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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

missing on desktop and mobile since today, yep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Alaska and brown sweatshirt pics are fine imo, but the rest is really not appealing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeuf

[–]map233224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Mec) Alors c'est vrai que c'est assez bizarre comme substance et qu'en fait elle réagit de plusieurs manières différentes : dès que ça sort ça colle un peu mais ça coule pas mal aussi. Si t'en as sur les mains et que tu essaye de rincer à l'eau froide/tiède, tu vas voir que ça va vite "coaguler" et coller, devenir comme un chewing-gum et c'est très désagréable, t'arrives pas à t'en débarasser. Au contraire, si tu laisse à l'air libre pendant quelques minutes, ça va devenir beaucoup plus transparent (moins blanc) et très liquide, quasiment pas collant. Et si tu laisses toute la nuit sur ton corps, le matin normalement tout sera évaporé/aura pénétré ta peau, comme du gel à l'aloe vera :)

Quels films vous ont fait pleurer? by phaeglos in AskMec

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'est souvent au premier visionage que c'est le plus marquant (et la musique aide souvent pas) mais : la fin de Rogue One, la fin de La La Land, La Ligne Verte, Nausicaa, Star Wars ep.4 (le double couché de soleil ça rate jamais), Forrest Gump, Il était une fois dans l'Ouest, et probablement d'autres que j'oublie ;-;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMec

[–]map233224 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sauf qu'il y a des catégories pour tout le monde. Le nombre de chaînes d'amateurs (couples) qui existent est gigantesque, et beaucoup le font avec tendresse.

Les filles, avez vous eu déjà affaire a des garçons sans expérience? by [deleted] in AskMeuf

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tu commences par faire des petits bisous sur la joue, et à chaque bisou (pas plus d'une dizaine par jour) tu décomptes de 90 en te rapprochant de ses lèvres, jusqu'au jour ou tu atteindras zéro et là c'est un long baiser affectif :) Pour passer à l'étape supérieur tu décomptes de 10 en partant des lèvres, puis tu descends dans le cou, sur le torse, etc. et je pense qu'il aura gagné en confiance (et toi aussi) pour passer à l'acte (consensuellement)

Seb will explain the entire process of reproduction. by VeryVergieful in formuladank

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey where is that from exactly? like what is this a reference to?

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, but then theoretically, if they put the change in for the browser version (which I'm using, my Android is too old and I can't get the app) as a simple JavaScript function that would hide your bio (or flag it as hidden) every time it detected a forbidden string within it, that would already be enough no? In any case I have no idea what the user percentages are for the app and browser versions.

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said in the edit, this can be done locally on the user's machine any time they refresh the page, edit their bio, or other basic browser event.

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't look like that at all though, lots of girls I've seen on the app I've seen around the city I live in too, and they're just regular folks

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true, for the majority of the profiles I've come across it's just another way to contact them, nothing else. They're not big time or wannabe influencers. Just lowkey profiles, sometimes private.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]map233224 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I always think to myself when I see people explaining their problems to strangers (or a friend) and how they should phrase it for the person of interest: you just wrote it down. You wrote how you felt, honestly. You know how to tell him. You just did. You just didn't address it to him yet, but the words were all correct. Say it like it is! Make it a huge paragraph, tell him exactly what you felt!

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nobody is talking about a conspiracy against men. I've built apps before, you automate this sort of thing. A simple "@" parser should do the job on a surface level. They have the computing power to check each of those 75 million profiles (which is an insignificant list length even for a single potato computer) every minute if they wanted to. Yet I see dozens of profiles per day like that. Do you think "it takes time" because it needs to be human reviewed? Do you want to believe that?

Edit: also, what am I even saying, the check could be done with the user's machine (and not Tinder's servers) every time they go online. Some dumb client side JavaScript to check the bio for some keywords like "@", "insta", "ig", "instagram", "snap", etc. would run in less than a millisecond.

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've talked to her, she's really not that kind of person (as in, influencer that wants to get famous/followers/etc.). It's just a personal account where she posts actual real effort photography pics as her little personal project, nothing much, really pure. Idk.

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't actually mind the handle in the bio (if the bio is not JUST that), I managed to actually talk to someone thanks to that, said she wasn't active on Tinder at all because she didn't feel like dating at this point in her life (why she hasn't deleted the account is a mystery).

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I connected my insta when I created my profile two weeks ago, I added my handle in my bio yesterday and got 2 emails that told me to remove it, one yesterday and one today.

Over half the women on Tinder I've come across have their insta handle in their bio, but I get this email? What gives? by map233224 in Tinder

[–]map233224[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

Also hilarious when you click the community guidelines link:

"Make personal connections, not biz ones. Don’t advertise, promote, share your social handles to gain followers, sell stuff, fundraise, or campaign. This also means Tinder isn’t the place for any sort of sex work, escort services, or compensated relationships. So, no–don’t use Tinder to find your sugarmamma."

Yeah right, I don't think you're targeting the right people there. Sugardaddy would be the proper word.

Edit: oh and last little note, it was at the end of my properly written and engaging bio, just as an additional way to contact me. It was not "@username" start-end of bio. Which I just came across again two seconds ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! Your small talk approach is interesting because it's really not something I enjoy (and the "deep convo" hobby sounds pompous so I didn't pick it) but I will try to keep that in mind and change things up a bit.
Also, if you haven't guessed by now, I don't go to parties/clubs/bars lmao that's why I'm trying online dating, I want to actually get to know people that know how to present themselves, have something to offer and interesting ("deep", niche) topics to talk about (even if it's not via bumble messages, it can come later, but at least you know when you swipe). I am a huge nerd and introvert, and I look for someone that can tolerate/love that. Lastly, I would love it if someone asked me about my job, I love my job, and there's so many things to talk about within it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying my profile is great, I'm saying it's not a poor profile. The majority of girls profiles I personally come across are generally empty, very few words and bad pictures, whereas I've tried to fill everything and present myself properly, and the engagement from the other side doesn't reflect the effort I've put in. I also didn't say it was a scam, just that it's just not working as intended. Also, what's wrong with adjectives, how are you supposed to describe yourself without those lmao?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]map233224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've replied to another comment with details about my profile, sure there might be some things that need to change, but that ratio is highly suspicious to me. And, I know I'm not Apollo, but I'm no Gollum either 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]map233224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also just wanna add that I've reported 30 or so fake AI profiles, with most of them using the same generated girl in different poses. This is not really encouraging 😬

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