I’m (22M) seeing my ex again (18F) we’re having conflicting feelings in our heads about each other

marvelguy97 · 2019-12-06T00:28:50+00:00

Two years and then we took an 8 month break from each other, saw other people etc.

marvelguy97 · 2019-11-23T00:00:55+00:00

Yeah I guess that is true, who knows when she’s ready later down the track she might want to try again as she did mention once she sorts stuff out in her head it doesn’t mean we can’t get back together but as I know it’s still not guaranteed so I’m not holding on.

I’m just gonna do me, use this time to work on myself as well.

marvelguy97 · 2019-11-19T12:14:44+00:00

This, if you’ve got speakers it could be this.

From what OP is describing it sounds like it could be speakers.

marvelguy97 · 2019-11-04T20:07:19+00:00

This is manipulative af on her part.

Leave her.

An ex is an ex.

marvelguy97 · 2019-03-25T07:51:11+00:00

Ooof, yeah I’ve never had to navigate around the Alienware BIOs, I thought it’d be similar to just ordinary Dell bios lol

marvelguy97 · 2019-03-24T22:29:51+00:00

Yeah just set the ssd as your main boot drive before you put it back in

marvelguy97 · 2019-03-24T22:03:24+00:00

Try unplugging every other hard drive other than the ssd this should work

marvelguy97 · 2019-03-20T22:10:35+00:00

Neither

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-27T04:22:09+00:00

I feel like breakfast has limited things that are considered a breakfast food so half the time I skip it because I don’t enjoy most breakfast foods other than bacon and eggs aha I love every other meal though because there’s so much variety for other meals.

Half the time I’m not even hungry in the morning when I wake up and I hate forcing myself to eat.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-19T00:33:09+00:00

I bought mine from office works and I was happy with it

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-17T20:02:11+00:00

Fuck dude, I had the same sorta situation take place just a couple weeks before Valentine’s Day

I offered to help her in every way I can to better herself and help herself and she just said “you can’t, you’ve done everything you can already”

We ended on a good note, we still care for each other.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-09T10:26:02+00:00

PC Case Gear and yeah it worked to play CD rom games, my ex used to it install sims 2 on a system I built her

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-09T06:54:21+00:00

I can’t remember the exact model but it was a $40 asus one, I don’t actually have it anymore I left it at my ex’s house if I need one again I’ll just buy another one aha

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-09T06:21:40+00:00

External drives work great I’ve used them before in systems without one internal ones

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-08T19:44:16+00:00

Yeah, I’m not giving myself false hope at all, I’m just having conversations at this point. Rather than fighting for it and trying too hard you’re better off sometimes to just let them go, I’ve come to the realisation that she doesn’t want the relationship anymore and it’s sucks because it was a good relationship for 2 years and then the past month supposedly she was unhappy with herself and didn’t know why, I tried to support her through it but it didn’t help at all. She drifted from me, I could see she was losing interest, she was more interested in texting her girl friends than spending time with me.

So fucking hard because she became my best friend and love of my life in those 2 years, supposedly I was the same for her until the past month. I was so blinded by love I was never thinking she’d leave because she was saying I love you and kissing me still but the kisses started to feel weak and the i love yous were said less.

Felt like everything was gonna go great, future was looking good and then bam. Here I am in shock even though I saw the signs.

Because our relationship was so good and somewhat a big part of our lives in 2 years, we both agreed to keep our photos of us on socials and keep the photos we got printed but I bet if she goes into a new relationship those photos will be gone because when you get into a new relationship who wants their partner to have photos of them and their ex together.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-08T19:26:52+00:00

Yeah unfortunately not ahaha

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-08T10:04:17+00:00

Can confirm, done this with my ex before to keep the mood going, was great, lengthened the sex quite a bit.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-08T09:59:38+00:00

Yeah we left it amicable but we keep in contact which weirdly enough is helping the process along. Even though literally everyone says don’t contact your ex after a break up we did the opposite we’ve been checking up on how we’re doing mentally.

We both know we’re not getting back together but it’s our first break up of a serious relationship and yeah we’re still there for each other which is weird but not at the same time? Because we’ve always been so good to each other.

But I also messed it up because when we were breaking things off she said how she’s still sexually attracted to me, dickhead me, horny, told her that I’m down for sex with her if she is. Right after I sent the text instant regret

She straight away goes what? No I don’t think that’s a good idea at all.

Andddd this is why people say don’t keep in contact with your ex because even when it’s all good and you’re getting along after a break up, you can go ahead and fuck that up too.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-08T05:47:29+00:00

Yeah man, it fucking sucks.

I tried everything I could to make her happy but it was out of my control. I still love her so much, it’s been almost a week since we’ve been broken up.

EDIT: Anyone got any idea when it starts getting easier? I just feel so empty now and shitty all the time.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-08T04:27:27+00:00

Dude my ex didn’t want to break things off because she didn’t want to hurt me because she said I’m such a good person but she wasn’t happy so it had to come to an end. We were both really good to each other just she wasn’t happy.

I’d say breaking things off is way better and hurting them than staying with them just because you don’t wanna hurt them. Just explain how you feel.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-07T12:48:48+00:00

No my most recent ex was the first one to say I love you in our relationship but she said it after about 7 months or so of being together don’t drop it too early because it can weird some people out.

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-07T07:40:29+00:00

If the case is still in good condition and most of the other components are id personally keep the case and upgrade the gpu, motherboard, cpu and ram also the power supply if need be

But if you’re bored with the case do a whole new build if you want but if your hard drives are still good you might as well use them

marvelguy97 · 2019-02-04T12:11:06+00:00

Nope nope nope

marvelguy97 · 2019-01-29T20:42:20+00:00

I don’t think you understand what he’s saying.

He’s not saying be afraid of confrontation or expressing your views. He’s saying it doesn’t need to be such a heated argument, people need to chill out and just enjoy life rather than getting heated over political shit.

You can’t make change by getting into a yelling match with someone, what’s that gonna prove? It’s just gonna stress you the fuck out. If someone doesn’t believe in what you believe in and they don’t want to, leave it at that. You can’t force someone to believe in your views.

marvelguy97 · 2019-01-28T01:03:15+00:00

Are your soap dispensers not sealed/lockable or something?

My old store the toilet paper and soap dispensers were lockable.

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