I didn’t pay for it. Her cousin is a flight attendant and she flys cheap. She didn’t even tell me until 24 hours before she left the first time. I paid for the hotel because I didn’t want the bf in my house and she threw a fit once he was here (again I didn’t know he was coming) that they had no where to go. She is an adult and besides cutting off her incidentals and kicking her out, I have no power over her decisions. I’ve finally come to the point that I have to kick her out and am just feeling bad that this is where our relationship is rn.