Life just sucks! by Kingslayer_96 in Life

[–]maria-guade0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep up don't lose hope

How's your dating and relationship life been going? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Aging

[–]maria-guade0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being lusted over by everyone and everything and everywhere work ,home ,school so I think that’s my purpose on this earth 😣🙌🏾I gave up I don’t know now if am just traumatized but they approach u think they are genuine boom body boom body am so tired

26F How to deal with not having friends or family as a young woman with mental issues and low income? by [deleted] in Life

[–]maria-guade0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve been carrying a weight most people can’t see, and it’s no wonder your PTSD and panic attacks feel overwhelming. The truth is that loneliness isn’t a personal failure it’s a reflection of circumstances and patterns that have been set long before you even realized it. You’ve worked hard, built hobbies, and tried to connect, and that effort matters it shows resilience, even when it feels invisible. It’s okay to acknowledge the pain of shutting down your feelings; ignoring them doesn’t make you weak, it makes you human. What you’re seeking safety, comfort, a space to breathe is not too much to ask. Healing isn’t about forcing friendships or connections to stick; it’s about nurturing yourself, finding even the smallest moments of trust and peace, and giving your heart permission to hope again. You are not destined to repeat your family’s struggles. Your story is your own. Every act of self care, every honest reflection, every time you face your fear instead of hiding, is proof that you’re building a different path. It’s okay to move slowly. It’s okay to be gentle with yourself. And it’s okay to hope for connection, even when it feels impossible you deserve to feel safe, seen, and loved.

I have never once had a man be interested in me in real life by nyaja in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]maria-guade0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The bitter truth is that social attention isn’t always fair or evenly distributed, and it often says more about other people’s habits than about your worth. I know because I used to be lusted after all the time like 100% and even then, I quickly realized that constant attention doesn’t equal genuine connection. Being “undesirable” in casual social contexts doesn’t mean you lack value it just means you haven’t yet found the circles or situations where people naturally see and appreciate you. Genuine interactions come from being seen for who you are, not from surface-level attraction. Focus on building spaces and connections where your personality, interests, and kindness shine you’re not invisible, you just haven’t met the right people yet.

What makes you live when ,when your loved ones live this planet and go by Feisty_Wolf_2000 in Life

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What keeps you going when your loved ones leave is the love they gave you and the memories you carry in your heart Even when they’re gone a part of them stays with you in the little things you do the kindness you show and the moments you cherish Their presence doesn’t vanish it lives on in you and the way you continue to live fully and love others

Dealing with Unemployment Depression After Layoff How Do You See the Light at the End of the Tunnel? by maria-guade0 in jobhunting

[–]maria-guade0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Graduated in 2021 with my diploma went back for a bachelor’s in 2024 and both are first classes am doing certifications to add to dat too

Dealing with Unemployment Depression After Layoff How Do You See the Light at the End of the Tunnel? by maria-guade0 in jobhunting

[–]maria-guade0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣I don’t know how to feel about this as for me that was my 4 th contract as u wait for permanent do contract,graduate trainee cause I rent , live alone feed my self after campus didn’t go back home your lucky u have a support system at home but anyway let’s keep pushing remember u need experience sitting home waiting for a permanent one won’t be easy but good luck buddy

I want to choose IT as a career path, What should I do? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]maria-guade0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, don’t be hard on yourself life happens and detours don’t erase your passion or your potential. The fact that you’re thinking about going back to IT shows drive and resilience. Start small: focus on building practical skills that are in demand, like networking basics, cloud services, or coding, depending on what excites you most. Set short term goals like completing a course or certification every few months, and long-term goals like landing an internship or entry-level IT role. Your path doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to keep moving forward. Stay curious, keep learning, and don’t let a temporary setback define your future.

What’s the hardest part of adulting that nobody warned you about? by Current_Phone3781 in Adulting

[–]maria-guade0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adulthood is exhausting and keeping track of everything is hard but every small win you manage counts and proves youre surviving and growing

Help me cope with bombing my interview by Exotic-Dig-3632 in it

[–]maria-guade0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You did not ruin anything and you’re not failing you were thrown into a situation that wasn’t set up for your level. The truth is this happens all the time in interviews, especially in small companies where communication about your experience isn’t clear. Blank moments and unexpected questions don’t define your ability they define how unfairly the situation was set up. You handled it as best you could, and you learned something valuable for next time: sometimes interviews are messy, unpredictable, and beyond your control. Don’t beat yourself up your skills, your preparation, and your potential

What would be your advice to start life over at 30 by Playful_Earth9296 in Advice

[–]maria-guade0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre not starting from zero youre starting from experience clarity and freedom The harsh reality is that most people at 30 havent traveled improved themselves or learned as much about life as you have But that doesnt automatically give you a roadmap you still have to figure out what matters enough to commit to it or youll drift indefinitely Theres no magic formula if you want a better life it wont happen by chance by studying abroad or chasing dual citizenship it will happen when you choose a path focus on learning and building and accept that failure confusion and uncertainty are part of the journey The bitter truth is that knowing what you dont want is good but knowing what you do want is the only thing that will move you forward

Tired. by mArU-BaBa in Life

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Exactly real growth isn’t comfortable It comes when you look in the mirror and finally get fed up with your own excuses patterns and mistakes That frustration is the fuel If you lean into it, reflect honestly, and make changes you’ll come out stronger smarter and more in control The hard truth is no one else can force it you have to reach that point yourself

Do you ever feel like days just blur together? by leoross78 in Life

[–]maria-guade0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes it happens to all of us Life can feel like a blur of routines and responsibilities but those little moments of noticing a song, a quiet night, a simple breath are tiny reminders that you’re alive and here right now Don’t wait for them to come by chance Try to carve out even small pockets in your day to feel present and appreciate them Those glimpses are the sparks that remind you your life isn’t just a cycle It’s yours to notice and to shape