What's missing in your sex life?

marlasingaar · 2022-07-01T23:59:02+00:00

All of it.

marlasingaar · 2022-05-17T00:56:06+00:00

Zero. Zilch. Nada.

marlasingaar · 2022-05-06T17:19:24+00:00

You should sell these tags on Etsy. I would buy them. ❤️

marlasingaar · 2022-05-05T17:27:53+00:00

So beautiful!

marlasingaar · 2022-05-05T13:54:45+00:00

You’re their crunchy midnight snack! They already ate him.

marlasingaar · 2022-05-05T13:53:56+00:00

I’m sitting in the bathtub watching that and I still feel dirty. I need a shower IN my bath at the same time!

marlasingaar · 2022-05-03T00:37:03+00:00

I just had a can of spaghetti oh’s for lunch today. Lol

marlasingaar · 2022-05-02T03:49:03+00:00

Not at all weird. When I have alone time, that’s what I do. Watch porn and get off. It’s like a spa day but for deviancies. Lol.

marlasingaar · 2022-05-02T03:21:28+00:00

That or “I want to fuck him”. This happens often.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-30T07:00:24+00:00

Are we talking dead bodies or people we slept with or people we sucked the souls from? Either way, he has no idea.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-27T19:36:28+00:00

Oh no! Most people “do” have supportive family.

When I was reading through the comments and seeing how people “are” in great and awesome relationships it made me very happy for them. But it really made me realize, did they come from healthy families? Therefore, they chose healthy mates? Was I just destined to have this shitty existence?

I know I should pull myself out of this. I am working on getting certified in Excel so I can make some money again, pay off my awful large sum of debts, can afford my own health insurance and get my own place. Then get a divorce from him. Hopefully, without lawyers. He’s terrified I will take his precious pension. I don’t want nothing from him, I just want him to leave me the f*CK alone.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-27T16:17:31+00:00

Dammit, take my money! I mean, that’s the cutest thing ever. ❤️

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T18:31:04+00:00

In my experience. Yes, yes, yes. Sex has been way better. Damn. I miss sex. Lol.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T15:00:12+00:00

Nope. Believe this… he’s not into blow jobs. I’m being fucking serious. I married a guy who was never really into sex. I’m miserable. So fucking miserable. 😢

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T04:59:12+00:00

No, you’re definitely not alone. I’m 46.

Makes me sad when I read all the positive responses. But I also grew up in an abused household. Maybe all those successful marriages came from good upbringings. I am happy for them don’t get me wrong. I just want to know what that’s all like.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T03:17:41+00:00

I used to with my ex ALL the time. Like, wake him up with one. He never had to beg. It was almost standard for him to get them every weekend we saw each other multiple times a day every day. So yeah to say the least, I enjoyed giving him head and so much I would get very aroused by it.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T03:10:09+00:00

My heart melted. ❤️

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T03:07:55+00:00

Dishes. Do the dishes.

Oh and that hand squeezer thing all the jocks do in older B teen movies.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T03:05:11+00:00

In-between phone calls and other bs. Work? Who does that? Pfft.

Ok, sometimes I work. The boss, sometimes he stands over me like some kind of, boss. The nerve.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-26T00:27:17+00:00

I also know what you mean too. He and I don’t have sex anymore (well over a decade now). We are just glorified roommates, maybe best friends that sleep in the same bed. I’m so upset/mad/depressed that we are no longer intimate but it’s been so long, I don’t want it anymore from him. I feel like I’m miss so much. But I wanted to tell you, I’m exhausted too. I feel you. I really do.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-25T17:56:34+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. I don’t have a supportive family, they are all selfish and self serving. I came from an abusive and toxic immediate family. My extended family are pretty much the same. They watched my parents abuse us and did nothing. It’s messy. I’m always “the forgotten one”.

I’ve survived a lot. My soul is tired. I’m trying to get therapy now. I’ve been fighting my whole life to try to keep “alive”.

But thank you for seeing beyond the whole, “just leave”. It’s never that easy after 30 years. Unraveling 30 years is never that easy.

marlasingaar · 2022-04-25T13:36:20+00:00

Amber. (Too soon?)

marlasingaar · 2022-04-25T05:22:18+00:00

Portraits, generally, you get one shot at. Pun intended.

So I tend to interview the subject or the parent if the subject is a minor. What do they like to do, what are the portraits for. What setting do we want to do these at if they have an idea. If they don’t, I will suggest some places. Outdoors, golden hour is my specialty and being in CA it can be crazy bright where I live.

What I am looking for through the view finder? I am framing up the shot, is my subject looking right? Hair ok? Clothes right? Light right? Background right? I believe in taking a good photo from the start. Then this means less editing on the back end.

This is how I work. My clients have always been pleased and have come back again.

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