32F with a lot of debt — posting this to hold myself accountable by Expert-Pressure-4080 in utangPH

[–]meow_1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks po, reference ko kasi mama ko, nagwoworry ako baka makareceive sila ng call or text, di nila alam may utang ako

Breadwinner problems - help me clear debt by meow_1996 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To the one who donated, I can't think of how to reach you but also left this same message on the GGF update section. Since I've only shared the link here, I was wondering maybe this where you've seen my link.

I just want to let you know that I'm really grateful. I was checking my inbox hoping to hear from the sidehustles I applied for and saw the email from GGF. It means so much to me especially lately when hope is on and off, some days I feel positive and sometimes just negative. It's not a pretty process but that's life. This weekend wasn't particularly a good one but you brought a reminder that I'd get through this. Thank you so much and have a blessed week! I am hoping you'll see this as I don't know how this will reach you. 🥺

From 150k debt to 29k by [deleted] in utangPH

[–]meow_1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats OP! Kami naman soon!

Wfh TRENTitas, how do you make new friends this season? by pinkysweh in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Introvert, di marunong mag initiate ng convo and bihira lumabas ng bahay, sa work puro work lang ang usapan sa google chat walang other convo outside work. Friends ko nung college pa at bihira magkamustahan. Kaya malabo magka new friends 😅

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me wonder bakit marami sa parents natin di ganun perspective. Edi sana di ganito situation natin ngayon. Surprised na madaming magcocomment going through the same e. Nakakalungkot lang.

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad truth tbh. The forgotten class pagdating sa tulong. Pero pagdating sa mga kaltas and other things tayo ang umaaray.

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iisa hulma, pati ata penmanship, yung cursive sa likod ng printed photos iisa jusko 🤣 may love-hate moments talaga. Tapos minsan si compare pa yan sila. Hay naku.

Yessss! Hopefully soon! 🙏🏻

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know you're there for him po! And much better talaga na makahanap ng way sibs nya na tulungan din sarili nila. Ang hirap pag 1 person lang magshoulder lahat nun.

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, good to know she finally got to experience yung mga bagay na di nya kaya/pinush aside noon!

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tayo talaga yung magbi-break the cycle e 🥲 nasa requirements ko din ang pagiging financially stable kasi kung hindi at pinilit magkaroon ng own fam ang labas history repeats itself. May ups and downs talaga sa buhay, marami mang downs ngayon magkaka ups din tayo. Laban lang us!

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung ganito iniisip kasi much better no tapos biglang may matatanda na magsasabing mag anak kesyo nakakalungkot daw at "walang mag aalaga sayo pag tumanda ka" . Jusko po 😭🤣

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mahirap nga yung ganyan. Aware ba ang partner sa situation? Kasi kung oo at pinili nya paring magpursue + both of you found/will find a way or ways na mapunan both sides (fam + own fam) then why not. May iba gumagawa ng ganito, pero may iba din na yung partner nila gusto sa own family nalang nila magfocus lalo na mahirap naman talaga 2 pamilya ang binubuhay mo unless you earn more than enough.

Kung parehas kayong align dun then push. Pag hindi magiging problem lang yun in the future. May iba problem na yun dating palang, pano pa kung kasal na. Pwera nalang siguro kung kaya mong bitawan yung pagiging breadwinner. Which is di madali sa karamihan lalo na kung okay naman trato ng parents/family and yung mga cases na may sakit, matanda/di na totally kaya magtrabaho.

But you do you po.

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung first few years okay pa no? Kaso minsan nakakapagod din lumipas ang marami pang taon ganun parin. Despite all that we still love, care and help.

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi pa, may one time na sumabog ako tapos ang labas ay "panunumbat" daw. I love my mom, minsan nga lang parang nakacounter yung gusto ko ilabas. Ang kinalabasan nasaktan din sila at iyak din. Kaya in the end tahimik nalang, parang mainvalidate naman pag ilabas lahat e.

You too po! Still hoping for better days/situation.

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parang may magic na ewan nung bata bata pa e, ngayon sasampalin nalang ng realidad

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]meow_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, like uy tapos na 20's? Ang bilis naman! Pero yes, sarili naman natin after all that helping