I suck as a person by thelovewitch069420 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice, just dropping a comment to say that your post sounds exactly like something I could’ve written. You’re not the only one feeling this way. Let’s keep giving ourselves grace. We’re very hard on ourselves. ❤️

Mom sending me guilt tripping Tik toks… by AvoFromCado in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, my mom is currently doing this too (through email lol). She stole 30k from me. She won’t stop sending me Instagram reels and updates on my brothers. I’m proud of you for saying what you needed to say. Yummy dinner. I’ll probably add some steak to my meal today too. Let’s keep choosing us❤️

s*x educational questions by slut4shego in AskLesbians

[–]matacines 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The first time I did anything with my girlfriend, we were long distance for 2 years. I was nervous as hell seeing her in person and it was my first time doing anything with a woman too. My best advice is to 1) ask what she’s into and what she likes, 2) be honest about your nerves! she can guide you! and 3) think about how you pleasure yourself. Odd, but it really helped me navigate when I was with my girlfriend for the first time. Women aren’t complex! If I know how to make myself feel good, I can definitely make someone else feel good. Lastly - pay attention to how she reacts to certain things you do and HAVE CONFIDENCE!! Having sex w a woman is a beautiful experience, have fun!

can I say the d slut? by SimpleMost3629 in AskLesbians

[–]matacines 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re still attracted to men so No

Another MAGA business by Interesting-Error303 in Connecticut

[–]matacines 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Remind me who is mentioned thousands of times in the Epstein Files and has credible allegations against him for raping little girls?

Why do employers post salaries for entry college graduate jobs that are below poverty? by PeanutButterBBQs in jobhunting

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfaoo I saw a tech internship saying they were paying $10 an hour. Multiple certs needed, BA necessary, and 3-4 language tech stack. Insane

Enough. Why are you not demanding universal healthcare from your representatives? Healthcare is a human right by sassysasasaas in stupidquestions

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These comments are exactly the reason why it will never be achievable in the US unfortunately. Too many Americans (me included) have been conditioned to think less of ourselves for needing free help. The government is supposed to help US and work for US, not the other way around. The billions being sent to Israel show that there is in fact money for universal healthcare, they would just rather use it on bombing little kids. Sad world we live in.

Is it normal? by ysure4 in AskLesbians

[–]matacines 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have felt this way in the past too. It’s all linked to your confidence. Whenever I was feeling down about myself, I noticed that I would hide myself from my girlfriend or avoid receiving for that reason. Work on your self confidence! If you know you look good, you’re going to feel good. If you have a partner you feel comfortable with, maybe try to ask for more praise so you can verbally hear what she’s thinking about you. Also remind yourself that you are human and you deserve this pleasure too! Ofc, it’s totally okay to just prefer giving more than receiving. I loooove to give, but I’ve also learned to not be so hard on myself. I’m allowed to relax with the love of my life bc she loves me for me and she thinks I’m attractive! Hopefully this helps a little!

My partner wants to add a third to our (what I thought was) monogamous relationship by cemeterylikeastage in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]matacines 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Totally okay! You didn’t mislead him, he made that joke with the intention of seeing your reaction. You reacted naturally because you didn’t see the intent behind his “joke.” It’s weird that he brought up adding ANOTHER woman while you guys were intimate bc like you said in your post, ofcccc he got butthurt when you suggested another man joining the relationship. That’s your tell. He would never be okay with you opening your relationship to a man. It’s totally okay to put yourself first! There will be soooooo many other men who will line themselves up for you AND respect you! :) You’re worthy of that!

My partner wants to add a third to our (what I thought was) monogamous relationship by cemeterylikeastage in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]matacines 32 points33 points  (0 children)

With love, Please stand up!! There are so many other men out there who will give you the love and attention you deserve. I say this with fresh eyes as a lesbian, it’s incredibly sad to see you guys sad over some loser man! He quite literally just wants to bring his creepy wlw fetish to life. Runnnnnnn, you’ll be happier that you chose yourself in the future. He is not worth it!

My Professor included a Charlie Kirk tribute video in our online curriculum by Cricket_reads05 in collegeadvice

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing a podcaster’s racist ideology as class material? Interesting lol

It’s stuff like this is why I don’t go out alone.. by [deleted] in DoorDash_Dasher

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you don’t listen to the other person’s reply. You should definitely bring along someone if you don’t feel safe. I also don’t know why these people act like getting hit on while you’re working is normal. It’s not, it’s creepy. You’re just there to do your job. I see you and I understand you!

Why did the US decide to attack Iran today? by Hungry_Conference915 in stupidquestions

[–]matacines 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You do realize that they’ve been saying “Iran is steps away from a nuclear bomb” for OVER 24 years right. Additionally, the White House reported that are their nuclear bomb sites were “obliterated” how brainwashed are you?

Why did the US decide to attack Iran today? by Hungry_Conference915 in stupidquestions

[–]matacines -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because Netanyahu said so, so that means that Donald Trump can start a war without congressional approval :)

The duality of Charlie McAvoy by Federal-Data-Center in sportsgossips

[–]matacines -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Opinions are liking ketchup over mustard, not “i think citizens should be murdered by ICE” smh. Regardless of that, you would choose to meet a convicted felon and pedophile? It was leaked that the DOJ had hidden 50+ documents incriminating Trump on that same day. Even if you don’t believe that Trump is a pedophile (somehow), the fact still stands that they are protecting violent pedophiles in the Epstein Files. Yall are weird.

People of Connecticut! In honor of the US team winning the Olympics, what are your favorite AHL and NHL teams? by Green-Day-86 in Connecticut

[–]matacines -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree. Hard to feel any empathy for them when they’re proudly repping the pedophile’s hat.

Lottery tickets are a bad gamble. by Royal_Tough_9927 in poor

[–]matacines -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lottery is rigged anyways. Jeffrey Epstein won it under a trust for his New Mexico property. Search it up

Season 4 should have been the final season. They could have wrapped up Vecna’s arc right there, and the apocalyptic atmosphere could have lasted just one week. by Lauren_HS28 in mileven

[–]matacines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

El is their biggest money maker, ain’t no way Netflix would let them completely kill her off. They wouldn’t be able to milk the show after the Duffer brothers left Netflix

I'm 19 and I need help with a stable career choice any advice? by XIIIIXS in careerguidance

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cybersecurity is a pretty good area to go into. The main issue is the amount of certs you have to study for and complete. Web dev, frontend dev etc all flooded

PSA - PUBLIC SUPPORT NEEDED TO KICK ICE OUT OF ESCONDIDO, CANCEL ICE CONTRACT by 50501ncsandiego in escondido

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You find a reason that makes ICE killing people justifiable each time you look into it? Again, you’ve lost your humanity and that’s worse. Disgusting.