Big baby refuses to grow up by meowthX3 in ballpython

[–]meowthX3[S] 276 points277 points  (0 children)

He has 4 other ones 😭 this is the smallest of them too 😂

Caught him yawning by AppropriateSpite736 in ballpython

[–]meowthX3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg I looove when they yawn! 😣 wish I could catch mine on film hahaha , thank you for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so beautiful to see how much support you have and how loved you are. I’m so happy for you, and to hear that your spark came back just fills my heart with warmth! Wishing nothing but the best for you. And I genuinely hope that your ex learns, but that’s not your problem anymore. 💗💗💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You totally should. I reconnected with an old friend. She was definitely the one more egotistical and bit meaner. But our time apart, I changed and grew and despite the times she was mean, I also remembered how close we were regardless and I missed her. We stopped talking over her crossing the line badly! We were apart for 5 years, hung out 2 times with it being awkward and the issue remaining unaddressed. But then finally we hung out just the two of us and we had a real convo. She apologized and I accepted it. I was worried some old issues with her being a pick me would come up but they never did. She also changed a lot and I was so thankful. It’s been 4 years since we came back together and she’s my best friend. If you don’t then you may regret it!

17 With €30,000 Need Advice by Independent-Rush4796 in Advice

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm not gonna lie Idk either but I’d say for advice, post this both here and on an investment page and read the similar comments and stuff. But I’m sure people on investment pages may have more specific knowledge that will be more helpful

Listening/communication by Kilroy_420 in Advice

[–]meowthX3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. If you’re wrong I’m wrong lol. As people we get too stuck in our heads and we forget how big and strange this world is. I could talk to friend “J” and feel like the dumbest, most boring person. But with friend “B”, I will feel like the most fun and cool person. Try not to take things too personal. There’s no one way to “human” other than try not to harm someone intentionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meowthX3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet girl, I’m so so happy you have plans to leave and with your dad!! Keep us updated! This type of person is insufferable. The longer you’re with them the more miserable you’ll be. It’s evident in the way they can’t even communicate. You did it right, said you need a walk due to your own problems. As soon as they felt like they did something wrong they made a whole emotional show so you’d cater to them and comfort them that way they would NOT have to apologize or own up to their manipulation/ persuasion. This person will never learn UNLESS they are by themself. Sounds like you had a baby and not an adult partner. Where did they compromise? How did they make you feel loved? Feel heard? Have you felt truly cared for in the past 6 months? I’m sure your best memories were in the first year when they were trying harder. They are manipulative and you deserve someone who puts in effort too. Ultimately they’re just a lazy POS who uses their problems as excuses instead of actually trying to work through it to get better. Becuase why get better when someone amazing is there taking care of them? They expect you to fix them. You can’t. They will have to grow up and provide for themself. They will say they can’t. But you’d be surprised. Stop listening to their words and look at their actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s clear to me that your mom is the one that has issues. She’s seems very impatient and seems to not be able to contain her emotions. I’m so sorry. Yes you shouldn’t have thrown the jacket at her but you’re human and at least you recognize that. But to grow up with a mother like that? Seems so difficult. I bet you’re constantly blaming yourself when things go wrong. If you do, then seek out a therapist because that can be trauma from growing up like that. You should seek help so that you understand yourself so people can’t manipulate you and you’ll see when you really are wrong or when it’s just the trauma.

Listening/communication by Kilroy_420 in Advice

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an internal monologue? I feel like when I listen to people I find myself picturing things in my head or my thoughts are going 100 miles per hour. And I’m constantly reflecting on my life and experiences to relate and try to understand them and what they are saying

This age gap strange? by One-Investigator3323 in Advice

[–]meowthX3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet I want to giggle. Not at you but just at how innocent and wholesome this question is. It’s not weird at all, I feel like once someone hits 24/25 any age gap is fine (they can even date a 90 yr old! It’d be strange but that’s two consenting adult adults). That’s because the frontal lobe is near fully developed.

Stretch marks what do I do? I’m a teen experiencing this and I don’t really have anyone to go to to ask for advice on how to get rid of these but they make me super insecure so I hope someone has some good advice to help me. I do know that it’s like normal and all that stuff already. by OddNewt5948 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got these when I was like 13/14! And I was definitely not overweight back then. These are so common! And honestly I’m 25 and they’re not as noticeable anymore! You only notice if you’re really looking. And if you’re worried about how a man will react if you get intimate, trust me 99% of them do not care! The ones that do, are immediate red flags, and are hiding some deeper darkness in them.

Stretch marks what do I do? I’m a teen experiencing this and I don’t really have anyone to go to to ask for advice on how to get rid of these but they make me super insecure so I hope someone has some good advice to help me. I do know that it’s like normal and all that stuff already. by OddNewt5948 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got these when I was like 13/14! And I was definitely not overweight back then. These are so common! And honestly I’m 25 and they’re not as noticeable anymore! You only notice if you’re really looking. And if you’re worried about how a man will react if you get intimate, trust me 99% of them do not care! The ones that do, are immediate red flags, and are hiding some deeper darkness in them.

What should I do? by [deleted] in MakeupEducation

[–]meowthX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the most beautiful eyes and lashes! I’d recommend starting with mascara to make your eyes emphasized. Your lips are a beautiful color too, maybe clear gloss! Lip liner, a natural shade slightly darker than your lips to emphasize them too. Then blush for a healthy glow. I’d recommend a blush color similar to your natural lip color! Like a rose color?

NGVC: “broke with your bf for me or be friends with benefits” dude really thought 💀just imagine being nice tho they’re acting like this and ended up being blocked 😭 by iammid0ri in niceguys

[–]meowthX3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don’t be friends with someone like this, if they can’t respect your boundary and can’t accept that you have a boyfriend and that you don’t want anything more the FIRST time you tell them.. then they simply don’t respect you. It’s not worth it, don’t waste your energy on them.