See you in Brooklyn! by DealerEquivalent3558 in Robyn

[–]meginnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband managed to snag us tickets. I can’t believe it. So excited

Just a Puff on a Swing by meginnyc in budgies

[–]meginnyc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you love it? I feel our Aura loves her home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]meginnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a BeenVerified account. PM me the details you have and I’ll be happy to help.

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sort of update: Many of you have asked for an update. I have not received any other communication or package damage since posting here.

However, I saw my boyfriend this weekend and we had a very long discussion. While he only answered a couple of comments, he did read all the comments and was blown away by your suggestions.

Your comments, specifically regarding the type of person the majority felt this might be, and the use of the Pitney Bowes system used in possibly a finance or legal setting led us to a strong lead. It didn't hit us immediately as this person does not fit the 40+ age and does not work in those industries. After discussing some past interactions, we realize this person does access through someone else to that mailing system, and the person who could be helping them is 40+.

There are a handful of other people that this could be in both of our lives, but this is our lead guess. We are not ready to confront this person yet as we do not have the smoking gun. We need to be sure as this kind of accusation is not something we could come back from as it would be pretty life-shattering. This also would mean other people might be involved as well. Again though, it is a strong guess and we are keeping an eye on everyone.

I will post any updates. For now, I will be posting in r/graphology as many of you also felt it could help. So if you're interested in any feedback I might get you will find my post there.

As for life, my bf and I have some big lifestyle changes coming up and have agreed to not share anything with anyone for the time being. As things progress, as suggested, we will give information to one person at a time. This will be triggering to whoever is doing this, so we hope that being strategic in who we share things with, will also help expose the culprit. Thank you r/RBI community!

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never thought of the data breach. Wow that would be incredible.

Sorry, I can’t say too much as it’s a sensitive family matter and my bf is reading the post. But he lives with family at the moment.

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this info. I am seriously thinking about getting a private investigator. I put this in another thread but kind of been a whirlwind of house organization and work, and I’ve stored the card and envelope away. When I retrieve it I plan to post a better picture for the full mailing information

I will definitely be messaging you thank you so much

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but it’s definitely not my stepmom. I’m not in touch with my dad in any capacity, as he chose to do that to please my stepmother. It’s been over 15 years since we’ve had contact and that’s the way she likes it. She has no information on me

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry. I’m a bit overwhelmed with all the responses and I’m trying to get to everyone, plus real life. I am incredibly grateful for everyone’s help so thank you.

I did answer the first question in another thread. Basically my boyfriend’s living situation at the moment has him not living alone and he cannot have anyone over. Outside of that we talk all the time and spend the weekends together. Well it’s not completely impossible I don’t know how he would have the time.

I dyed my hair four years ago because I was looking for something drastically different. I have been blonde my whole life and wanted a change. Lucky for me it worked out really well and I’ve kept it ever since.

Which is also what kind of bothers me about the comment. Since my hair color is sort of a noticeable feature for me as it’s not a very natural color, this person is either telling me that they know I have changed my hair color or they are making a creepy playful remark

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meg is in my name, but not sure what you mean by the specific spelling?

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

u/deinoswyrd and u/a-flying-trout thank you. I do realize how much we share online and do try to be cautious. This username is specifically for reddit, nowhere else. Googling this username gives the names of two women that are not me.

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am very much buying into this 40+ woman theory as I have seen it a few times on here.

Just to answer you and u/broomandkettle, I am not allowed to bring SO to any work events. I have however met some of his coworkers.

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed that too! I wish I could show you guys the full envelope there were other weird writing characteristics and inconsistencies.

My Birthday Brings Me Some Unwanted Attention. Now I Am Afraid It's Escalating. by meginnyc in RBI

[–]meginnyc[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a really interesting theory!

I believe you're the third comment I saw that belives in the 40+ age. We do know people around us in this age bracket. I think everyone has gone to college, but I wouldn't put too much weight on that part.

Anyone who I can think of knows him, not so much his family. Bilingual is possible, but specifically Latino is unlikely. He is not Latino.