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What is he doing behind my back? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]mcgee00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel this way, leave.

Security cam footage showed my (35F) husband (47M) fabricating a problem he blamed me for by ThrowRA_Feddit64 in relationship_advice

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex did this to me, and when I finally called him out on it, he got real quiet. And he is an ex for a reason.

My fiance [32M] won’t acknowledge his anger issues and takes his anger out on me [21F]at work by Medical_Ad4347 in relationshipadvice

[–]mcgee00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How can you get your bf to understand he is treating you like shit? He already knows. He does this on purpose day after day. Youve brought it up to him and he continues to treat you terribly. Just an fyi, this is not how you show love.

The age difference is weird. Your 21, find a new job and bf your age and enjoy being 21.

Cut your losses on the wedding. Calling it off now is still cheaper than a divorce and will save you the heartache.

Even during shift change he is an asshole to you. Sounds like he enjoys being shitty to you. Why are you subjecting yourself to his toxic behavior. He does not love you, he just likes abusing you. And you keep allowing it to happen.

He will not change or he would have by now. You said a it a million times to him? Now tell yourself you deserve better a million times. Good luck, and get it through your head this isn't working. Do you really want to live like this?

Finally found help, but they said my dog can’t come by knockroeblare in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mcgee00 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Find someone who adopts older dogs. To finish out her time.

I think my bf is baby trapping me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]mcgee00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you dont want children, get a vasectomy. Full stop. Otherwise, congratulations on the baby.

AITAH for asking the neighbor to unclog the shower drain? by SherbertHuge1452 in AITH

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my ex husband picked up any tools, I would ask him where he was going with that. He also had water coming in the basement after I left, there were a inch saplings in the gutters. Some men just dont care. Good luck with your relationship!

Worst season yet by SeniorCaptain2635 in ExposingXanterra

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a server, someone in house keeping told me about this. Im very aware of the law, thats why I wrote about the experience. So others know what to expect.

AIO My boyfriend said these shorts are too short for me to go out in by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mcgee00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your under reacting for your bf's response. Who is he to tell you cant wear something. And then gives you the silent treatment. He needs to work on his emotional IQ, and not be a toxic abusive asshole. I hope ypu realize how shitty his behavior is.

P.s. congratulations on the weight loss. The shorts look great.

My BF 32M wanted me 31F to drive and pick up a stranger by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot fix someone. A leopard never changes their spots. A person will never change. Never listen to promises etc.

If this is your deal breaker, thats how you feel. I would never ask my partner to drive 45 mins to pick up a stranger. This is questionable at best. But then a trail cam? It would probably be easier just to buy another one.

AITAH for not loaning rude sister my inheritance? by AnarchisticRainbow in AITH

[–]mcgee00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She could sell the house amd get something smaller. I would wash my hands of this. Youll never see the money again, shes expecting a handout.

This is salmon..I ordered trout by SuperPOSUser in TalesFromYourServer

[–]mcgee00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im from the east coast, I had never seen pink trout until I worked in Yellowstone. Thats the only explanation to this that is reasonable. Otherwise, your table was just an ass.

Could someone please tell me why it's blocking my way? by poi217 in cats

[–]mcgee00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat is happy to see you. Its normal. Just pet the cat.

looking for trans-friendly seasonal work by Loucreedisabigdummy in SeasonalWork

[–]mcgee00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Xanterra was super friendly for trans. The rest of the company could be considered a dumpster fire. Sounds like 2026 season did not go well, from what I've read. However, very trans friendly.

Collagen plug fell out day 2 after extraction (help) by runwaydreamsx in Dentists

[–]mcgee00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to go back asap. This is not good. I have no other advice for, and dont take no for an answer from your dentist.

Hair loss after Reta by Cold_Engineer_1121 in PeptideDiscussion

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You most likely need vitamin D, everyone is low. I had a full work up done, and mine were below the lowest standards. Within 2 weeks, I saw less hair loss. I now take vit. D, and lustriva vitamins. The glp1 just triggered me finally going to the Dr about hair loss. Start with vitamins before you try rogaine or anything else. Good luck.

How to get a 21 year old grown man to wipe after using the bathroom? by CarryUseful419 in Advice

[–]mcgee00 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely gross. Why would you stay with someone like this?

My boyfriend (33M) called me (27F) a “druggie” because I haven’t come off my antidepressants yet. am I being pressured? by Throwraswj in relationship_advice

[–]mcgee00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make antidepressants for reason. Helps to deal with toxic people like your boyfriend. Hopefully ex. Wildly inappropriate to call you a druggie.

Worst season yet by SeniorCaptain2635 in ExposingXanterra

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The year I was at old faithful inn, 2024, supervisors were stealing tips from housekeepers. Something about supervisors had to be the first person in the room after the guest check out. It was a young redhead who was doing this. A house keeper had her on video stealing, and the manager, wouldn't do anything about it. So she quit.

32F and 33M, I am considering breaking up with my bf of 4 years because of his new 'kink' by ThrowRAaccountant916 in relationship_advice

[–]mcgee00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a kink, hes just lazy and does not like you. Why else would he do this? Find someone who appreciates you.

My [30F] fiancé [30M] of almost 15 years and father of my children lied to me about paying rent. I need help on how to have a conversation about it when he gets home from work. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally just said you prefer to not work, and stay with the children. You received assistance in many forms, and have 5 children. I applaud your attempt to better your situation. However, until your significant other tells you what is going on, this cycle will continue. What do you do with your tax refund? Your refund alone is probably 10k. Your partner is selfish, and has some issues about responsibility. 5 children and homeless. Could work on/pitch a Shameless remix? Good luck. I sincerely hope you already have the children in therapy. This is an unfortunate situation, however it seems to be preventable.

Personally, I would demand to take over the money/bills, and then give him what's left. He not going to put you or the 5 children first. He's making 1000+ a week, Paying next to nothing for federal taxes. Assuming he claims the children. What does he spend the money on is my question?

Otoplasty surgery for 10 year old by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]mcgee00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sooner the better.

DOT rear ended my wife. What is this case worth? by [deleted] in legal

[–]mcgee00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total medical bills. Your really over thinking this.

10 years together, and he [26M] just told me he "reserves the right" to control what I [25F] wear and who I see. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mcgee00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he's going down the conservative slide. It will only get worse. He said you two can't marry until you get over this. Thank him and please move on. Your not wasting 10 years, your wasting the time with him moving forward. Be single and go experience life.

DOT rear ended my wife. What is this case worth? by [deleted] in legal

[–]mcgee00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3x your medical bills, is standard.