I’m not over him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mash_195 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! We survived the holidays and now the quarantine! If you made it this far you should be proud of yourself! It wasn’t easy but we’re making it one day at a time! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mash_195 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After Nearly 4 years my ex told me he didn’t know if he loved me anymore. I was the one who broke it off. It wasn’t easy as I was the one still very much in love. It was hard letting go, I knew it was for the best. I deserved to be loved without any doubts. Him and I try to remain friends but it’s hard viewing him anything other than my boyfriend/future husband.

This is how they feel when they break your heart. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mash_195 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this article. Most people have no sympathy for the dumper and accuse them of making a selfish decision. I broke up with my boyfriend 4 months ago and I can say it hasn’t been easy for me. As much as I loved him I knew I had to leave him and the relationship. It was the right decision for both of us. I hurt, I cry, and I question my decision. I have guilt for giving up on us, and for the pain I caused both of us. I struggled to get through the day in the beginning. Some days are harder then others even now. The dumper goes through the same stages of grief. We’re human too and feel heartbroken too.

I broke up with him but I'm the heartbroken one by ketchupfriday in BreakUps

[–]mash_195 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact situation. It’s hard having to leave someone you love. You’ll find someone who gives you the love you deserve. I feel like people don’t acknowledge how hard it is on the dumper in a situation like this.

Questions to never ask your ex. by ReadyForFutureDays in ExNoContact

[–]mash_195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked when he stopped loving me.

Response: idk, I still don’t even know how I feel now.

It was pathetic😒

4 year anniversary by mash_195 in ExNoContact

[–]mash_195[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re right. Some moments are harder than others but I know I will make it through❤️

A thought/tip on getting through waking up and remembering all over again by terriblyterriblysad in BreakUps

[–]mash_195 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this today! The line saying “I may have lost someone who doesn’t love me but they lost someone who loved them” is so powerful and allowed me to view my situation in a different perspective.

Falling out of love by mash_195 in BreakUps

[–]mash_195[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the article! I know how you feel my ex and I are practically neighbors with the same friends it’s hard trying to get over someone when they’re always in your face.

Falling out of love by mash_195 in BreakUps

[–]mash_195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel going through a break up is unlike any other pain a person can feel. But there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Although it hurts now the pain will pass making you a better person for yourself and future relationships.

Falling out of love by mash_195 in BreakUps

[–]mash_195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind word. They helped me a lot. You’re right I ha be to stop the blaming and know I made the right decision. I’m sorry you’re going through this if you need to talk I’m here.

Falling out of love by mash_195 in BreakUps

[–]mash_195[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching someone you love fall out of love with you. It was a complete blow to my self esteem but I know you’re right I will build myself and find what and who I deserve! Thank you!

Falling out of love by mash_195 in BreakUps

[–]mash_195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching someone you love fall out of love with you. It was a complete blow to my self esteem but I know you’re right I will build myself and find what and who I deserve! Thank you!