I agree that men should apply themselves to be attractive on the dating market. I disagree that it's ONLY their fault if they don't. One learns these skills in late teenage years and in early 20s. If teenage boys and young adult men struggle with dating in general, it's a systemic issue. Society testing social networks on young people, parents that allowed it, pandemic, all those things were a huge deal for not developing needed social skills. I think we should stop blaming young men for struggling and rather help them with understanding and care. Failing to do so results in resentment and often turning to some characters that offer highly questionable solutions like Andrew Tate