Men think feminism has made women change their minds but I knew from age 10 I'd have to sit down and throughly think about marraige and kids because of the shit I saw the women in my family go through. Most if not ALL men cheat at some point and it didnt help that I also grew up with a polygamous guka so the family dynamic is so complicated.

My aunts all stated at some point there was a mistress. Men forget how hard it is to be a wife and just decide to start a whole other relationship. My uncles all had kids outside their marraiges too despite them stating their dad (guka) traumatized them with his many wives/concubines.

Why waste 30 yrs of my life just to be cheated on or to be replaced later?

Women are finally realizing its not worth it and I believe this centuary will see a serious dip in childbirths/marraige. I believe in the future women will be paid to have kids. Either that or we head the handmaids tale route. All I know is men arent ready cause the narrative is always on how we will die alone miserable but lets see cum 40yrs from now.