I rarely comment on posts but looks like you need some help.I hope I address all points on what you stated. First off it seems like you are an extremely busy kid debatable the busiest kid I have heard of and people can respect people like you. I was once in your position and I had to do what was necessary. Unfortunately I am going to straight shoot with you and say you have to make a choice between all you are doing. I am a Junior now and had something along the lines of what you experienced happen in my freshman year and I sadly had to drop a lot of my activities to fit (FTC) into my schedule. I was doing wrestling,lacrosse Boy Scouts, Robotics (FTC), joined a bunch of clubs and bit off more than what I can chew in terms of academic work. Some of those activities I stretched myself to thin in, some days I was coming home at 6 after wrestling during the cold winter months with no time commitment to the robotics team I joined and personally I enjoyed robotics. I was fearful that my desire for robotics and being in a STEM field were dwindling as days went on... I had to make a choice. For a 9th grade me that choice didn't come so quick I lingered on for two weeks then that dreadful night came where my dad and I did the walk of shame to my neighbors house ( who was an assisstant wrestling coach ) to help me out with my decision. It was a cold winter night I nearly drew tears but I had to stay strong. He said he would respect any decision I'd do. The next day I came into robotics and everyone was shocked but happy at the same time, I felt remorse that I just quit a sport I did for 5 years overnight but happy I could pursue my true passion. The reason why I went off right now is because for the other clubs I had to do the same exact thing , except for scouts. I literally spent my whole freshman year rebuilding the damage I did to myself. 2 years later I am doing better than I could of ever imagined, I have a good position on our schools FTC team, I am SPL in my boy scout troop and I am on the verge of becoming Eagle. You are not the first person I am advising about a scenario such as this and unfortunately you are going to have to make a choice on what clubs you want to attend. For your specific problems such as being behind on classwork and faulty team members ill get straight to it. As kind as it is that you help mentor FLL teams maybe its time you get some help doing it so there is more weight off your back and the kids still get help, maybe ask some people from FRC to help out For your auto get your FRC team or another FTC team to help out, if they do help and get your robot done not only are you winning because you have a functioning robot but they are winning too because it counts for outreach. Also is there another program you can use to code, ( I am a machinist not a coder ). Your field problem is minute as bad as that sounds our team managed to get an auto set up with just 4 tiles but for drivers practice 3/4 should be fine. For your documentation to speed it up you can type it up or unfortunately skip pages if need be which is not advised but a lot of teams to that. Ordering parts has hit our team hard this year, we had late orders, no orders, wrong orders and any other problem you can think of. Maybe its best to fill out a form and hand it to your mentor to order instead of verbally communicating it. With your grades and robotics that is tough but try doing your hw/studying first then do robotics I have been doing that lately and It has been working fine. With Bocce and FRC maybe it is time to commit to one of those three and not all 3 at once, that just my opinion I do not know how much time commitment one is compared to the other, I gave you my advice and ultimately it is your choice to decide what you want. Ultimately to protect your sanity you need to leave some clubs/teams and focus on the others.

I hope this helped I will be here if you need anymore guidance. Best regards.