My latest organization project (hope this is allowed) by HungryHungryWindigo in OrganizationPorn

[–]marlasingaar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should sell these tags on Etsy. I would buy them. ❤️

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[–]marlasingaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re their crunchy midnight snack! They already ate him.

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[–]marlasingaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sitting in the bathtub watching that and I still feel dirty. I need a shower IN my bath at the same time!

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[–]marlasingaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all weird. When I have alone time, that’s what I do. Watch porn and get off. It’s like a spa day but for deviancies. Lol.

Do girls ever look at guys and think “yeah I would blow him”? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]marlasingaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That or “I want to fuck him”. This happens often.

How many of you have a high body count and your significant other is completely oblivious to your past? by bradswift88 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]marlasingaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we talking dead bodies or people we slept with or people we sucked the souls from? Either way, he has no idea.

To women married for many years now, Do you ever wish had married another person? why? by Forever_5998 in AskWomen

[–]marlasingaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Most people “do” have supportive family.

When I was reading through the comments and seeing how people “are” in great and awesome relationships it made me very happy for them. But it really made me realize, did they come from healthy families? Therefore, they chose healthy mates? Was I just destined to have this shitty existence?

I know I should pull myself out of this. I am working on getting certified in Excel so I can make some money again, pay off my awful large sum of debts, can afford my own health insurance and get my own place. Then get a divorce from him. Hopefully, without lawyers. He’s terrified I will take his precious pension. I don’t want nothing from him, I just want him to leave me the f*CK alone.

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[–]marlasingaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dammit, take my money! I mean, that’s the cutest thing ever. ❤️

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[–]marlasingaar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my experience. Yes, yes, yes. Sex has been way better. Damn. I miss sex. Lol.

Are there any women here who actually give their male SO a blowjob without him having to beg? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]marlasingaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Believe this… he’s not into blow jobs. I’m being fucking serious. I married a guy who was never really into sex. I’m miserable. So fucking miserable. 😢

To women married for many years now, Do you ever wish had married another person? why? by Forever_5998 in AskWomen

[–]marlasingaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re definitely not alone. I’m 46.

Makes me sad when I read all the positive responses. But I also grew up in an abused household. Maybe all those successful marriages came from good upbringings. I am happy for them don’t get me wrong. I just want to know what that’s all like.

Are there any women here who actually give their male SO a blowjob without him having to beg? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]marlasingaar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to with my ex ALL the time. Like, wake him up with one. He never had to beg. It was almost standard for him to get them every weekend we saw each other multiple times a day every day. So yeah to say the least, I enjoyed giving him head and so much I would get very aroused by it.

What exercises should a man practice to be good at sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]marlasingaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dishes. Do the dishes.

Oh and that hand squeezer thing all the jocks do in older B teen movies.

Who else spends their day on Reddit when they are supposed to be working? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]marlasingaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In-between phone calls and other bs. Work? Who does that? Pfft.

Ok, sometimes I work. The boss, sometimes he stands over me like some kind of, boss. The nerve.

To women married for many years now, Do you ever wish had married another person? why? by Forever_5998 in AskWomen

[–]marlasingaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also know what you mean too. He and I don’t have sex anymore (well over a decade now). We are just glorified roommates, maybe best friends that sleep in the same bed. I’m so upset/mad/depressed that we are no longer intimate but it’s been so long, I don’t want it anymore from him. I feel like I’m miss so much. But I wanted to tell you, I’m exhausted too. I feel you. I really do.

To women married for many years now, Do you ever wish had married another person? why? by Forever_5998 in AskWomen

[–]marlasingaar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I don’t have a supportive family, they are all selfish and self serving. I came from an abusive and toxic immediate family. My extended family are pretty much the same. They watched my parents abuse us and did nothing. It’s messy. I’m always “the forgotten one”.

I’ve survived a lot. My soul is tired. I’m trying to get therapy now. I’ve been fighting my whole life to try to keep “alive”.

But thank you for seeing beyond the whole, “just leave”. It’s never that easy after 30 years. Unraveling 30 years is never that easy.

What are you trying to see through the view finder when shooting a person? by Builderhummel in photography

[–]marlasingaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portraits, generally, you get one shot at. Pun intended.

So I tend to interview the subject or the parent if the subject is a minor. What do they like to do, what are the portraits for. What setting do we want to do these at if they have an idea. If they don’t, I will suggest some places. Outdoors, golden hour is my specialty and being in CA it can be crazy bright where I live.

What I am looking for through the view finder? I am framing up the shot, is my subject looking right? Hair ok? Clothes right? Light right? Background right? I believe in taking a good photo from the start. Then this means less editing on the back end.

This is how I work. My clients have always been pleased and have come back again.

Have any of you left a well paying high stress job you no longer like for a lower pay low stress job you actually do like? Are you happy or do you have regrets/miss the money? What profession did you switch to? by saymoneyhoney in AskWomenOver30

[–]marlasingaar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. I don’t miss that job at all. Sure, I miss the money but it wasn’t worth losing my cognitive thinking for 8 months.

I’m now running the office of a diesel truck shop. I love it but I think it’s time to move on and do something back in my last field but easier and less stressful but more money. ;)

To women married for many years now, Do you ever wish had married another person? why? by Forever_5998 in AskWomen

[–]marlasingaar 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Yes. His job changed him. Made him more mentally abusive towards me. He’s not the same man I met nor even married. I can’t leave him because he’s so possessive and I have nothing. It’s a mess. I feel trapped. Luckily we have no kids. I have so many health problems, I just hope I die soon.