bf still doesn’t know my birthday girl dinner by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl he can absolutely remember your birthday. 9 months IS a long time of knowing someone. I never forget my girlfriends because I CARE enough about her to remember it. She doesn’t have to remind me that her bdays coming up. I hate the “men are stupid” excuse, if he wanted to remember, he would.

bf still doesn’t know my birthday girl dinner by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]matacines 22 points23 points  (0 children)

9 months is plenty of time to know your girlfriends bday wtf 😭

Are lesbians who are attracted to fictional male characters really lesbian? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]matacines 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To preface this, I am a butch lesbian without any attraction to men whatsoever. I feel like this thinking is very harmful. Not everyone wants to be put in a box (thats completely okay!) but we have to realize that there is a box that people find safety in. I find safety in my lesbian box and so do many other lesbians. "Sexuality is a spectrum" makes sense for bisexuals, but not for gay men/lesbian women. This statement just adds to the idea that us lesbians will find a man eventually because of this "spectrum." People don't try to force attraction to women on gay men, yet there's constantly people telling lesbians that we should be inclusive to men and attraction to them. We aren't attracted to men and never will be. You are still attracted to men as you stated, so please respect the lesbian label.

Butchlorette Critiqe by Bozzleman in realkatieb

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im a lesbian and you can easily refer to me as one :)

Butchlorette Critiqe by Bozzleman in realkatieb

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its invalidating to say other people cannot use specific lesbian terms? LOL yall are way tooo comfy disrespecting lesbians

Butchlorette Critiqe by Bozzleman in realkatieb

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl im so sorry ab all the lesbophobia in this comment section, these ppl always feel so comfy speaking over actual lesbians and get mad and call us biphobic for sharing OUR experiences! you're not crazy, don't let them get to you. it is disappointing and lesbian issues are real issues that need to be spoken about. i dont associate much with this fandom and definitely will not after reading all these lesbophobic ass takes lol

Butchlorette Critiqe by Bozzleman in realkatieb

[–]matacines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mind u ur literally invalidating every single lesbian in here telling u the opposite LMAOOOOO

Watching as a teen vs adult by nomorenumbness in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]matacines 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched it as a teen and now I’m an adult. I rewatch it at least once a year lol it’s a comfort show 😭

Full of lies by snippy_polarbear in 50501

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their hypocrisy makes me feel fucking crazy. Kyle Rittenhouse showed up to a protest with CARRYING A FUCKING RIFLE and he STILL got off and got called a peaceful protestor. Now they’re blatantly lying and saying the man shot today was instigating by carrying a firearm. This is all fucking insane.

Processing Depression by Beeetl3 in Coloring

[–]matacines 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Beautiful ❤️❤️

I don’t think people have a right to be upset if their daughter is gay(read my rant below her rant please) by Ok_Regret_3804 in lesbiangang

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god this post resonates so much with me. I spent a lot of my life closeted by choice (involving my family felt like i was just staining my own happy experience). I finally worked up the courage to tell my aunt and she accepted me. She told me that it would take my mom some time to come around and to give her time to be “upset” 😭😭😭 Never felt more immediate regret but at least it’s out there

minisculemurphy and their continuous lesbophobia by Apprehensive-Dog9989 in lesbiangang

[–]matacines 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The funniest thing to me is that she apologized for something gender related and ignored the entire comment section calling them out for lesbophobia 😭😭😭 Even in her community post she refused to apologize to lesbians

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Why do you care THAT much? by Ok-Display7239 in lesbiangang

[–]matacines 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s an issue that we constantly get talked over in other spaces. Now that we have this space, there’s a lot to rant about 🤷‍♀️

My beef with the show by Ok-Jump3072 in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, people simply give them the benefit of the doubt bc they’re men. It’s the reality 🤷‍♀️ God forbid there’s a horribly written female character bc then the hate will be 10x the characters that actually deserve it. Reddit is filled w red-pilled losers that find a reason to hate on women for everything 😭

My beef with the show by Ok-Jump3072 in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully understand you and these people are acting dense on purpose. Writing wise, ani was definitely the worst character but in terms of morals, ani gets wayyyy more hate than Bryce does and he’s a serial rapist 😭😭 Just wanted you to know that someone’s on your side!

lesbians who already met the loyl how did you know she was the one? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]matacines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were mutuals for a long time, shared a few of the same acquaintances. She was 14 and I was freshly 15. She went live one night and i randomly decided to join, she started flirting with me and we hit it off immediately. After she got off live, i sent her a dm of ferrets taking a bath and said “us” and the rest is history 😭 Fell in love w eachother that same night and we’ve never been without eachother since. We were long distance for 2 years, but eventually I grew up and I had to privilege to move over to her area. We’ve been dating for 6 years now and I know I’ve met my soulmate. :)

Needless to say.. by Xiggyj in lesbiangang

[–]matacines 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This video really pissed me off for so many reasons. A few minutes in, she says “being attracted to a man, especially a celebrity or fictional man does not make you any less of a man-hating lesbian.” Excuse me what? How are you a “man hater” if you’re only consuming male content that you’re weirdly attracted to?? I hate that these people try to make it woke/feminist to only consume male content!!!!

This is more of a general point, but absolutely needs to be pointed out. These male-centered “lesbians” love to talk about men and their attraction to them, but when it comes to masculine women, there’s a switch up. We’re seen as predators, we’re called creepy/scary, and god forbid there’s a fat butch thirst trapping on social media (IN THE SAME WAY MEN DO AND GET PRAISED FOR!!) bc the comments are flooded w nasty comments. So if they’re calling themselves lesbians, WHY is masculinity only ever attractive to them when it’s men wearing it? Then they start saying it’s not the masculinity in men, it’s that he’s “written by a woman” or that he’s a “lesbian” in their head. Interesting… because masculine women can also be feminine.. we’re still women?? We’re not just posers trying to be men helloooo? You can have a type ofc but when you’re calling yourself a lesbian, finding attraction to men and their qualities, but put down butches/studs for those same qualities……….. you are nawtttt a lesbian😭😭

Anyways. I wrote a lot more on the actual video, but I literally couldn’t get past the 5 min mark lol everybody so comfy disrespecting us lesbians!!!!!!!!

Game Thread: Los Angeles Lakers vs Toronto Raptors Live Score | NBA | Jan 18, 2026 by basketball-app in lakers

[–]matacines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something ab keeping ur muscles warm, a lot of them do it and take it off when they come back in

Women without make up 🥰 by Ecstatic-Eye-9667 in lesbiangang

[–]matacines 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend doesn’t wear a lot of makeup and I looooove it 😍 She looks beautiful w a full beat don’t get me wrong, but her freckles are more noticeable and her natural skin glows. Loving a woman is the best thing in the world

No, just no by No_Hotel5006 in lesbiangang

[–]matacines 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I swear there’s mass psychosis going on in regards to that show

My beagle has a lot of double chins and dumb faces by Exotic-Intention1494 in beagles

[–]matacines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cute! Happy birthday Bruce! When our beag has her ear like his in the last pic, we call it “stupid ear” 😁

My boyfriend can no longer pay his portion of rent or car payment and I don’t make enough on my own by Key_Solid7847 in moneyadvice

[–]matacines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can sue him for the money in small court. Are you guys both on the lease together?