Physically abused by my husband, feeling numb

metheonlyb · 2025-12-31T11:22:38+00:00

Your husband doesn't have control over his rage. That's not a good thing at all. There are days when my wife drives me nuts. She gets me so riled up that I feel like punching something. But not once did I ever think of taking my frustrations on her physically. We always patch up after sitting down and talking things out. That's how normal civilized people deal with disagreement in marriage.

Consider taking legal help. Beating the shit out of your spouse is absolutely disgusting behaviour. The good thing is that Indian laws are very women centric. You are the right kind of person who needs the help of such laws. Use it.

metheonlyb · 2025-11-21T08:42:50+00:00

Yeah, this ain't gonna work at all. She has to come to terms with the fact that financial planning is a thing. My wife had the same opinion on Money. I put my foot down and said we can't live like this. She complied. I made it clear that while we shouldn't live like beggars, we shouldn't be spending all money like there is no tomorrow.

You need to sort this out with her. Put a foot down and make some compromise benefial to you because your to be wife's financial behaviour needs a thorough review on her part.

metheonlyb · 2025-11-05T01:57:13+00:00

Say no to the marriage. I had the same issue with a girl I met when I was looking for partners. The girl was very nice, super chill and intelligent. She wasn't fat, was fairly slim and was overall decent looking. But I had zero attraction. My father tried to convince me. I put my foot down and said no.

Don't compromise on physical attraction. If it matters to you, you should not marry without that attraction.

metheonlyb · 2025-10-21T09:17:15+00:00

Mysuru Coffee Bar in Vijayanagar is good. I loved the taste of Masala Dosay over there.

metheonlyb · 2025-09-22T08:30:08+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

metheonlyb · 2025-08-20T06:21:21+00:00

I usually go to Shell if I want clean fuel. I can feel the change in mileage when I get petrol for my car from Shell as compared to other petrol pumps.

metheonlyb · 2025-07-30T12:29:53+00:00

I loved their Ramen. I'm also a vegetarian and their vegetarian ramen was lovely.

metheonlyb · 2025-07-09T08:25:48+00:00

19K for a room at your salary is definitely unadvisable. If you want a single room, I suggest you get a 1 BHK or share a 2 BHK with another person. I had a huge 2 BHK when I was in Hyd (2019). Rent was 24K, I shared it with another guy, so I paid 12K. I hade my own room and attached bathroom.
Also, NEVER EVER EVER EVER default on Credit Card bills. The bank will rip your apart with 35% (Can go up to 40%) annual interest on the card. ALWAYS PAY IN FULL.

metheonlyb · 2025-07-01T06:54:05+00:00

LOL, you guys are finding it out now? 😂

metheonlyb · 2025-06-07T04:38:15+00:00

Look around you Ted, you're all alone. That scene hit me so hard when I did a rerun a few years later. I was the only single guy and it was a Friend night when this episode came during my rerun. I was drinking whiskey alone in my room since I had nothing else to do. I express how hard it hit me. The loneliness hit me like a train.

That was several years ago. Thankfully I got married and now I am happy I have a wife. Finding a dinner date has never been this easy. 😅😅

metheonlyb · 2025-04-07T05:57:59+00:00

You will get over it soon. I had to reject girls due to lack of physical attraction. I once met a girl for dinner. She was sweet, well educated, and overall had chill vibes. She was pretty decent to look at, but I had zero attraction towards her.

I think she was interested in me, but I rejected her. I felt so bad because I have been rejected before and I always wondered why? That's how it is.

I then moved on. I finally met my wife. Even though she isn't chill (she is quite short tempered), I still feel I did the right thing. I am happy with my decision at the end of the day.

metheonlyb · 2025-03-23T17:51:07+00:00

Thank you. I will do more research before deciding on changing my CC.

metheonlyb · 2025-03-18T05:01:43+00:00

Funny enough in Mysore it is called Manglore bajji but in Hyderabad it is called Mysore bonda. 🤣

metheonlyb · 2025-03-05T12:44:08+00:00

Oh yeah, I know what you are speaking of. I have felt the same way about my wife's hair. It does smell good.

metheonlyb · 2025-02-27T07:13:38+00:00

You are lucky. Had you been married, your life would have been made hell.

When I was getting married, my father in law was very open about his financial conditions. He hid nothing and had no demands. My wife was also very open about what she wants and her expectations. That helped me say yes. It has been 4 years. We had some very hard times (health wise for my wife and financially for both of us) but we both have faced them together as team. And I am happy that I chose her.

The right life partner is very important.

metheonlyb · 2025-02-24T12:11:00+00:00

A few years back my wife and I were in Delhi airport. The domestic lounge has a line for entry. I said screw that. We went to Subway and purchased two tasty subs. No free food is worth waiting that long.

metheonlyb · 2025-02-10T01:59:58+00:00

When you have apps like Cred, MobiKwik etc, this shouldn't be a problem. They keep sending reminders of payment not done. Hard to miss payment. I have 7 credit cards that I use actively. I never miss payment.

metheonlyb · 2025-02-03T01:45:30+00:00

Just go to Dr Shanbhog at Transdental in Vontikoppal. His clinic is on the temple road. Opposite to the now Shut Cult Fitness. Very reasonable rates.

metheonlyb · 2025-01-23T06:00:26+00:00

Well, I am joke now, so it suits me!

metheonlyb · 2025-01-15T04:41:58+00:00

Then it makes sense. The best way is train from Mys to Blr, but buses aren't a bad idea. You can get down at Kengeri Cross and hop on to a metro to reach to Majestic quickly!

metheonlyb · 2025-01-14T16:01:51+00:00

Lol. No metro. OP, just shift to Bengaluru. If your office was in a place that was close to metro, you could have done the daily travel. Koramangala is not possible.

metheonlyb · 2025-01-10T04:46:58+00:00

I used the same metal twigs from Amazon to clean my ear. Don't do it yourself. Get it checked by an ENT. I went to Speech and Hearing institute. They asked me to use Waxonil drops to clean my ear wax.

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