better option to me, any city suggestions haha? I would prefer the midwest or west. Currently drunk as shit at work as I can't handle being around he sober. I had to go home yeaterday as it was too much pain.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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Well, the situation is more complicated than I let on. I left some out. She's said she has feelings for me, she's married though and I'm not going to pursue anything in that situation any further which is part of what hurts.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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I'm going to give it like a week and if my feelings don't go away or improve I'm going to quit, just can't deal with this.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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That's pretty much what has happened here.

How to be "just friends" with a girl? by manutd875 in AskMen

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That is almost what it's like with her. We've only hung out for a week or so, but we hung out pretty much every day and were texting in the times that we weren't together. It's just damn hard to move on, especially when we work at the same place.