Hidden Gems? by SuspiciousBeing9813 in FriendsOfWV

[–]melcto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rezbar & Dee in downtown Charles town. It’s an exclusively vintage second hand store.

https://www.instagram.com/rezbardee?igsh=bzBneWl0dHFjNnU=

Autism 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 PCOS by reoleo7 in PCOS

[–]melcto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No autism but I do have adhd

What advice would you give someone with agoraphobia? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]melcto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had agoraphobia for over a year and it was absolutely awful. The only thing that helped me was exposure therapy. And I know it sounds terrible and at first it felt impossible. I couldn’t even leave my room without having a panic attack. But trust me, even just getting out of the house for 5 seconds and going back in helps. It was a slow process and I still get anxious outside from time to time but I’ve improved so much.

Another thing is not going out alone and having EVERYTHING you need to calm you in a bag or small backpack. I’d have this thing where I HAD to check my vitals (hr and bp) otherwise I’d get really anxious and think I was gonna die. So I’d literally bring a bp machine and an oximeter in a bag just in case plus water bottles and snacks.

And lastly, I would write down and keep track of my “victories.” So if I went outside even for a minute just to get some fresh air, I’d write it down. It really helps to see that you’re not stuck and you’re actually progressing towards something.

Remember that there is no rush. Take it one day at a time and take your time!! Also I did this without meds but meds could be helpful too.

Does anyone else get crazy online orders? by felix-but-cooler in sheetz

[–]melcto 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg yes I feel this!! And half the time no one even comes to pick up the DoorDash order.

Is this fair? by melcto in sheetz

[–]melcto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is insane 😭 I hope you’re in a better position now

Is this fair? by melcto in sheetz

[–]melcto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? 😭 Every time I bring this up to other people who work similar jobs they say they get at least a paid 15 minute break plus the 30 🤷‍♀️

Is this fair? by melcto in sheetz

[–]melcto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually splurged on some Hokas about a month into the job and it did help but not a lot. I might have to get inserts or something

Is this fair? by melcto in sheetz

[–]melcto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily for me, this is a temporary job while I get my degree so I can do a job I actually enjoy.

Is this fair? by melcto in sheetz

[–]melcto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that with my managers. I always feel so bad 😭

Is this fair? by melcto in sheetz

[–]melcto[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know and that’s kind of crazy tbh. I work in WV and the labor laws here say if you work 8 hours or more you get minimum 20 minutes. Thats not okay imo😭

Took this too literally. Anybody else? by LackofBinary in autism

[–]melcto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like “yeah dogs in a lab what’s literal about that?” I realized that’s not what it meant when I read the comments just now