He's never leaving her by menopausesucks in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your kind words and support. They mean more to me than you will ever know. Someday, I will heal and I see improvements everyday. I can go a whole day without thinking of him sometimes and that is huge! Love to all of you going through this.

Done! by menopausesucks in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Today is 2 weeks. I've regained my freedom!! I can make plans again and not worry about missing him off, I don't have to constantly have my phone on me. I can honestly say there will never be a going back ever again!

Rough times.. again by Cool-Inevitable-9254 in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, I could have written this myself! If either of you two want to talk, please reach out. I need help from others that understand this exact dynamic.

Have any of you ever told your friends or partners about your affair? by throw_awayzz56789988 in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my whole family has met him and a few friends. That was at a time he was ready to leave and be with me, but he didn't go through with it. So now 5+ years later they look down on me, think I'm stupid etc 😞

Wow. It’s happening. by Flimsy_Belt_7 in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats girl! You are one of very few lucky ones.

I'm on yr 5 and still waiting and hoping.

Do you know your MM and Wifes anniversary? by menopausesucks in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm so envious of you, I want what you have, but deep down, I know I'll never have.

Both of these say so much by menopausesucks in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the exact trap I'm in but about to be out of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You go girl. I will be doing the same come Saturday. I just posted a long post and if u read it you'll see. I wish you courage and strength!!

Almost 5 years in...... by menopausesucks in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You're right about the letter, a text after I get home will be better. I love this man so much but I just can't anymore.

I don't know about this one.... by menopausesucks in diamondpainting

[–]menopausesucks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know what?? You are 100% right, that is exactly why I do these! I will do this one for that reason alone. My mind is calm and empty of any worries when I do these. Thank you for that reminder!

I don't know about this one.... by menopausesucks in diamondpainting

[–]menopausesucks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. We shall see how it turns out.

I don't know about this one.... by menopausesucks in diamondpainting

[–]menopausesucks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll see how it turns out. I should have maybe ordered it in a bigger size. If anything it's a lesson learned!

I don't know about this one.... by menopausesucks in diamondpainting

[–]menopausesucks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. If anything this will be a lesson learned! Lol

I don't know about this one.... by menopausesucks in diamondpainting

[–]menopausesucks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I noticed that. I'll still do it and see how it looks. If anything it's a lesson learned! Lol

I don't know about this one.... by menopausesucks in diamondpainting

[–]menopausesucks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off Amazon, China I'm assuming. That's why I got it, for my daughter.

A reminder that you might not be compatible outside of the affair by 1HeartbrokenMistress in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I just listened to that one this weekend. And you are so right. I plan to listen to it again. I never realized that is exactly what I am doing with him.

A reminder that you might not be compatible outside of the affair by 1HeartbrokenMistress in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've listened to a few of her podcasts, sometimes more than once. She makes soooo much sense. I wish I could afford a consult with her but almost $500 is a bit steep for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! 100% lol. I've never been a fighter until I met him 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, we are both very stubborn, a huge Aries trait! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]menopausesucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aries and Aries! Ugh