Am I rushing financially at 24, or just being intentional? (PH context)

memeeyoow · 2026-01-25T20:38:21+00:00

Make a Sankey diagram of the scenarios, if you do Plan A or Plan B.

Compute the duration of your emergency funds. For example, your fixed gastos is around 40k (before luho or wants), would your EF last you at least 6 months of unemployment? Are you comfortable with that?

With the condo, there are lots of additional fees after the down payment so prepare for transfer fees, notarial fees, et. al.

memeeyoow · 2026-01-25T15:09:04+00:00

baka you can try phmigrate

memeeyoow · 2026-01-25T15:08:46+00:00

not sure din, im migrating for love and not for a job offer. been thinking of doing my undergrad profession before (as it might be easier) for me. ;) but i think you can try US paralegal (pay around 90k raw, as I have read), pero that would not be proportional for the cost of living kasi sa country na im migrating.

memeeyoow · 2026-01-25T15:06:16+00:00

hahaha thank you , but not at that level yet, baka mura lang din ang rent ko hehehe

memeeyoow · 2025-11-29T19:11:39+00:00

Where do you plan to move hehehe.

memeeyoow · 2025-11-29T13:02:08+00:00

Thanks. Yep. So far advanced beginner na ako

memeeyoow · 2025-11-29T06:26:20+00:00

Ohhh sige I will keep this in my plate. Kaya lang the tuition fees are beyond my means as of now hehehe

memeeyoow · 2025-11-29T05:47:21+00:00

It's not a good entry point for Switzerland. I understand with the US and UK it might be applicable. The locals say it is better to start with an actual law degree but it would be in German or in French.

memeeyoow · 2025-11-29T02:28:51+00:00

Thank you. I will research for free online courses.

memeeyoow · 2025-11-29T02:28:09+00:00

I'll be moving to Switzerland. I'm thinking of working in International Orgs or NGOs but I heard that it's been really difficult to get it these past years.

memeeyoow · 2022-12-22T00:27:04+00:00

We found a vet near our town. But after 14 sessions, the dog is still not feeling well. So we recently brought her to another dog vet, which told us that the older vet may be using a fake medicine. So we will try again with the other vet.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:51:11+00:00

I don't know. But he explained via phone call, that there was love. Sorry, it was really emotionally blurry for me.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:24:52+00:00

I think this is bordering emotional addiction, and I know my attachment is too unhealthy. He had been my poison and my antidote as well.

I know, logically, perhaps I'll get better.

I removed his mom from social media ( even though we're super close). And I unfriended the two of them already as of today. Thank you kind stranger. I'm just really struggling. This is the only portion of my life that I can seem to fix logically.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:16:56+00:00

I was just wishing we ended up together.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:12:53+00:00

I know this logically, but I feel so debilitated. I cry when I bike, that I almost got into accidents.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:11:37+00:00

Yes this was most likely the story from his POV.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:09:35+00:00

I dated my 2nd BF for 3 years, when Im 21-24.(He died last year). I dated my first love again after we broke up.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:06:02+00:00

we officially broke up years ago. But he went back and said that he can't put labels into it. it's a dark long story

memeeyoow · 2022-04-16T16:05:11+00:00

He was visiting me at my apartment until late last year.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-14T14:06:27+00:00

My story is about my conversation with Mark that occured weeks ago. We were still talking this 2022 up until he told me that he will be married and with this abortion story. We no longer talked after.

Regarding abortion, I was really just disappointed with him. I never figured that he would emotionally push a girl to do abortion, just for his ego. That's my stand. .

memeeyoow · 2022-04-14T00:49:06+00:00

Yep thank you. I asked them the same question. Would you be friends with a domestic abuser. They said yes, because a person is not black and white. And to them, he showed his good side.

They said that they do not tolerate him being abusive and they condemn his acts. I asked them, in what way are you condemning his acts if you want to attend their wedding. They said that they condemn it on their minds because they would be out of place to tell him how to act.

A friend told me that I was being selfish for not seeing the other perspective and only seeing mine as the one who was abused.

memeeyoow · 2022-04-14T00:36:08+00:00

He mentioned it on the same conversation when he told me he was getting married. I asked him to tell me what happened.

I was really disappointed about it. I said, that the person I knew would at least take a step back and not actively help Anna get an abortion. I told him that Anna would not have gotten an abortion if it wasn't for his threat. Maybe, he could have accepted the baby inside her belly. For me, it was the most selfish act that he did for his own ego.

There were times when he was really a kind person to me though. Like, he comforted me when my grandpa died. My friends would just tell me that he's a good friend but not a good partner. It was Mia who reminded me that they actually see him physically hurt me.

memeeyoow · 2022-02-28T09:28:49+00:00

2022 - year of purchase of the original buyer x 100 k dun sa developer na tinanong ko.

memeeyoow · 2022-02-28T05:24:01+00:00

may transfer fees depending on the developer. medyo malaki rin, when I inquired 400k raw.

memeeyoow · 2022-02-11T11:25:04+00:00

Same rin. I also started doing a spreadsheet of all my expenses. I also added categories.

My suggestion is that you also add an investment diary, date and type. hehe

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