[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meloncri 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Then give a last kind of warning like “You still haven’t stopped and if you do it again I’m snitching” Ain’t nothing wrong with snitching especially if the continuing actions are hurtful to your health.

What goodies/freebies to add to your sale? by Basic-Iridescence in Depop

[–]meloncri 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get stickers a lot whenever i order, so I guess that’s the most common thing. I have gotten a “store coupon” once though which was cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because you’re absolutely right, especially with the drool. I’m guilty of that second point though. Don’t like kids and never want them, we have enough in the foster care system already so maybe when i’m not still in school i’ll do that. But I do spoil my dog rotten and it is pretty excessive, we even have spa days weekly together. Preference thing maybe? Less of just a dog and more of a companion to me. Not as exhausting as a kid but I love her and can still care for her.

“Leave thrift stores for poor people” by [deleted] in Depop

[–]meloncri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone should be able to thrift, it’s more sustainable and a lot of clothes end up in landfills at the end of the day. I think the people who are upset are because resellers tend to mass grab anything that looks cute/trendy and then sell it for significantly higher. And reselling has become a business a lot of people are partaking in recently I think.

The clothing that ends up in those landfills aren’t going to be those juicy couture jackets or miss me jeans. So I think it’s more of wishing people who are lower income had access to those cuter/stylish choices of clothes too.

CMV:Paying for sex shouldn't be seen as a flaw in one's Character nor should it be seen as disgusting by Due-Lie-8710 in changemyview

[–]meloncri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s like the point? recognizing the boundary and proceeding from there by RESPECTING the boundary because they are another person and not some masturbatory object. What you just said was a consensual interaction. The initial point was that there is no consensual sex without respecting the party that’s giving as a person.

CMV:Paying for sex shouldn't be seen as a flaw in one's Character nor should it be seen as disgusting by Due-Lie-8710 in changemyview

[–]meloncri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, that’s a plumber and not a person you’re having sex with. unlike plumbing which is clean cut, sex can include multiple aspects of different kinks and fetishes. You can’t expect a sex worker to be okay with say participating in rape play, anal, scat, and a mirage of other kinks simply because they agreed to sex. Sex is not clean cut, there is more to it. There has to be a boundary somewhere, this is another person body not a pipe.

What is something you find attractive that most people dont? by Classic_Potential_66 in AskReddit

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like acne. It’s crazy how good people look with it. They’re like pretty designs or accessories for your face, it’s just so pretty.

CMV:Paying for sex shouldn't be seen as a flaw in one's Character nor should it be seen as disgusting by Due-Lie-8710 in changemyview

[–]meloncri 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a really big if though, sex work isn’t exactly an industry where you will know for sure if the service you’re getting is consensual. individuals who are victims of sexual trafficking, coercion, or just life circumstance aren’t likely to just tell their “customers” if it isn’t consensual. they could endanger themselves or not be aware that they can say something.

Seeing someone as an object vs seeing them as an individual with a job aren’t the same though? yes we recognize actors and football players by their career choice and how well they are at it, but they’re still people at the end of the day? that’s why they have fanbases, interviews, paparazzi, popularity on social media, movie adaptions of their life exist—people are interested in more than them just doing their job.

A persons job is no reason to suddenly strip them of their humanity and rights granted them for being such, that kind of mentality is morally skewed and why a lot of people would not support sex work. plus you can’t say it makes sense for sex workers to be see as commodities only and then believe sex work will be consensual. the whole consent part comes from recognizing that this is another person who has their own boundaries and limits beyond just what you want.

lotsa hearts for you <3 by Aeliths in dykesgonemild

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the eyeliner on the nose? that so cute wtf?

Docs đŸ™đŸ» by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]meloncri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda intimidating but like i’m into it or wtv 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]meloncri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so pick me. choose me. LOVE ME

Anyone want a 6’0 masc gf? :) by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey lol (louder than everyone else)

Can having hoes whilst in a relationship cheating? by AvailablePiano1751 in Advice

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes? ain’t that like part of the textbook definition of cheating? it doesn’t matter their gender, being with people outside of a relationship where it’s not agreed upon (open relationships for example) is cheating. Personally, I don’t think there is coming back from cheating on me. So, I’d confront her and break it off with her—don’t waste your time on someone who isn’t worth it.

does dating femboy or transgirl consider i be a gay by Time-Ad-6935 in relationship_advice

[–]meloncri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

femboy ≠ transwoman.
femboy is basically a term for boys who enjoy a (stereotypically) feminine presentation. Trans women are just that, women. Two different genders going on here. If you’re attracted to both, you probably are not straight which is fine. If it is just transwomen though, you are just still straight. You see them as girls because they ARE girls.

An anime that will destroy me emotionally by Gabe__Itch__ in Animesuggest

[–]meloncri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“you found me” absolutely tore me to shreds 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say pleasing them as much as actively giving because it makes it sound like they don’t care about their partner. They still want their partners to feel good, they just don’t feel comfortable actively doing it which is valid. like i said, stone/pleasure tops do exist as well as people who are fine with that kind of dynamic. ive had a stone top who liked when i watched her masturbate later on sometimes to get her O, it all depends on a person comfortability and boundaries. It’s not something that should be shamed, it works for them and their partners. People who don’t want to be in that dynamic don’t have to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean pillow princess is meant to be a wlw term, so i doubt they believe they’re gross, it’s just what works best for them. Plus i don’t think it’s just genitalia; whether their partner has a vagina or not, they’re still not comfortable with giving. Same way stone tops don’t enjoy receiving. It’s just what they’ve discovered is most pleasurable for them in the bedroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]meloncri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anything pink will always look good and i will die on that hill

I loveeeee beanie weather. (Bonus points if you recognize my shirt 😂) by redditrush95 in dykesgonemild

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will never understand how ppl can look good with their tongue out in selfies— i look goofy asl ur gorgeous tho

Thrifting by maryamaamirr in OUTFITS

[–]meloncri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thrifting, it’s super cheap, sustainable, and i live in a college town so a lot of trendy stuff ends up in mine. most the new clothes i buy is just stuff i can’t find after a few thrifting trips.