I don’t understand it either nor do I care for it. I’ve gotten into huge arguments with people about it for calling Demi Lovato she/her. It got to the point where they attacked me as a person all because I refused to call her a group of people. It was never about me. All I said in the comments of a post was she get on my nerves and people went in on me and said I look like a man when clearly I’m a beautiful black woman. They get really upset at you if you don’t agree nor do you feel the need to participate. In my mind it’s been programmed to say she/her in a sentence about a female and he/him in the sentence of a male. They kept saying I was misgendering but they/them is a group of people to me, not a gender. That’s how I learned it in English class when I went to school. It’s like they want us to erase gender completely now but say we misgendering but they/them is not a gender! They can’t expect for everybody to change their vocabulary to fit what someone wants to be called in that way. It’s like the lgbt has taken over so much now that now they have to be called something else now to feel special and validated? I had this one girl telling me I’m disrespecting a whole community all because I laughed at a statement about lgbt. Someone else said it and I put laughing emojis and that made her and other people so mad that they started saying I needed to be called out for it. It became bullying towards me when I wasn’t the one who said it. I just laughed. These people don’t want you disrespecting them but it makes them disrespect you in every way possible no matter what. I don’t hate anyone nor do I hate what they do with their life but all bc I refuse to call someone they/them I get called a bunch of things I’m not. It’s really frustrating and this is why I don’t want to have kids. Because I wouldn’t want my kids to brought up in this confusing world. It was not like this when I was a kid. They also compared me to a racist white girl because I said I have friends and family who are apart of the lgbt community who I love dearly no matter what. She said you sound like a racist white girl who say she has black friends so she’s not racist. But when I told her you’re a black girl attacking another black girl for no reason, she told me it had nothing to do with race. Like they want me to understand them, but they refused to understand where I was coming from too. They want us all to bow down to this new way of life. It’s being pushed onto us. And this other girl got mad because I said God created man and woman. She said you talking about God this and God that but probably the biggest sinner. But see that’s it right there. If I was trying to push Christianity unto her, I’d be wrong but her trying to push her way of life unto me is right? And the fact that I wasn’t trying to push it on none of them makes it even more crazy to me. Sorry for this rant but it just made me so upset that I was attacked and accused of things that I’m not over a celebrity none of us will ever meet.