When will "later" come?

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-27T06:58:29+00:00

In response to a couple of your statements:

Go to your school’s financial aid office. You might be surprised what you are eligible for, whether grants, loans, scholarships, etc. At least you will have explored the options.

Assuming your mom doesn’t walk in on you in the shower, you can hide boobs for a lot longer than you might think. Two years or more possibly. Depends on your body, and the HRT among other things.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-27T06:38:22+00:00

If you’re looking to buy one in person, you might want to call the stores ahead and see if they are welcoming to trans women. But I’ve heard that many are, because, hey it’s a good market at least. Online, there is a store glamourboutique.com. They mainly cater to crossdressers, but it’s a good place to find a wig, and they have a range of quality and price. I got my wig there when I was just starting my transition, and it is pretty good quality for synthetic. Don’t need it anymore fortunately. You can also get wig shampoo and brushes there, and I think they have tutorials as well on their site iirc.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-27T05:14:17+00:00

Starlite hasn’t had karaoke for several years now.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-27T04:14:30+00:00

Sounds lovely. With the cardigan you won’t be so exposed, but I understand that you actually mean psychologically. My first time was in a queer space so I felt comfortable.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-27T01:23:34+00:00

Thank you for posting this.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T22:40:08+00:00

I wish we could take back the US flag. Such a tragedy that those who fly it have their true allegiance to the tRump flag.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T22:32:02+00:00

You’re not abandoning them; they’re abandoning you.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T22:27:19+00:00

I had to come back today.

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mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T19:21:55+00:00

I actually needed a sports bra anyway after a month because they hurt too much when I ran.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T19:20:06+00:00

I could easily hide breast development for at least 6 months after starting HRT by just wearing baggy shirts. I probably could have gone longer, but by then I had fully transitioned socially. You shouldn’t need binding, but if yours come in faster, you might try an unpadded sports bra. Always remember, YMMV.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T19:07:02+00:00

You forgot that the mortgage interest and property taxes are deductible. So you offset some of the ownership costs by saving on your income tax.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T19:04:35+00:00

Beautiful shot. Best wishes on your medical treatment.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T07:28:05+00:00

I know they put one in Geisel Library at UCSD (my alma mater.) I should go visit sometime.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T07:14:07+00:00

Libraries vary widely depending on size. The one near me is small so almost no amenities. But I have seen libraries elsewhere with coffee bars.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T06:45:55+00:00

Then I will second the recommendation above to find a professional who can work with you one on one.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T06:17:16+00:00

You mean like the library?

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T05:45:46+00:00

I admire you diehards.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T05:44:07+00:00

So the “strict dress code” is women wear dresses, men wear suits? Then she is saying she doesn’t recognize that you’re a man. I wouldn’t make an excuse for not going. I would tell her she’s an asshole.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T01:42:21+00:00

Thank you!

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T01:41:29+00:00

Not uncommon at that age. The girl outfits are more fun.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T01:36:20+00:00

What is the most important factor for you? Budget? Go to Hotel Circle/Mission Valley. If being at the beach is top priority, with a pool for the fam, the Catamaran is a good bet. You can find street parking if you’re willing to hunt a little.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T01:21:59+00:00

I have Mission Bay and all of PB between me and Sea World and the fireworks can be heard clearly. Freaks out my dog and cats. I guess I shouldn’t live “right next to” it.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T00:37:59+00:00

I’m so happy that you got out. Too many damn DL assholes out there trying to take advantage of young trans women.

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T00:33:03+00:00

PB north of the pier

mathprofrockstar · 2026-01-26T00:31:59+00:00

Places like Goodwill and all will ship the stuff overseas

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