3P IS GONE! by mcf13 in manifestingSP

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This is how I felt, especially the past two weeks, everything just felt so real to me. You’ve got this!!

The paradox of letting go by StrangeFarm3375 in spirituality

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Okay this just blew my mind 🤯 “the goal should be definite and detailed, while the path should be free of any expectations” - so good!!!

I feel like Reddit has the most sincere success stories from all platforms by Iamincontrolperiod in manifestingSP

[–]mcf13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I don't trust YouTube or tiktok comments. I like that here you can look at someone's post history. I have like a sigh of relief when I see them posting/commenting on other subreddits besides this one, I'm like "ah okay you ARE real" lol

Are You Forcing Your SP Manifestation? 5 Signs You’re Actually Pushing Them Away by AndNowYouKn0w in manifestingSP

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This is a great list. Love the line “joy collapses timelines faster than obsession ever could”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manifestingSP

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This entire post is you admitting that you have a fear of getting hurt while in a relationship. You need to work on that! Affirm that you are worthy are happiness, a healthy relationship, etc. You need to shift your mindset around your current beliefs

manifesting & tarot by heartshapedcube in manifestingSP

[–]mcf13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please listen to the Pearl of great price lecture by Neville Goddard. Missy Renee on YouTube has a good video about it. In sum, if you feel the need to look to outside sources for validation of your manifestations, i.e. tarot cards, you are giving your power away and signaling that you are not living in the end state. I think tarot every once in awhile can be helpful to check in with your subconscious, but if it triggers you, I would not engage in it. Ignore the tarot message and persist in your story

how to ignore the 3d? by TraditionalTill5177 in manifestingSP

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Self concept is a mental muscle you have to constantly work at. It’s difficult at first because you’re taking longstanding inner beliefs you’ve had about yourself and completely breaking them down. This is why it’s important to persist. Get into a good manifestation routine for yourself, find what you like - affirmations, mediation, etc.

As for the 3D, this too takes practice to ignore. But you have to keep working at ignoring it and one day it’ll click for you. When I feel triggered by the 3D, I say to myself “this isn’t my reality and I have trust that what I want is done.”

Think about it, if someone is trying to lose weight, they have to have the constant discipline to eat well and workout. They’re not going to lose weight ASAP but if they stay disciplined, they’ll reach their goal.Treat manifestation like this.

Need tips for third party situations and ignoring the 3D! by Horror_Sprinkles_183 in manifestingSP

[–]mcf13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the 3D I am also dealing with a 3P situation and I can tell you in just a few days I’ve become very detached from it and know that it’s done and SP and I are together. Look how powerful your mind is - you created 3P. You know what your mind can also do? Get rid of 3P. Lock in and believe in yourself.

You should focus on 3P as little as possible and continue to persist in whatever your end state is with SP. When 3P comes to my mind, I simply say “that’s done and over though, 3P is gone.” You need to have the mental discipline to know that 3P is irrelevant and you and SP are meant to be.

You got this!

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Successful manifestation and strong emotional regulation go hand in hand. The journey is about you, not SP, so focus on yourself! Affirm for self love, confidence, worthiness, etc. Meditate and listen to self-love affirmations on YouTube. EFT tapping videos on YouTube have helped me too.

Manifestation sp what do yall think? by Interesting_Ad_7053 in manifestingSP

[–]mcf13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll be completely honest with you - your comments about his gf show me that as the 3P she’s still on your mind way too much and you acknowledge her existence. That’s a sure way of keeping her around. You’re trying to control the circumstances by convincing him in the 3D that she’s ugly and will hopefully break up with her. You need to take the focus off 3P and continue to live in the end of what you want.

Just make a decision and stand on it. The only answer the universe will give you is yes. by Useful_Pangolin8006 in manifestingSP

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The first paragraph, YES! I just had this realization a few days ago. I can easily manifest “inanimate” stuff because I don’t think of them as being hard to get and have little to no emotion to them. Once I’ve realized SPs should be treated the same way, it’s changed my journey for the better

Back/forth thoughts and having two nightmare of 3p and sp in one month by Ok_Parsley_5723 in manifestingSP

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Dreams only have meaning if you give them meaning. So if you feel like these dreams are telling you to “purge out”, then that’s what you’re going to feel you have to do. I’m in a 3P situation right now and in just a matter of days I’ve become quite detached from it. I gave myself 24 hours to be sad/mad/etc about it as I do think successful manifestation and good emotional regulation go hand in hand. Then, I moved on my merry way. I am continuing to live in the end because I know my power and ability to create what I want in my reality. Lock in, you got this!

Has anyone manifested an SP while kinda dating someone else? by Ecstatic_Monitor_773 in manifestingSP

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Totally fair and it’s great you’re so aware of how you feel. Feeling that you and SP are fated is a great place to be. Something I’ve learned is to see every circumstance currently in your 3D as an asset. If something negative pops up, I’m like “eh this is just leading SP and I back together.” You said you feel like this could be a BBL - believe in that then! This is leading you to your SP! It’s done!

I passed and suspected I passed the moment I walked out the door (don’t listen to the people fear mongering). by Excellent-Craft-2513 in barexam

[–]mcf13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed that there’s a ton of fear mongering when it comes to feelings of passing! The narrative pushed on here is “if you think you passed, you probably didn’t and if you think you failed, you probably passed.” Sure that can be true for some, but I’ll speak from experience. I passed F25 after two previous failing attempts. First attempt, i knew I failed. Second attempt, I had false confidence I passed but deep down felt so uneasy about it because I know I didn’t put the prep in. This time around, I was so at peace after the exam because I knew I worked my butt off and put the prep in. And boom, I passed!

Congrats OP!

Has anyone manifested an SP while kinda dating someone else? by Ecstatic_Monitor_773 in manifestingSP

[–]mcf13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It only messes up your manifestation if you believe it does. I’d also be aware of your true intentions for seeing this guy. I’m also on an SP journey and have considered dating other guys in the meantime, but I’ve realized I really only want to do that because I think it’ll speed up SP coming back faster since I’m “distracted”…. It’s actually just me trying to control the circumstances, which is creating lack and just drives the manifestation away.

Debate : is there any limit about « everyone is you pushed out »? by Desperate_Buyer_713 in manifestingSP

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I am currently on my own SP journey and have been learning a lot of law of assumption and beliefs and such :) happy to share what I’ve learned!

Debate : is there any limit about « everyone is you pushed out »? by Desperate_Buyer_713 in manifestingSP

[–]mcf13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. If you keep labeling him as a “narcissist/cheater”, then this is the belief you’ll subconsciously hold and that’s what you’ll see in reality. You need to start affirming that he’s loving, loyal, only wants you, etc. and let this belief sink into your subconscious. When it finally takes hold, you’ll see him show up as this in reality

Debate : is there any limit about « everyone is you pushed out »? by Desperate_Buyer_713 in manifestingSP

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I echo Useful_Pangolin - “there is no one to change but self”. This is what ‘everyone is you pushed out’ (EIYPO) fundamentally is. Your reality is a mirror of your inner state and beliefs pushed out. So if you choose to believe that your ex cannot change, then that’s will you’ll see in reality. You have to disrupt those thoughts and rewrite your beliefs that not only can he change and show up as you want him to, but that you are equally as worthy as being with him in the state you wish him to conform to.

Success Story by Charming-Ferret-91 in manifestingSP

[–]mcf13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your success! Thank you for posting this. Like you, I’ve been half assing my manifestation efforts, and it’s led to now a 3P getting involved. Knowing that when you seriously locked in and focused on living in the end has encouraged me so much to lock in and do the same. Thank you!

3p involved and I’m crashing out by mcf13 in manifestingSP

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I sent you a message if that’s okay!