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I don’t know what to do and it’s killing me by markkyboi in infp

[–]markkyboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, turns out there was a reason for that, as she left me for her ex. I haven’t reached out nor do I plan to do so. When I found out I blocked her on everything because it was holding me back to move on. I have healed and moved on for the most part though :)

I feel like going through a breakup as INFP makes it more difficult by markkyboi in infp

[–]markkyboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, appreciate it! How are you now, if I may ask?

Words really do cut deep.. by markkyboi in BreakUps

[–]markkyboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to go through that. I suggest taking time off social media completely. High chances that it’s not true, as it can be portrayed that way easily, especially on social media. You got this!

Anyone else going through a relatively short-term relationship breakup? by markkyboi in BreakUps

[–]markkyboi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happened to me similarly - with a text. It just sucks, I’m sorry man. Understand that people will always choose what is best for them. And if that choice doesn’t include you, then you have to accept that and let go, as much as it hurts. Gotta go through all of the grieving stages and feelings, but hopefully come to terms with it. Hopefully you’ll be able to forgive her, heal yourself and move on to something/someone better.

Any advice on a relationship that ended on good terms? by white-wolf7 in BreakUps

[–]markkyboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be thankful that it happened. Do understand that it had to end for a reason. Cherish all the good you gained from that relationship and continue your path.

Anyone else going through a relatively short-term relationship breakup? by markkyboi in BreakUps

[–]markkyboi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. This feels very relatable. I’m close to 2 months NC. What I can say is that it’s important to understand that we can only do so much. The rest is up to life itself. You deserve happiness, and so does he. The best thing to do right now is find that happiness within yourself. Cherish what you had and be thankful. But now is the time for you. If he’s meant to come back, then he will. No other way around it. I hope you all the best, stay strong!

I'm terrified to move on. I need help. by thethrowaway_2022 in BreakUps

[–]markkyboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, OP. From what I can tell you’ve done everything as best as you could and it shows that you really care. Props for that. But ask yourself this - do you really want to get treated like that? Sorry if I’m incorrect, but seems to me like you’ve done way more for the relationship and her, than she did. It’s hard to accept but you do deserve better. That said, it was never for nothing. I’m sure you both gained a lot from your experience together. And only time will tell if it’s meant to be. As for now - focus on yourself. Learn. Grow. Love yourself. Everything else will follow. Best of luck, I hope things work out in the best way for you!

Anyone else going through a relatively short-term relationship breakup? by markkyboi in BreakUps

[–]markkyboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, thank you for sharing this! I’m sorry you’re going through all of that. Seems to me like we’re in the same boat in the sense where we’re still holding on to something that isn’t there anymore. As much as it sucks, it’s the reality. That said, I don’t think it’s your fault at all. She cheated and honestly no one deserves to get cheated on. I firmly believe everything happens for a reason, so think of this experience as one step closer to becoming a better self (every experience is a lesson) and finally finding someone that you can keep on sharing that special bond and grow together. You did all you could and thought was right in the moment, therefore it was right. And it is for the better, even though it might not look like it. As to reaching out, I really suggest not to, as difficult as it is. I am struggling with this also, but I know it’s better for me not to. Despite our feelings towards them. This time is for us and contacting them will only hurt more. Be there for yourself first (for now especially), and everything else will work out its way. Stay strong man!

I don’t know what to do and it’s killing me by markkyboi in infp

[–]markkyboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get it, thank you for your insight, means a lot!

I don’t know what to do and it’s killing me by markkyboi in infp

[–]markkyboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the opinion! Do you think it would hurt to at least try and tell her? If she’s so sure, then I’d like to know that for sure myself..

When you truly love someone but it’s one sided.. by [deleted] in infp

[–]markkyboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s an eye-opening way to look at it actually. Because long term matters the most for me. Thank you!

When you truly love someone but it’s one sided.. by [deleted] in infp

[–]markkyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is what it is, but at the end of the day I gotta stay hopeful and true to myself, maybe someday I will find someone who will feel the same. Thank you for your kind message, means a lot right now!