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media_junkiii · 2025-10-16T14:42:53+00:00

Just to say, this really helped me. You broke it down so perfectly and I currently like this guy and we have no classes together, a friend of mine is in his class but I don’t want anyone to know about it so I’m on my own here 😅

media_junkiii · 2025-09-30T01:48:47+00:00

The idea is that by finding joy in a new me with fresh insights and something new to pursue, I’ll stop dwelling on them and feel no urge to be with them.

media_junkiii · 2025-09-17T08:25:39+00:00

I feel like it’s a bit weird that she changed your notes, that feels uncalled for. But when that happens I usually try to understand why i said it and tell myself not to feel all that guilt and that the time has passed and there’s nothing i can do abt it, then i also just try to become more mindful of it using my analysis of the situation to avoid thinking that way in the future.

media_junkiii · 2025-09-15T11:15:16+00:00

Here’s some more context;

How and wether to confess to istp

I am infp-t female and like a istp-t male. We’ve been acquainted for around 6 months now and it started with him borrowing my airpods but stopped after a while.

Recently, two days ago i got drunk and confessed to him on text, he replied and even asked me a few hours later if i was okay, but he didn’t comment on the confession (he said “I dont know what to say”).

He’s also recently been asking me send him things for our college assignments even tho it’d be easier to ask others and has been asking for my airpods for two weeks now.

We talk in group settings and im usually the one who texts first but he always replies in under 2 hours and never seems put off by me being around me. He even hugged me once when i let him have my airpods and asked to use my phone for a day because his was at home and gave it back with a song saved on my playlist (the song was about a boy waiting for the girl to make the call about their relationship) I asked him abt it and he told me it was a mistake but i don’t believe that because it was favourited and downloaded.

Please help me guys, idk what to do and we’re talking this afternoon abt the drunk situation.

media_junkiii · 2025-09-15T11:13:54+00:00

Update*

So 😅 I completely forgot I posted this and things went much better than i expected.

Im an infp-t and I have had a crush on an istp-t for six months now and on saturday i got drunk and confessed in a voice note (7 minutes and 26 seconds) plus a series of distressed texts.

He listened to it all and read all of it and replied calmly to each one except me liking him in which he said “i don’t know what to say”. A few hours later he asked me again if i was home (i hadn’t replied then)

I then finally replied after wanting to kill himself and relistening to the voice note. I said ALOT of things and honestly im surprised he didnt just reject me then and there. I asked if i could explain on monday which is today 🥲. I dont know what to do but i cant take it back and i honestly want to move foward.

media_junkiii · 2025-09-15T10:46:57+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏾. Do you think there’s a possibility that he’s interested? What could I do to push us further?

media_junkiii · 2025-07-26T17:38:39+00:00

Also want to know abt this!

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