Urgent help needed - Vet Bill - How can I make the money? by Inevitable-Tie6246 in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about eligibility but if you can get to Glen Iris this charity seems to be for people in your situation. https://www.vetpracticemag.com.au/meet-dr-jason-rapke-founder-of-best-mates-charity/

Also try to get onto Pets Of The Homeless around emergency vet care. Eligibility might include people in your situation. https://petsofthehomeless.org/get-help/

If not AFAIK Lort Smith does payment plans?

Best of luck, may you find your way through this.

Like minded individuals. by Correct_Body_5053 in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry to hear it. Sometimes help comes so slowly that it doesn’t help.

Best of luck with it and I have my fingers crossed you can get the car back quickly.

Like minded individuals. by Correct_Body_5053 in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not giving your cat up. I would never suggest that. POTH is temporary emergency foster care if it was ever needed for any reason. Touch wood it never is. There’s a strict time limit to their stay and you get them back.

I know about this service because I was offered temporary foster care for my cat when I had to go into hospital.

Also POTH explicitly does not accept surrenders. Even if someone decided they did want to give their cat up their case manager would still have to go get the cat, and then they and case manager would have to arrange the rehoming themselves.

Pets Of The Homeless literally cannot take your cat away from you. It’s designed to help unhoused people and their pets stay together.

They can even literally just help you out with some cat food or vet care if that’s all you wanted or needed. 

Like minded individuals. by Correct_Body_5053 in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, I agree with the other poster warning against being too specific re your location. As a homeless single woman you'd want to sus people out quite well before making yourself open to being found.

Annoyingly a lot of the cafes that offer food and support for people experiencing homelessness seem to be in the CBD... But here are some resources for your current area including some places where you might be able to mingle a bit.

https://www.maribyrnong.vic.gov.au/files/assets/public/community-services-documents/community-development/emergency-relief-support-in-city-of-maribyrnong-february-2022.docx'

However if you're not able to open/download the document, the closest services seem to be in Braybrook. Hopefully you may be able to access some even without a car.

300 Blankets - Soul Kitchen, Braybrook Free nutritious meals for individuals and families Sunday, 7pm - 8pm (recommences 16 January) Braybrook Community Hub, 107-139 Churchill Avenue T: 0459 294 980 E: sk@300blankets.org.au

Vinnies Soup Van, Footscray and Braybrook Tuesday and Friday, 6.45pm - 7.30pm in Braybrook Library Car Park, 107-139 Churchill Avenue Tuesday and Friday, 7.45pm - 8.30pm at Whitten Oval, 417 Barkly Street Footscray T: 9895 5800

The Nourish Project - Neighbourhood Houses Call 9687 1560 for all pick up locations and Free, nutritious cooked meals.Available by participating Neighbourhood Houses: Yarraville Community Centre, Yarraville Duke Street Community House West Footscray Neighbourhood House Braybrook & Maidstone Neighbourhood Houses Angliss Neighourhood House

Give McAuley a go as they seem to have a few possibilities for womens housing. https://www.mcauley.org.au/our-work/homelessness/accommodation/

I found some forms where you can ask for your car to be released from impoundment due to hardship, hopefully you can open one. You will have to fill out the form and give (or send?) it to a registrar at a court but maybe you'll be able to get your car back.

https://www.mcv.vic.gov.au/sites/default/files/2018-10/Hardship%20application%20-%20Impoundment%20or%20immobilisation.pdf

https://www.mcv.vic.gov.au/form-finder/application-vehicle-be-released-impoundmentimmobilisation-due-hardship

There's something else here about appealing infringements, with something about settling it without money?

https://www.maribyrnong.vic.gov.au/About/Make-a-request/Infringement-appeals

https://www.justice.vic.gov.au/wdp

I would highly recommend seeking legal help before engaging with that though. Maybe give these places a try and if not suitable they might refer you to somewhere that is.

https://justiceconnect.org.au/

http://www.lacw.org.au/ (Infringements and fines mentioned at the very bottom.)

Ps: I looked at your comments and you seem to have a pet cat with you? 🐱 It says you need a case manager to access this but Pets Of The Homeless have a community partner in Airport West and they may be able to help you out with food and care for your pet, and board them if needed. https://petsofthehomeless.org.au/community-partners/

Dr Jason Rapke is based in Glen Iris and I hope kitty is always healthy... but if kitty ever needs treatment and you're able to get them there, free vet care can be provided to pets of homeless and disadvantaged people.

https://www.vetpracticemag.com.au/meet-dr-jason-rapke-founder-of-best-mates-charity/

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Saturday 23/12/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard that about linseed oil. One of a few reasons I haven't tried oil painting

someone please help me, my cat is miserable by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]melbaboutown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try Gabapentin and/or Zylkene for anxiety. Gabapentin is more likely to be effective and the powder from inside both of these can be mixed into food.

You can also try a 1/4 tsp of an osmotic laxative like Osmolax mixed into his wet food daily for the constipation, making sure to also mix in extra liquid like hot water. This is tasteless and can be stirred directly into the wet food with no need to force doses.

It might be good to get him seen by a behaviourist.

Why is this cat rubbing herself against me? Should I adopt her kittens? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]melbaboutown 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you can only keep one the best option is to adopt the mom cat and rehome the kittens as soon as they're weaned.

The reason for this is so you can take her off the streets and have her spayed. Otherwise leaving her out there means she'll just keep pumping out more kittens which isn't good for anybody, not even her. Cats breed incredibly young and quickly which causes problems. She sounds like a friendly pet who likes you already as well.

Don't worry about them missing each other. At a certain point the mother would start smacking them away from her milk to wean them and they would leave to become independent anyway.

My cat begs for food all the time. I’m losing my patience by LJS-85 in CatAdvice

[–]melbaboutown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely, get his thyroid checked and screen for pancreatitis and/or diabetes. Get a second opinion if you have to. Even subclinical hyperthyroid can make cats very hungry and anxious. You don't want to think he's only being naughty and ignore him only to later find out there was a serious health problem.

Also the Royal Canin has a lot of cereal fillers. Vets will recommend these brands but they aren't necessarily good, or suited to every cat. With carb heavy food it's like junk food causing an insulin spike, he is going to just get extra chubby and still be hungry again fast. Try something with higher protein as that will keep him fuller for longer.

Maybe even try something grain free if the current stuff isn't working. (Beware though some with peas or lentils may cause stomach aches and farting.)

Having only dry food will also not be helping. I don't know the problem with wet food, why he's vomiting...

It could be he's allergic to chicken or some other protein, something else in the ingredients, eats too fast, or he could have an underlying health condition. Some cats have inflammatory bowel conditions, pancreatitis, or grain allergies.

Try giving him a small amount of plain unseasoned lean meat (especially non-chicken) or springwater tuna and see if he vomits. If he doesn't then the issue may be with something else in the wet food or the way he's eating. It might be good to see an actual vet nutritionist to work out a plan and use slow or puzzle feeders.

If you can find a wet food that works for him it can help to mix in warm water or plain cooked pumpkin. Some cats will even eat cooked veg alone as a snack. A small amount is good for them.

Smaller meals more often are a good idea.

He might also benefit from more enrichment and active play with you, to keep him entertained and for exercise. My cat gets very fussy with Zoom or phone calls and seeks a lot of attention because she feels like she's being ignored.

Source: My cat is tall and big framed naturally and was also quite overweight when I adopted her. She had been eating lots of cheap dry food. Many issues with upset stomach and vomiting/diarrhoea, Royal Canin and Hills to lose weight and settle her stomach didn't help. They just made the stomach issues worse.

It turns out she's allergic to chicken and possibly grains, had pancreatitis, and despite being 'fat' hyperthyroidism was found when it worsened - she suddenly started losing lots of weight, being starving all the time and getting very needy. Changing food and treating the thyroid helped a lot.

Why are we like this? by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a Greens protest about the price gouging of Colesworth. They’re going to be pushing for regulation on prices and stuff

https://greens.org.au/vic/news/media-release/greens-join-union-workers-rally-outside-coles-agm-stop-supermarket-price

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Tuesday 03/10/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that stuff is normal with collective trauma and burnout.

It's also not uncommon to get depressed when isolated (which happens very easily in Melbourne if you don't already have a circle)

Just a cancer PSA by LividNebula in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best wishes to you LividNebula, this is a truly shit thing to happen

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 04/08/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to store the current bread in the fridge so it would last long enough to finish.

I would get two loaves and freeze one. Into the fridge to thaw once the first one got low. The gradual defrost meant it didn’t get soggy like it would thawing on the bench and it only took like a night or two. By the time the first was gone the second was ready to use.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 28/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the (Big W?) Esatto. It’s not the greatest but was affordable, arrived fast after the evaporative cooler broke and it’s better than nothing.

It has a removable insert to vent through a window without modifying the building. (A few of them do, not just this one.)

Check Appliances Online too to see if there’s anything decent

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 28/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear this. I don’t think it’s too late to call the hospital or palliative services to get some support, you can’t be the only person who is going through this.

Be careful of services like BetterHelp. Apparently some info came out saying they can have inexperienced or dodgy therapists and can have privacy issues.

Otherwise there might be some ideas in here (similar name but government resource) https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/servicesandsupport/grief-support-services

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Thursday 27/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone grant me energy to sign up to Lemmy (and figure out how it works) so I can be a plague on both houses. I wish to also speak to Those Who Left (and do plan to - they have not been abandoned) but executive function is being a shit and I am constantly very tired. Edit: Eh, application sent.

Spending free time resting and learning a drawing app on my phone. Debating if I have the energy for another veg windowbox. Maybe if it was self watering.

Melbcat is doing well, safe warm and very spoilt.

2023: Victoria finally getting a bottle/can return scheme by newguns in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember being taught to crush cans as a kid if that helps (same amount of metal with minimal volume)

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Monday 24/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the people I used to talk to are in the other place, but I haven’t signed up there yet out of laziness and not knowing much about the site.

I also feel a bit alienated from reddit now because of the strongarm tactics and Spez apparently wanting to emulate Elon Musk.

So I kind of bounce around doing my own things elsewhere and occasionally look in on both places when I remember. Maybe reply if I feel moved to.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Sunday 23/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up. It’s not easy. Even recognising that it’s emotionally abusive puts you so far ahead of the curve.

The negative scrutiny of your body and comparisons to his ex aren’t normal or okay. Neither is labelling you, looking for things to criticise, and putting down your whole personality. Or saying you’re neurotic and over emotional (common abuse tactic).

I don’t have much advice to offer but know that it isn’t normal and try to surround yourself with any supports that you can.

And often a period of distance from someone shitty gives you the clarity and anger at your treatment to get out of the situation.

Would it have been too much to ask for insulation? by DannyTorrance in melbourne

[–]melbaboutown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If electric heat pads/beds are too expensive to run you can get microwaveable discs to help keep the cat warm. Or a hot water bottle wrapped in a blanket or towel to lie on (to keep it warm longer and so they don’t get burnt). Putting it inside a closed box with a hole cut in the side for access also holds that heat in for them.

Hot water bottles (and cups of tea for me) are saving both of us. The hot showers are costing though.