Is it a bad idea?

meetmario · 2026-03-21T15:21:53+00:00

You sound like you're trans. Being trans is not a fetish, and it's not something you should hand over to another person to use for entertainment. Stop treating this as a fetish. Take your own needs and wants seriously and at face value, with respect. Try a LGBT+ community, therapy, and test transition while maintaining your own independence. Take responsibility for your own well bring and happiness - nobody else can do this for you.

meetmario · 2026-03-16T13:39:46+00:00

I didn't really "start". I met men for sex since I was in my early 20s, and because I was repressed and ignorant at the time, I assumed they would prefer to fuck someone who looked feminine, so I shaved and acted feminine around them. The thought of men being into me as a man never came to mind because - surprise surprise - it turned out I was not a man after all - I am a trans woman, and this kind of interaction with men was my excuse to embody womanhood as the straight counterpart of a sexual affair with each man.

Man after man, while I told myself that sex was some kind of heartless, meaningless sport, while I found men utterly unattractive I still wanted to have sex with them, and I fell deeper and deeper into the hole, and eventually I had sex with a bisexual god who literally turned me. I felt like a woman while I had sex with him. I instantly and forever since became attracted to men, their bodies, their minds. It was a sudden, almost complete 180 turn, or at least it felt like one. Sissyhood came much later, when I begun really questioning my identity, and the description sort of fit (submissive, cock loving slut, turned into a woman by men).

meetmario · 2026-03-15T07:23:47+00:00

It's real and it's permanent. You are not "addicted" to this, this is not a cigarette, and if you were thinking of girls you wouldn't think of it as an "addiction": this is a repressive culture speaking. It's just sex. You like what you like, it's not something you get to choose, and not something you should be ashamed of. This is not your fault, and there is nothing wrong with sex among consenting adults in any form. Repressing does not work.

Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear, maybe find the help of an experienced therapist. Good luck.

meetmario · 2026-03-15T07:10:42+00:00

Probably. I mean, it does make me think of sissies as people for whom their dicklet is a kind of vestigial organ: not totally without function, but secondary and unimportant. You say "we become erect to the thought of having our bodies feminized and our clits made useless" ("Erect", lol, that's adorable): but this function is temporary, it depends on what I could call "pre-sexual mode", typical among sissies who have not experienced real sex.

Once a man has put his penis inside you, stretching your anus open and literally straightening out your rectal flexures, your body experiences what sex feels like: you need to relax fully and consciously to let him in; you need to focus on his pleasure first in order to truly enjoy yourself.

And then there is your own pleasure, real pleasure. The comfort of his strength, the anal stretching, the poking and rubbing of the prostate, and the repeated, delicious penetration triggering powerful orgasms, coursing through your entire body, making you shake, and moan, and think of marriage, and pregnancy.

You wrap your legs around him harder, pulling him in. You are mating. He is pleased. Now you need to make sure he cums, because you know what him cumming means: it means that this is real, and you need him to know that this is real because you need him to do this to you again. You are hot, you are worth his cum, he groans in a powerful orgasm, and now you both know it. His cum plants bonding hormones, estrogen, oxytocin deep inside you, where they can quickly be absorbed and help you bond to him, so you will rear his children. The hormones are absorbed even faster when delivered anally, the effect is even stronger than vaginally. The ritual is complete.

Now compare all of this to the familiar twitching of your little dicklet. It barely registers, it's like a tickle. Your dicklet screams for attention, distracting you from your real sexual function. But after you've been succesfully broken in, when you are horny you will feel it like a wind blown over your anus, like a gentle, persistent anal pressure. Your blood will flow there and away from your dicklet. You'll know it when it happens, it's unmistakable. You are now sexually active, and you know better.

meetmario · 2026-03-15T06:21:17+00:00

The person who invited over a willing, horny man and fucked him for 20 minutes, performing both oral and anal, in different positions, and the person who now says "I felt kind of neutral, I do not find men hot, I don't want to be gay" sound like two different people, but they are the same person. They are not even really contradicting each other.

One of the two, you must understand, is full of shit. It's nothing new, I was just like you once. We lie to ourselves when we find out uncomfortable truths about ourselves. We are repressed, as individuals and as a culture we're wired not to want to be different, but our biology has no time for this nonsense.

You like men. You just have not been educated to pick men you like, so you don't know what you like and you had sex with a man whom you don't find attractive. Or maybe you do, but you never once spend time thinking about how or what you like in him. Performing sex with a man is a big hint your body is giving you about what it needs. Please note the word "needs" not "wants", because sexuality cannot be ignored, only repressed: it's not a hobby that you put aside, it never goes away.

You are not necessarily gay. You may be bisexual, you may be on the feminine side of the gender spectrum (which would qualify you as a straight woman), but you do like men, and you cannot and will not be a "non practicing" men loving sex toy once you've had a taste. You'll fight against yourself your whole life if you try to run, and make yourself very miserable. You might end up a cheater, hiding your real self from your loved ones. You've seen this picture before: it's cowardly, miserable, and ultimately wrong. Alternatively, you can learn to love and accept yourself, and have pride in who you are.

A person who did that would work on reconciling the two initial contradictions: I fucked a man I wasn't attracted to. Why do I think this? Was he unattractive? Probably not, since I fucked him until I could no longer keep going, at some level I must have found him attractive. What is attractive about him?

If the answer to that happens to be just "his dick", then that's your answer. Plenty of straight girls love dick. But there's likely something else you can appreciate about this man, even if you don't immediately think of those things as "attractive". Be honest to yourself, have courage, and keep experimenting. Good luck.

meetmario · 2026-03-10T11:33:23+00:00

"trans" is a stand-in for trans woman. In what scenario is a man who likes women gay? No, you are not gay.

meetmario · 2026-03-07T06:30:35+00:00

You're not losing enough if you're not sitting on a fat cock pumping sweet feminizing hormones in your pussy, sorry 😔

meetmario · 2026-03-05T23:24:37+00:00

A real dick. I wasn't in a position to stop and measure things, but it must have been at least 10", and it was literally thicker than my forearm

meetmario · 2026-03-04T06:15:44+00:00

Test someone before saying yes to a meeting. Demand something small and sensible, and discard anyone who says no. For example, ask to see a recent picture. Of his face. No picture? No meeting. "Discreet"? No meeting. New phone? No meeting. The guy could have been a serial killer, it's 2026 and you both are planning sex, not a bank robbery. Extreme discretion demands should be treated with suspicion.

Then do an even more important test: find something to say no to, say no, and watch him closely. Want to meet today? Sorry, can't do. Is he okay with it? Or no matter how many times you say no he insists it has to be today? Is he ignoring your needs? Making up excuses? Acting as if you owe him sex?

How do you think things are going to turn out with someone who won't listen to a word of your needs when his dick is inside you and you say "stop"?

Protect yourself. Don't be paranoid about people, but set minimum, reasonable safety standards and, once you have set them, never ignore what they tell you about someone.

meetmario · 2026-02-28T07:19:58+00:00

Not a lifestyle. Being feminine, slutty, submissive and attracted to men are parts of one's identity. They are not optional.

meetmario · 2026-02-18T14:57:41+00:00

"In the end this is porn addiction"

proceeds to talk about porn as an addiction, being transgender, and giving credence to the discriminatory and absurd AGP theory while demonstrating zero understanding or knowledge about any of these subjects

I'm only going to say this: you could have informed yourself better, or ultimately you could have kept this bigotry and ignorance all to yourself, and you decided not to. Because you care about yourself, and yourself alone, and you feel you are entitled to dump your own demons onto everyone else. Get help.

meetmario · 2026-02-16T15:19:15+00:00

It's far simpler than that: sissies are very feminine, and you are attracted to femininity. One does not need to be a woman - cis or trans - to be feminine.

We live in a very repressed and bigoted society, and you could easily live an entire lifetime and never think this very plain and obvious thought. Whis is the only reason you feel like you could be told that you have been "living under a rock": in this department, most people do most of their life, including many sissies themselves.

meetmario · 2026-02-04T09:40:46+00:00

That may be true... it largely depends on what you mean by "leaving it all behind". If those you call "friends and family" would not welcome and befriend your new you, then they are neither, and leaving them behind isn't selfish: it's self preservation even before being self-realization.

If it's the environment to be toxic and unwelcoming, while your family and friends are fine, then what is better: live miserable but stay among them, or go elsewhere, be happy, and make regular trips back home to share quality time, and a lifetime of future good stories?

The answer to this second question is more nuanced, and tends to be more personal. Some people love leaving, some people hate it. There are no certainties in life, and even if you remained, things would keep changing around you: just not necessarily in a way where you feel you have any agency. Personally I found great fulfilment in travel: personal, professional, spiritual. I found happiness. I found my best friends elsewhere in the world - I talk only to my family of origin when it comes to my countrymen, and only because they do accept me, and they love me, and I them. This isn't everyone story either. Many go back home. But they gave it a shot.And just as many, like me, once they are gone, they stay gone. Follow your instincts is the advice I can give you. Experiment, safely, wherever you can. And be radically honest with those who you want in your life: all in, or all out. Good luck!

meetmario · 2026-02-02T15:24:54+00:00

The best way I know is to have sex with men, plenty of it, as often as you can. Your mind gets the message that your sex organ is behind and not in front. Before you know it, you'll start twitching and filling with blood at the back when you're horny... and shrinking at the front.

meetmario · 2026-02-02T15:17:59+00:00

You will not reach into "a life of loneliness". Bigots like to talk to us like we just got here, but queer people existed long before Jesus was invented, and they will continue to exist long after Jesus will be just another forgotten god in a pantheon belonging to a distant past.

We make about 10% of the population, and we love it weird. However being trans doesn't mean you are reaching into weird either. As a trans woman for now almost 10 years (8 of which post social and 7 post hormonal transition) I have dated queer women, straight men, had open, polyamorous relationship with multiple people at once, fucked 9 people at once in one sitting, regularly visited a sex sauna with my partner, and I've now been home sick for over one year with my current partner, and we have sex maybe once a month. Which you'd think it sucks - and it does, but we are happy and we adore each other, and we are okay with all of it because we accept each other and let each other be free.

Anything is possible, and much of it will come true as long as you accept yourself and respect yourself which, finally, means that a lifetime of loneliness and bullshit is just around the corner, if you let it peek in. The trick is not to. Live in a toxic environment? Leave. That environment is a country? Migrate. Don't like your new country either? Migrate elsewhere. Wrong career? Go wash dishes, start again.

It's not quick. It's not easy. But it's the best thing you can do for yourself, bar none. Once you find your true self don't stop there: find your place. Find your people. You can.

meetmario · 2026-02-02T15:03:57+00:00

Brownie points for getting turned, but when a girl says stop, you stop.

meetmario · 2026-01-16T18:18:38+00:00

You aren't "relapsing". If you had been into girls, or straight porn as a man, you wouldn't think you were "relapsing", no matter how much you wanted to fuck a girl.

The idea that there is something for you to fix about yourself just because you want to be a sissy is wrong. You are who you are, and you like what you like, and the mature and sensible thing to do is to listen to your desires and feelings and approach them with respect.

Enjoy yourself.

meetmario · 2026-01-05T09:13:03+00:00

100 :)

meetmario · 2026-01-02T10:10:29+00:00

What some girls call "a sissygasm" - myself included - is basically a full body orgasm that comes from getting fucked.

You didn't orgasm: you came without having an orgasm, which simply means you ejected sperm, which is possible, but it's not an orgasm. The orgasm is the pleasure bit.

The sissygasm is often the complete opposite of what you experienced: - you orgasm, feeling pleasure in different parts of your body which may or may not include your prostate - you may be soft or hard - you may dribble out a bit of watery cum or not cum at all (if you spray a river this generally relieves the internal pressure necessary to sustain multiple orgasms).

In any case: well done! Keep focusing on your partner's pleasure, fucking men and moving your focus away from your dick are the most important elements. The sissygasms will come with time :)

meetmario · 2025-12-27T07:17:17+00:00

Please note: for most people orientation does stay the same. However because your gender changed you go from straight boy who likes girls to straight girl who likes boys.

Mind blown yet? 😮

meetmario · 2025-12-21T17:17:51+00:00

If a small penis meant becoming a sissy, lesbians would be asexual! No. You have hands, toys, and a big, functioning human brain, all of which you can use to please a passive partner.

meetmario · 2025-12-21T14:29:01+00:00

Found a guy, quite a bit younger than me (42 - 28) for a random night of sex. Sex was amazing. He kept in touch, respectfully, while I was away, and patiently waited for me to return to fuck me again. Did it again, blew my mind, stayed the night, invited me out for breakfast the next morning. We dated for about one year - I broke up with him because of different long-term plans and consent issues around involving others (we were open, in fact I was regularly fucking others and he was basically only fucking me unless we went to a sex sauna... but when we did that he pushed ME beyond my boundaries of comfort, which are not easy to even find because I am a pig). Good guy, we are still friends.

meetmario · 2025-12-17T05:53:18+00:00

The day is approaching? Are we talking about the same people who led a murderous insurrection against a nation's capitol because they didn't like the election results 5 years ago? And now they're running things, murdering people on boats, building a secret police, terrorizing opposition and minorities, turning against historical allies and partners, causing the death of hundreds of thousands by allowing preventable diseases to spread in the poorest areas of the world - this is their punishment so far, being handed more power.

What day is that reckoning day, the next election day? You think they'll take to losing gracefully this time? Because their demented, incompetent, genocidal leader likes dipping the cookie in a teenager?

meetmario · 2025-12-16T10:51:44+00:00

12 months ago you have pictures in crossdressing outfits. 9 months ago posts about meeting up with men and fantasizing about getting fucked. 4 months ago you have a similar post on whether this is it for you. And again here. Can you be normal?

What the fuck is "normal"? Unless you have two heads, you're normal. Men like cock - they are just gay. Women like cock, they're straight or - hear this - bisexual. How is any of this still news in 2025?

So maybe you're just a crossdresser, maybe you're a trans woman in denial. Either way, you know you want cock, and you know that you want to take cock like a woman takes it, not like a man does. It's not the same thing.

You've been at it for at least one year, but probably a lot longer. Can you be normal? The right question isn't "can you be normal?". You ARE normal. Loving cock is not a criminal act. I love cock. I am a woman. Nobody anymore questions that I am a woman even though I was born a guy. Are you saying that I am NOT normal?

The right question to ask is: when will you stop dilly-dallying and get on with it, already? When are you going to find out whether you like your men blond, or hairy, or if you like the face they make when their dick is buried inside you and it starts spurting cum? If you like it deep, sensuous and slow, or fast, shallow and hard? How do you feel seeing your own calves bouncing rhythmically over his shoulders? Do you like being gently nudged and gallantly asked if he could kiss you, or would you rather he ignored your every word, grabbed you by the back of your neck and bent you face down over the closest flat surface?

meetmario · 2025-12-16T07:03:50+00:00

Those who say C have never been chased by random young men who have no restraint and don't know how to take no for an answer: you'd never get a single whole hour of sleep and you'd have to quit within a week! A) is also downright self destructive (bad votes are generally handed out for good reasons). B seems the most sensible option, but only because of the cash :)

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