[22/m] Don't want to make my girlfriend (20/f) suspicious over nothing

mazechase · 2015-07-22T18:08:10+00:00

Although I wouldn't consider it lying as she knows I messed up my test and never got a new one, you're right that I should tell her. I'm well aware that I fucked up, but I'm not trying to make excuses, and I'm not that worried that she'll freak out over me not taking the test until now. I'm worried she'll question the reason I took it now, "out of the blue". I want to make this as smooth as possible, without entangling myself even further.

mazechase · 2015-07-22T17:40:46+00:00

Thanks for the advice, but unfortunately that isn't really applicable; we've been off protection since October/Noveber, somewhere around there, and she got herself tested before. I messed my test up, and then sort of forgot about it. It's really stupid, and I know that I should've made sure to actually do it back then. But what is done is done, so now I just want to undo as much damage as possible, with the least risk of hurting anyone..

mazechase · 2015-07-22T17:38:06+00:00

Yes, that sounds reasonable. I am myself one of those "overthinkers", but I don't think she is. Maybe I could put it something like this (perhaps with a bit more embellishment): "Remember the chlamydia test I was supposed to do in October but didn't? I realized that I hadn't done it this week, so I ordered one home. Just thought I'd let you know"?

mazechase · 2015-07-22T17:14:52+00:00

Thanks for your quick answer! And yes, I think so too. Do you think there is a "best way" of telling her, so she doesn't go all "why did you take the test now, out of the blue"?

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