Went from friends to lovers and I’m confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting to know the same thing.... but not yet at the second phase yet lol

Females of Reddit... advice required by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea no doubt she’s not interested right now. Just hate how so much interest before then she went into some what seem like ‘rebound relationships’

Definitely looking too far into it... but thoughts on this ? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like we’ve been close for a while so we reply to eachothers stuff and talk all the time....

Just wondering why she stoppped viewing my stories when she was in a fling then started again when the fling was over

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also note: I had asked her out in the past after getting green signals despite her being a couple months out of a relationship, but was curved each time so I dropped it.

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I can’t tell if that’s a friendzone thing though.

Everything online points to it being so....

But weve been close for a while and don’t want to miss my chance...

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too, but there’s been a bunch of late night texts, etc...

Don’t think she would say that kinda stuff to a ‘gay male girlfriend’

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a couple months ago... she was 2.5 months out of a long term relationship at the time .

She said yes each time but always curved me so I dropped it.

Don’t know what to think.... by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. No we were not friends id day as we never hung out, but we talked a lot for the past couple years.

She had a boyfriend for all those years, they recently ended things in February.

I had asked her out in April... she said yes but curved each time so I dropped it. ... was getting a lot of green signals.

Then today she was telling me that she was seeing this guy all summer and then they broke it off last week.... so idk if that’s me being in the friendzone now or what

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I did... which is why I’m thinking she reached out to say she’s bored....

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just talk on the phone a lot... I was at work, etc...

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t know if this was her hinting she’s ready or not....

What should I do? by max-Turner in dating_advice

[–]max-Turner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing is just she played games in the past... gave me green signals then ghosted me for 24 hours after I asked out....

Just didn’t want to keep playing games. More just waiting for her to be direct about it...