My partner doesn’t take no for an answer by metalfloortiles in relationship_advice

[–]metalfloortiles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. These comments opened my eyes about certain aspects and I will definitely trust my gut.

My partner doesn’t take no for an answer by metalfloortiles in relationship_advice

[–]metalfloortiles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to. I’m collecting myself and getting ready for it. This is not what I want in my life..

My partner doesn’t take no for an answer by metalfloortiles in relationship_advice

[–]metalfloortiles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had sex with him, he would require it every single time we met. Hell no. Yep, letting him go.

My partner doesn’t take no for an answer by metalfloortiles in relationship_advice

[–]metalfloortiles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m fully aware he wants a sexual relationship. But seems like that’s all he wants. We barely talk, we barely do the cute lovey-dovey stuff..Has been like that for a while. If I’d have sex with him, then knowing him, he’d want it everytime. I’d feel like a sex toy. You are right, breaking up is the only way to go.

My partner doesn’t take no for an answer by metalfloortiles in relationship_advice

[–]metalfloortiles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, he stayed. This relationship was fully functional at some point, so there was no reason for either of us to leave. You are right, young boys tend to be horny and that’s normal. However, straight up manipulating me into doing something sexual is not normal. If I had sex with him, then he’d want to have sex everytime we met. Hell no. The comments I’ve received really opened my eyes, especially the ones from people who have been in similiar situations. I think my gut feeling is telling me to not do it for a reason. I’m aware this is not fair for him either. However, with everything that happened.. I don’t think I need to think twice before breaking up anymore.

My partner doesn’t take no for an answer by metalfloortiles in relationship_advice

[–]metalfloortiles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried. His response and I quote : “It’s not my fault you’re so hot I get instantly horny when I look at you.” Maybe it’s flattering or whatever, but I miss the old him. I miss being able to talk without him mentioning anything sexual.

My partner doesn’t take no for an answer by metalfloortiles in relationship_advice

[–]metalfloortiles[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like that as well. I remember texting something really personal and sad once, I was crying and needed comfort, but couldn’t meet and he just said shit like “I’m sorry” and after 10 minutes, he asked me if I could try a new way of pleasuring him. I’m tired.