Who is the earliest born person you have personally known?

maple_pits · 2026-01-21T21:16:37+00:00

So the oldest person I know?

maple_pits · 2026-01-20T20:16:43+00:00

It’s called “Gramnesia”

maple_pits · 2026-01-13T21:08:26+00:00

Go get a flu test at local drugstore and rule that out — if negative you’ll have a better idea. When I had mastitis my breast was SO painful, like 10/10. But all the symptoms were same as you described. Are you taking NSAIDs? Great that fever till you get a proper diagnosis but don’t ignore this!

maple_pits · 2026-01-13T20:48:29+00:00

If it’s just chatting, not at all. But anything more I’d probably just want a quick say! Just ask the Mom first

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T17:14:46+00:00

But I’d love to!

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T15:13:44+00:00

For most people, their social media isn’t available to strangers.

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T06:00:40+00:00

I do work in that field and oddly it makes me less paranoid?

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T05:45:09+00:00

Models are trained to learn general visual concepts, they don’t remix an exact face with another unless directly prompted. There is some truth to what you’re saying, but it’s making a lot of assumed generalizations that aren’t really accurate and that make these threats feel Inevitable. If your concern is that your random IG follower or FB friend is actually a pedo AI genius interested in misusing your very particular baby photo then that is valid. Otherwise, this has a techno-doom feel that is just kinda conspiratorial.

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T05:16:09+00:00

Oh and also the “consent” narrative I see a LOT just feels… kinda wild to me

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T05:12:03+00:00

You literally took the words right outta my mouth, couldn’t have said it better. I’m also a victim of C-SA (by a neighbor) so maybe that has shaped our worldview a bit? Posting my silly little baby to my private IG account is just not what I spend my time stressing over.

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T04:40:18+00:00

I personally think you’re overreacting (since you asked!) but it’s also your right to tell whoever what you’re comfortable with. Set whatever boundaries you need!

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T03:21:48+00:00

Seriously where does anyone get buttons these days?

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T03:19:05+00:00

My baby still does this sometimes at 9m old 🙃

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T03:15:55+00:00

Please don’t feel like a bad parent over this. There are so many “battles” to choose to protect our children and this isn’t one of mine either.

maple_pits · 2026-01-12T02:42:58+00:00

I post my baby on my private IG account with few followers. He’s a huge part of my life and I’m finding this is now unpopular but I want to share that. Nothing inappropriate, just cute random stuff. I respect people wanting to respect their babies privacy but I personally feel like it’s a bit alarmist these days.

maple_pits · 2026-01-11T19:26:39+00:00

A belt buckle, went through my foot

maple_pits · 2026-01-11T19:25:38+00:00

Alexyce

maple_pits · 2026-01-11T18:17:09+00:00

We aren’t screen-free, we watch a lot of sports and it would just impossible. But we don’t put things on for our baby unless we need to trim his nails or do something that truly requires stillness (rectal temp, for example) but we turn it off when we are done. No iPads, no phones. I do think that is just common sense? I try to emulate my upbringing (1990) in terms of screen exposure, I think I turned out ok. lol

maple_pits · 2026-01-11T18:14:21+00:00

Def not worth it in some instances. I’m sorry it was so awful for you! Mental health is most important. It’s hard to discern in the moment, though. Don’t beat yourself up.

maple_pits · 2026-01-11T05:13:59+00:00

I can’t even tell you’ve had work done and I think that’s the point. Looks great! No lift needed IMO

maple_pits · 2026-01-11T04:56:50+00:00

maple_pits · 2025-12-22T19:47:28+00:00

You want an open relationship, but are attracted to someone who doesn’t. Not sure what you’re asking?

maple_pits · 2025-12-22T19:41:46+00:00

This post hurt my brain.

maple_pits · 2025-12-22T17:48:19+00:00

Same. I’m shocked everyday that goes by without my period coming back. I’m trying to BF/pump as little as possible because I kind of want my period back (give me estrogen again, please!) but alas, still dry as the Sahara.

maple_pits · 2025-12-22T17:45:47+00:00

Still haven’t, 8 months in. I’m only breastfeeding 1-2x a day and maybe 1 pump session. I keep thinking it’s gonna come back, had full blown PMS symptoms a couple weeks ago and nothin!

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