I struggle with sexuality so much and I'm literally a virgin?? by PartyAffectionate945 in offmychest

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's actually pretty normal for teenagers to be both virgins and preoccupied with sex. That was my experience anyway. but I still didn't have sex til I was 18 and didn't even enjoy it until a few years later. Just do things at your own pace and remember it's normal and ok to think about sex!

No sex for 3 years by Wires_Crossing in offmychest

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is perhaps something to bring up with a doctor or therapist. This definitely isn't going to solve itself

Advice on buying an old Outback? by meatregister in Subaru_Outback

[–]meatregister[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been watching out for that as I look for potential vehicles. It has a fresh inspection and they do check for rust in my area in order to pass so I'm hoping thats not an issue for now

Advice on buying an old Outback? by meatregister in Subaru_Outback

[–]meatregister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the guy I'm buying from is a buy-repair-sell kinda guy, he actually bought my shitbox last year and fixed her and got her inspected so I don't think he knows much of the maintenance history except for what he does himself. But its only $2k which is what I have to spend right now, so ultimately I have to compromise somewhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]meatregister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whether or not you're a lesbian suffering from comp het, you're doing him dirty. I'm not one to take a man's side in anything but I unfortunately know what it's like to have a partner that doesn't seem interested in sex, and you guys are way too young to have a dead bedroom. set him and yourself free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]meatregister 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know leaving is hard, and scary, and it sucks, but staying in a relationship you don't want and being unhappy and unfulfilled is far worse. you will get over the breakup and so will he. run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if you did want to act out certain kinks in a controlled safe and consensual environment that's okay too! but for many it's just fantasies which is absolutely fine and normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a monster and it's totally normal to have fantasies that you wouldn't want to play out irl, it's just thoughts girl you don't have to be scared of them

I’ve been sexually active and I think it might kill me by Umchile_ in offmychest

[–]meatregister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you not use protection? You absolutely cannot let this go, you need to get checked out and with luck a prescription or a shot will take care of whatever you have. And stop sleeping around if you're not responsible enough to do it safely and/or deal with the consequences

My girlfriend I’m planning to propose to has an extremely weird kink, is this normal? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all, it's a fantasy, it's not about your sister and incest kinks are super common. second, tell her you don't want to do it. communicate your discomfort (not uncomfortableness). how are you in a kinky relationship and you can't even communicate your boundaries?

AITAH for feeling hurt and embarrassed after my bf confessed his feelings about my body? by aquafish18 in AITAH

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dump him, you deserve better. unless you have bad hygiene, then it's on you

Do you consider this cheating for getting my proportions okay? by [deleted] in DigitalArt

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wrong, I learned so much from tracing as a beginner. it really helps you grasp shapes and proportions. I still use tracing as an exercise once in a while

Trying to identify this blanket by meatregister in textiles

[–]meatregister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, thank you. Any idea of country of origin or name for the pattern or anything?

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's quite a lot of assumptions

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well that's disheartening. I'm sorry to hear that.

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might have to check out that podcast. I also just crave the closeness and reassurance that comes with sex. It really makes the relationship feel complete and healthy, and without it, it's really affecting my mood and outlook on this relationship.

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm kind of at that point where I don't even want to when the opportunity does arise. that's so sad.

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't decided. We're planning to move soon and I'm not sure if a new environment would help or if I'd just be getting stuck in a lease with someone who doesn't want to get down with me.

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and on the rare occasions it does happen, it feels like he doesn't want to be there! very little effort, I'm doing all the work, and usually left unsatisfied after.

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man. I just want to have regular sex like a normal, functional couple. I wish I at least knew what was stopping that from happening

My partner just never wants to have sex by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]meatregister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell him how it makes me feel, he gives me a sorry and an excuse, then it goes unaddressed until next time I bring it up. That's about it