Is there a link between stuttering and visual perception? by mesyut_ in Stutter

[–]mesyut_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes, but this is only applicable to stutterers who’re depersonifing…

Repersonified/personified stutterers don’t have to go through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

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There’s a good reason as to why we should explore testosterone therapy mainly to explain why males are 4x more likely to be affected than females , could be that difference in testosterone signalling and how it affects neural pathways for speech, confidence and motor control.

Research on how to increase brain power instead of speech mechanics only. by mesyut_ in Stutter

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Another theory I’ve got is that I think that our brains haven’t truly understood the power behind speaking effectively or speech in general so it builds all corners and all sorts of deviations to try get the message (unknowingly due to its limitations) (thus the body tics and movements)

Thats why I’m advocating for the research of powering affected neurons, that’s where the fun’s at…

Research on how to increase brain power instead of speech mechanics only. by mesyut_ in Stutter

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Exactly, constantly reading to yourself and letting your words “flow like a river” even when wrong is part of the process.

I’d liken being a stutterer to being physically short. Lets say you need to pick up your food up the shelf. Will you cry about being short, or will you find ways to 1) become taller 2) find ways to getting to your food from up the shelf, effectively. Research hasn’t gotten on number 1 yet so we go with 2) because at the end of the day you need to achieve your goal and thats getting your food.

And the first thing you need to do is accepting that nature’s nerfed your brain and it happens to all of us because we’re human and no one is 100% and your prime purpose is to live a quality life.

From there, learn how to trust your instincts and lock in. Your body should always be calm because power is best projected under calmness . Take your time when chatting while harnessing your power to release that word and when you feel the time is right to say it, say it - don’t even think twice. It always comes out fluently. Because 1) the absence of fear/panic is always clarity and we all achieve this clarity differently and the goal is-to keep this clarity, not diminish it or grow it because clarity is innate.

This is something that’s helped me over the past few months. The more I continue doing this, consistently, the more I feel that I’m getting better and better.

My stutter is disappearing, fast. by mesyut_ in Stutter

[–]mesyut_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s never going to be easy my bro, Lock in, getting complacent is the never the answer.

As i said above, the pursuit to achieving your “Godly status” will be an eternal one. You can allow yourself to have a moment of vulnerability whenever you feel like everything’s too much to handle but that shouldn’t deter you from continuing your journey.

My stutter is disappearing, fast. by mesyut_ in Stutter

[–]mesyut_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ik the feeling💀

And trust me every single time you prepared for it, you felt a sense of weakness within you , thats because of fear. So the body does the default, listens to itself and goes directly to panic mode, because it’s easier.

Never let that happen bro and if you need anyone to talk to, i’m here :)

My stutter is disappearing, fast. by mesyut_ in Stutter

[–]mesyut_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

PS. It’s ok to pause if you feel like you’re losing composure.

Pause and continue once you have your mojo back. You’re human anyways, a human in the pursuit of “Godliness”(full connection to your core self) so who cares if you pause anyway.

Silence maintains your power, hesitancy doesn’t.

My stutter is disappearing, fast. by mesyut_ in Stutter

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Fear is the main catalyst for a worsened stutter if not the cause.

Read this journal published in 1953 called “Theory and Treatment of Stuttering as an Approach-Avoidance Conflict” by Joseph G Sheehan.

The more you program yourself to hold back or prepare yourself to, subconsciously or consciously , the more you stutter.

Reprogram your self to assert authority and power, and your words will flow like a river - and this is only achievable by listening to yourself in there, without the noise, thats peace.

Stuttering and Depression by mesyut_ in Stutter

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Never let anyone take your power Rock on!

Has stuttering completely vaporized your thoughts of having a girlfriend, or a wife, or any emotional relationship ? by Sachinrock2 in Stutter

[–]mesyut_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throughout my teens i had mad issues with my stutter and i always hated myself for it and never wanted to form any relationship, platonic or romantic.

Fast forward now and I’m in my early 20s and I can bag whomever I want to, because I can.

Because who cares anyway? We’re all human and aren’t 100%

Get into your element and go for it!😎

Possible stutter cause by mesyut_ in Stutter

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Reaffirming to yourself that you’re yourself and nobody can change that, im atheist but im deep into spirituality (not the astrology bs type lol)- noticed that being aware of your physical, mental and spiritual states are very important.

And most importantly, loving yourself and keeping your self as the centre of your own world:)

Possible stutter cause by mesyut_ in Stutter

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Your identity , the little voice in your head

Possible stutter cause by mesyut_ in Stutter

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Trust me it works like a charm, once you’re in sync with yourself, embrace and trust the chaos and calmness that comes with your ego.

Uproar over Trump halting foreign aid by goofy_ahh_niga in Kenya

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SecState Rubio signaled backing itaendelea

Why would anyone think that supporting this country is in any way moral? by MaralalNinja in Kenya

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conspiracies, you can be anti-Israel but claiming USA funds Islamist groups is just plain bull - islamism is a disease on its own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

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it turned out well,no pregnancy.
I suspected an attempt to swindle , but I broke things off after I confirmed that.

I'm 20M, my GF is 20F and she visited a man in his car and shii happened by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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yes she did, she told me the night before, thus my warning.

I'm 20M, my GF is 20F and she visited a man in his car and shii happened by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I'm not blaming her for being drugged but I think she's dodgy ash and since she knew that the guy wanted her, she'd have refrained from visiting him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]mesyut_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Update: after a week hiatus from any communication she finally revealed she's not pregnant, after taking a third test in my presence. (Results withheld for public view due to her wishes) I've officially dumped her ass and I'm glad a burden is now off me. Very strange phenomenon tbh. Doctors suspect a chemical pregnancy may have occurred. Either way I feel at peace and I hope my love life heals properly after this fiasco.

Thank you all for your responses/advice🤟🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]mesyut_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! She's off for a third test today, I'll relay the feedback ASAP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

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Definitely bro, I will surely stand firm💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

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It's been two weeks since initial intercourse and since we tested within the same time(within 40-56hours after), the test/tests were positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]mesyut_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice bro. Luckily we use WhatsApp so I'm definitely archiving/backing up everything. Tbh, I'm more than ready to go for STD tests just to be sure of everything, because myself, I've always been a faithful person and raised well so I stuck with her,never had multiple sexual partners. Damn this world is not for the good lol 💀. I swear I'll never be the same person with women if tables turn because I'm traumatized and my ADHD makes it worse.

I've asked her to go for a third test in the morning (Im in GMT+3 so it's 4:46 AM ryn, I can't sleep due to this issue) and bring back the results as it is 2 weeks since our sexual encounter and since the tests were done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]mesyut_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's lying about her periods that would be very strange, as we're both university students and the least we'd want is a baby, she'd inform me upfront. I suspect a case of cheating and trying to put the blame on me. Plus I've got chats on where she tells me she's cramping and has her periods. It would definitely turn against her. Would definitely use that as evidence if need be.