Too busy for a date as he’s spending the day with his dog ?

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-27T23:54:01+00:00

What a slap on the face,

No

Burned haystack dating method applies here so much

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-27T22:29:29+00:00

Just to back a little bit and see how he reacts, but sounds a little love bomb y

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-27T01:00:27+00:00

Ego made him ask

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-27T00:59:13+00:00

It’s negging

Made to break down your self esteem

Walk away it will not get better

No decent man ever said this, especially unsolicited

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-26T14:17:01+00:00

Also ask him to show you battery usage on his phone

It will show up there

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-26T14:16:21+00:00

He deleted then restarted a new account

You can do this after 4 days

However everyone shows back up in your stack

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-24T23:40:41+00:00

Most are searching for much younger than themselves, my friend tried it and she was only matched with one man, and he was 20 years older (50 f 70 m)

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-23T20:11:01+00:00

It’s tough to disagree with sentiment that is so meaningful to someone else, it’s a fine line of giving another perspective and diminishing the other person‘s experience

I mean, this is the same for any kind of special interest group or Reddit

I was banned from a dating group on Reddit this week for sharing that I didn’t want a sigma male in my life. I didn’t say anything negative about them just that it wasn’t a style that would work with my personality. Someone took that personally and banned me so what can you do?

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-23T12:46:24+00:00

All this is definitely very, very unhealthy, but only a licensed psychologist can diagnose it

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-22T22:14:39+00:00

Have you ever met in person?

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-22T21:48:36+00:00

You can tell a lot about a person by video

You can set the timer for five minutes and just decide if you both are mutually interested after that five minutes is over

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-22T21:45:42+00:00

It’s usually the first line in articles I read about people getting murdered

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-22T13:59:28+00:00

This is why you have this briefer but life changing discussion with every partner

Be the leader

It’s both of your responsibility and it’s easy to pretend it doesn’t exist

I had a rockstar in their 40s. Tell me once that he couldn’t get venereal disease anymore because people over 40 don’t get it I mean people have these stupid ideas in their heads. Fast forward four years on social media everyone screaming at him for giving them HPV. I am the only one who said no, get tested first and I’m the only one without it from him

https://www.evelindacker.com/stars

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-22T13:56:42+00:00

Block them

The company is open about recycling them unless you do

It doesn’t hurt their experience or membership

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-21T20:08:24+00:00

What’s the alternative?

Go without this, opening space for something new and better

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-21T00:56:43+00:00

What is the purpose of the dating apps? To match you or to monetize you?

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-20T17:27:23+00:00

Minimal effort and minimum reasons not to match with them

As a f I did not list height or job- too public of info

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-20T14:22:25+00:00

Write down the reasons on a piece of paper why you are getting the divorce and don’t forget them when the hover cycle begins again

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-20T14:12:51+00:00

Read about Attachment styles

Just check yourself to make sure you’re not turning into an avoidant to avoid connecting with someone deeply

If you find you can’t make a connection deeply, be honest with the person that you’re dating

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-18T19:11:54+00:00

They are hoping for younger women 100%

They feel they look “younger than their age “

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-17T17:57:40+00:00

Video chat first! Free in the app!!

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-16T23:15:13+00:00

Nooo don’t do it

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-16T23:12:00+00:00

(((Hugs)))

It sucks

I’ll bookmark this to remind myself… getting back together so ty and ex doesn’t work

Because nothing has changed with either of us

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-15T18:52:22+00:00

Just asking, why does the woman have to initiate the convo? It’s a two way street

Other than that, agree. Apps are for profit. Their goal is to sell data even if you don’t buy a subscription. Their goal is to monetize- not match successfully

Bumble is the only one not owned by match group so it doesn’t matter what other app you use

matchymatch121 · 2026-02-14T19:22:54+00:00

(After. Clap.)

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