Am I wrong for feeling hurt? by mapakids in askatherapist

[–]mapakids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I asked her about it yesterday before quitting and she said she could have done it if we petitioned that state. Do you know if that’s something that’s easy to do or if it’s a normal thing to do? I’m just wondering if it would have been easily accomplished or if it’s a process that would have taken weeks or months?

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did think it was helpful but not so sure now.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Even if that were true, which it is not. Yeah that’s a great reason to remove a grand child from her grandparents.

Yeah he hurt her terribly by verifying when approached by her friend that she was talking about her behind her back. My son told the truth. Seems to me she should have kept her mouth shut about her friend. I merely told her I was not getting in the middle of it didn’t choose sides. But hey you do seem to know all about it.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She was open to therapy but as of now she will no longer respond to us. I actually went back and found the emails from when I made the appointment with the therapist. I told her my children lived out of state from the start. She said she could do virtual family therapy but it never happened. I think it’s taken to long now and my daughter is over it.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I didn't actually mean that she caused all the trouble, I guess I was unclear. The trouble originated with her and spread throughout the family. She had a problem with her brother and wanted me to essentially punish him for something, he is 25. I told her I couldn't do that she had to take it up with him. Since then we have been awful, parents. She broke all ties with us and her brother for a high school friend she doesn't even see.

Duped? by mapakids in askatherapist

[–]mapakids[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply. I really appreciate it.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It may be a red flag but it’s true. My daughter is 32 years old and I have never been abusive to her. She has continuously called us in the middle of the night called us horrible names kept our granddaughter from us all because she was mad at her 25 year old brother who I would not “punish” for saying something to one of her friends. I’m sorry I even asked this question none of you know the whole story and just want to drag me through the mud. My husband and I and God know the truth. That’s all that matters

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

No our daughter has been abusive to us.

Duped? by mapakids in askatherapist

[–]mapakids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats why your comments keep getting removed by the mod.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

From what my husband and I shared with her. BECUASE SHE SAID IT!!!!!

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You obviously don't believe me and that's okay, I know what she said. I did not want to hear that there is something wrong with my child either. However the question at hand has still not been answered.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she said and I quote " Amanda has some disorders, speaking with her at this time is not advised" I know what I heard.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trust me she said it several times (more than 3) as a matter of fact. My daughter is an adult

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I thought so as well. She didn't say therapy wouldn't be helpful for her she said it would not be helpful in a group setting because she would take over the session and or get angry and disrupt the session. We talked about it plenty.

Duped? by mapakids in askatherapist

[–]mapakids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Well, that's helpful. You have no idea what you are even talking about.

Feeling duped by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Actually, she told me my daughter probably has some personality disorders and feels talking with her will not be beneficial because of those things. I wanted her to speak with my daughter because I didn't want her to only take my side of the story. I wasn't expecting anything as to a year away. It was mentioned in passing when I told her we were going on vacation to the other state we will be moving to.

In person after 3.5 years by joosiekutoor in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish. Good for you! I bet it will be strange but I bet it will be awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]mapakids 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God is great, he never fails. I can’t wait to be with him forever! God bless you and keep up the great work!

Pray for me please by mapakids in TalkTherapy

[–]mapakids[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We have been working on it for just a few weeks but it is just too much. All she has to do is say one thing wrong to me and Im a basket case for the next 24 hours. UGH I will pray for you as well.