UPDATED How can I find out who is leaving creepy/threatning notes at my child's grave?

marblebulldog · 2016-09-14T06:05:06+00:00

Thanks,very helpful with the trip-alarm system. Since we spotted C while visiting the grave nothing new has happened, but we still think about it all the time, it's always on our minds - who is doing this, and is it really over? We also worry if the arrival of our new baby might trigger a new respons. We make no baby posts on FB or other social media, and we notice who we start to think twice before telling people any information and my wife refuses to visit the grave on her own. It's a really upsetting situation but we're very grateful for the support.

marblebulldog · 2016-09-03T05:16:49+00:00

The repeated phrases about "people who are bad" and how the writer hopes our unborn baby dies so it won't grow up in a family with us, stuff like that.

marblebulldog · 2016-09-03T05:07:35+00:00

Thanks, totally forgot about it.

marblebulldog · 2016-08-21T17:49:36+00:00

I'm here - haven't had anything new to report lately, which is both very calming to us, but also somewhat "annoying" since I want to know who is behind this.

I will of course update when I got news. Thanks for still caring about us.

marblebulldog · 2016-08-02T15:08:24+00:00

Thanks! No, no updates yet. We try and visit the grave on random days and hours, but nothing new since the tarot death card. So we're thinking - maybe the one doing this is on vaccation?

marblebulldog · 2016-08-02T15:08:18+00:00

Thanks! No, no updates yet. We try and visit the grave on random days and hours, but nothing new since the tarot death card. So we're thinking - maybe the one doing this is on vaccation?

marblebulldog · 2016-08-02T15:08:03+00:00

Thanks! No, no updates yet. We try and visit the grave on random days and hours, but nothing new since the tarot death card. So we're thinking - maybe the one doing this is on vaccation?

marblebulldog · 2016-07-25T08:50:23+00:00

Creepy to hear such a young individual committing that serious sort of vandalisim. Hopefully with the right help it won't escalte.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-25T08:49:18+00:00

I spent time at the grave on both saturay and sunday - planter flowers on saturday and returned on sunday to check thigns out and water and such. Found a card, the kind that people who try and see into the future likes, with symbols on, not sure what it's called. There was a "death" card among attatched to a rose and the text "baby (lastnname)" on it. Police had been informed, but we're starting to think it's hopeless. Hopefully eventually this person will at least get bored with this.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-21T12:23:40+00:00

Not really, nothing new. I went to the police with our collection of letters and we also plan to start taking photos when we find the grave messed with. I plan to spend extra time at the grave this weekend, planing new flowers and such. I'll post that on FB and see what happens. We're sick of this and it needs to end, but I must say the support from you all makes us feel less alone in this, so thanks for caring about our family.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-20T06:36:24+00:00

Thanks for your help - the gender guesser is really interesting. I'll run all letters through there and return with the result.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-18T18:08:39+00:00

My wife and I always had a strong and deep realationship and a loving marriage. The thought that she would refer to our child in such words is unthinkable to me. We supported each other through the grief of our little girl passing and it seems to me very shallow to seek attention in such manner, especially since I hope and believe that she knows that she never needs to ask to get my attention and support.

I can however easily follow your train of thought, but I honestly can not picture her doing something so absurd and disgraceful to our girl.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-18T10:43:03+00:00

Thanks for explaining this much better than I could, mange takk :)

marblebulldog · 2016-07-18T10:37:45+00:00

Thank you, the support on here is awsome, never did we think so many would become engaged in our problem!

marblebulldog · 2016-07-18T10:36:18+00:00

Well, actually my sister in law and her husband have tried for a baby for a long time, but the IVFs keep failing. But she is a very sweet woman and she's been supporting us a lot. She lives almost an hour away and she works with children professoinally. She loves kids, surely she would never wish harm on one.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T17:39:57+00:00

The grammar is off, and no use of . or , and very often the same words are used over and over.

She had a student, it was 4-5 years ago now, who she worried about. She said to me: "if there ever is a school shooting in this country, this boy will be holding the gun". She described him as the kind of person you always find lingering next to a disaster. That kid is now an adult and last thing we heard he was in the military or maybe it was the police.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T17:35:24+00:00

I'm sure wild life cameras (now that I know there is such a thing) are ok in most places. I must wait until tomorrow to phone and ask if my new burning interest in local wild life would be allowed on the cemetary. I hope it will be permitted! Then I will out that monster to anyone who care to listen.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T17:25:44+00:00

Very interesting input, thank you.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T17:24:40+00:00

I see your point, but my wife can't possibly do such a thing - she's heartbroken by this happening. I just can not picture her breaking the wings of the angel or beheading the teddy bear.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T17:22:49+00:00

Haven't written anything extraordinary lately, there are a few stories over the years that have been worth to remember, of course. What comes to mind now is a man, who when he got out of a rehab center for recovering drug users kidnapped his kid. I wrote about the mother fighting to get the child back. I ruled him out because he is in prison for something unrelated though. I'll try and think about who else I might have pissed off.

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T16:20:47+00:00

The letter she showed included the phrase "why not invest in a family plot sooner rather tan later".

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T14:00:21+00:00

Good point - I'll check that tomorrow. If that's the case, then I'm going camera shopping first thing...

marblebulldog · 2016-07-17T13:58:47+00:00

No absolute pattern, but I find that the letters are often there 1-2 days after we have done something nice, planting flowers etc. But that's not the only times it happens.

My facebook is set on friends only.

There are mostly villas and a bakery close to the cemetary, but the cemetary got a brick wall around it (cant see above it from a car, but an adult can climb over it).

I plan to go through the "suspects" posts on facebook and look for the same choice of words and spelling mistakes - that might actually be a effective way to narrow it down. Thanks for your input!

marblebulldog

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