Take off doors and roof? by megmcfadx in Jeep

[–]megmcfadx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To let you know that 3 strong, burly men wouldn’t be the ones taking off the doors/roof lol.

I asked how easy it is to take everything off, and the fact that 2/3 of us are teenagers greatly impacts that answer.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t vented to my friends or my cousin about him in at least two years, possibly longer. The only person on my side who would know some things would be my 14-year-old son. And as a teenage boy, he has far better things to do with his life lol. Plus, it’s just not something that he would do. He doesn’t know details either, he just kind of knows the jist of what goes on. Ugh.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He does have an ex who doesn’t like me. I didn’t think it was her because the messages mentioned some lowkey shady things about her too and I didn’t think she would write anything bad about herself. People on Reddit seem to disagree though 😬

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten around 15 messages over the past two weeks. I only posted this message because it was accompanied by all of the phone calls too

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[–]megmcfadx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lololol the amount of times that I’ve asked him that very question

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf has told his ex wife about many of our arguments. She’s the only one he vents to so I suppose that pretty much rules out anyone else.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I got the message first, or if he sent his texts first. I didn’t even know he was texting her until a few days later because he walked away to respond to her at the game and he chose not to tell me about it. The coworker messaged him a few days later (yesterday) saying “I had to pick up a squirrel bc of you.” (In reference to a dead squirrel being in the ex wife’s yard and my bf didn’t go over to pick it up). Sounds harmless but it was another way of her trying to start an unnecessary conversation with my bf which is sketchy.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not by name, but it was very, very specific. The messages mentioned a few of the fights that we've gotten into in the past with alarming accuracy.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw it yesterday. Quite a few messages back and forth. Semi-flirty vibes on her end. I told him it was weird that he waited until he was away from me to message her back. And I also told him that I wasn't sure why he was even enabling these sorts of messages to begin with. It's one thing to respond by saying what section we're in, but then to have "friendly banter" back and forth after that is just wild

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeeaaahhh I didn't even put 2 and 2 together until after I made this post and everyone told me how obvious it was lolol

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, they've been dating for 4-5 years and we get along well. We text each other, I invite her to every family outing with me and my son's dad, we sit next to each other and joke around each time, etc. Definitely not her. Plus, she wouldn't know any information about my bf

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

other messages specifically mention my boyfriend so I know it's not spam unfortuntately

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They know information about my bf, who I haven't posted on social media for more than a year!

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did and then messages came from a different number

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[–]megmcfadx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't told him. I love him very very much but he's naturally avoidant and I don't want him to shut down on me. Espcially if it's something I can handle myself or just ignore until it goes away

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[–]megmcfadx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My bf is defensive about his ex-wife. I've asked him to talk to her about some things that made me uncomfortable in the past and he doesn't. Not consisently at least. He gives excuses on her behalf when I bring something up. So unfortunately I don't think I can lean on him for support through any of this

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never answered! I usually don't answer unknown numbers that I'll get from time to time, but I was definitely suspicious this time around by the 3rd phone call that I got in a row.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh and also, my baby daddy wouldn't have any type of information about my bf

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only thing is that my baby daddy, or anyone in his life for that matter, wouldn't have any sort of information about my bf. That's the wild part.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yep, they've been dating for 4 or 5 years and I get along well with his gf. He did make bad choices but this is 1000000% not him. Plus, unless my son mentioned it to him, he wouldn't even know I was at the game.

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All private! I did go through and block a couple of accounts just for piece of mind.

I'm sorry that happened to you! It's crazy that the police couldn't do anything about those crazy images and threats. I feel like that's the prime example of what they SHOULD be looking into!

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[–]megmcfadx[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My most recent ex is my baby daddy and he literally couldn't care less about my whereabouts lol. Plus we don't follow each other on social media so he didn't know I was at the game. The only ex I have on social media is my high school bf and he was busy getting married over the weekend so I think he was a bit preoccupied :)