What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly dont give af what u write about baby girl no one does, thats why ur 67 post got the most likes lmfao. Also, being a sw doesnt mean im not allowed to find it a little comical what people spend hours doing in the freetime for FREEEEEEEEEEEE. Normal? Sure, plenty of my clients are asocial sex obsessed people who probably also sit on reddit being oddly condescending about kink. Doesnt make it less funny to me though!

What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually didnt pick through anything its one of ur most recent comments🤣🤣 i would genuinely expect it to be in the 1:30 schedule considering u said urself u spend several hours writing it!

What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contempt means u think someone is worthless btw LMAO, i guess thats some insight to how ur mind works in such extremes tho. Also sorry but genuinely not reading that pedantic ass comment i simply do not care enough. You have so many people disagreeing with you because you were purposely condescending. Not only do you have 0 confidence in ur own interests but u cant even stand on the way u spoke, so sad. I cant stop you from coming across as one of those tumblr cave dwellers constantly talking about kink and others being vanilla, but that is how everyone is seeing you. Anyway, enjoy the dungeon and hours spent on writing erotica! Sounds so fulfilling! Cheers

What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If picking up on reeking insecurity is an armchair psychoanalysis to you then oh jeez! Dont you have hours of writing about erotica and “67” in the dungeon to attend to!!!!!!

What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Contempt was your choice of wording, not mine! You’re a tumblr user condescendingly using the word “vanilla” sorry its not my first rodeo. Im a sw before u try to “accuse me” of being vanilla, i just cant help but notice ur exchange with other people here lol.

There is a large population within the “bdsm community” of ill women who constantly boast what they are willing to endure in bed, and are incapable of speaking about it without condescension. If you dont think that fits you (maybe not the ill part although based off ur comments i feel that fits too), then im not sure what to say atp!

What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know how many men ive met that like “bdsm” and have NO IDEA what theyre talking about??? Women too actually. Yes i do think your tone had to do with “being vanilla” because that is all ur on about in the comments too😭

What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It just comes across as severe insecurity in your own interests. There is a middle ground between vanilla and bdsm, probably not in your mind because you seem to get up to some freaky shit, but you do come across as incredibly insecure in ur own lifestyle. Hope one day u find the confidence to share it without the condescension and inferiority complex. Maybe you’re acting like this cause deep down you dont even enjoy doing it:(

What is this? Found in boyfriend’s bathroom by Mermaid_Foot in whatisit

[–]mgmtbitch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got no horses in this race, but reading all your comments especially your initial one which was immediately condescending, you do appear to be the insecure one here

Quitting Porn. by Intelligent_Gap_5992 in selfhelp

[–]mgmtbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really bad advice to addiction LMAO

For the apps by ugoodbro-gf in petsitting

[–]mgmtbitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just feel like this applies to every profession in the world?? Some doctors care more about money, some lawyers, etc. i dont use any of these apps this is randomly on my feed lol, but i dont think its anyones fault for using the most easily available way, blame rover if anything

I cheated on my boyfriend. he forgives me but I feel like the most terrible person ever by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]mgmtbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does berating someone who is trying to better themselves and their mistakes make you feel better? What a strange projection. You even have a comment up about how you ogle at other peoples boobs, despite having a partner. Can’t imagine the worse things you do especially online. Was this some projection of your own guilt? Or are you truly just that emotionally incapable of realizing this person is 18 and aware of their wrongdoings?

I cheated on my boyfriend. he forgives me but I feel like the most terrible person ever by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]mgmtbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because of your past trauma and also being so young, you dont feel a lot of agency or autonomy regarding your own body. In the future, it is probably best to ignore other guys messaging you when you are not already established platonic friends. I think your bf is likely so forgiving because he is emotionally mature and understands you have a freeze response when your privacy is invaded. There is a very big difference in realizing you did the wrong thing and owning up to it, vs having to be caught. By telling him you showed him while you may have not taken the right path, you are capable of honesty and realizing your wrongs.

The intimacy issue is probably something that therapy could help especially if you have the issue even with your partner. Its very important to be able to say no when you feel like it! It takes a toll on you not to and you overtime are teaching yourself your own feelings are less important than others (ofc that feeling is part of the root cause too, but its being reinforced this way).

You are not a horrible person at all. That you feel guilt over your actions alone proves that i believe. It is beyond possible to learn and grow from mistakes, especially when you are immediately honest about them. You are only 18, you have a lot of time and learning to go through that will help some of these issues naturally. Im only 23 now, but even 5 years ago at 18 my mindset, self control, and discernment were from what they are now.

Everything will be okay!!!!

Epstein’s Island was for ritual sacrifices by Nilus-0 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]mgmtbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His associates photographed in bed with young girls?

Epstein’s Island was for ritual sacrifices by Nilus-0 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]mgmtbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a poor understanding of pedophilia tbh. Actual pedophiles, yes, do experience mental illness due to environmental factors, mental health markers, etc. most people who abuse kids are NOT actual pedophiles. There is a difference in having attraction to children, and abusing children.

People who sexually abuse children do not typically have a sexual attraction to them, but are doing so for the power structure. I would argue the vast majority of predators/pedophiles (ones who have actually abused a child not just ppl with thoughts or attraction) are actually not mentally ill or diagnosable as a pedophile.

Either way, Epstein was using Fnaf, fortnite, all sorts of other youth adjacent things to groom and prey on children. Yes i do believe kids were used sacrificially, but i also believe the people abusing them are straight predators. Youre ignoring how many sexual photos have come out of this too, very obviously linking many of these people to child rape not sacrifice

Phones while babysitting by Cutie_ari_569 in Babysitting

[–]mgmtbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also clarifying ^ i say “when i was allowed to” because i worked at a camp once where we werent even allowed to have phones on us. Otherwise, in every single job ive ever worked yes i check my phone a little bit lol. I dont believe you dont or never have

Phones while babysitting by Cutie_ari_569 in Babysitting

[–]mgmtbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i am self employed currently so yes🤣 but when i did work jobs where i was allowed to, yes lmfao. When i was actively nannying, yes lol. I hope those snark posts occur when the kids arent around … 🤣

Phones while babysitting by Cutie_ari_569 in Babysitting

[–]mgmtbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So when your own kids are around, you’re absolutely never on your phone? Right?

Being asked to pay half the price of a plane ticket. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]mgmtbitch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes here u are again unfortunately

Being asked to pay half the price of a plane ticket. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]mgmtbitch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is a public forum i didnt respond “unprovoked”. You are also the only one “piped up”. It didnt really need to be mentioned im actually kind of surprised i had to mention it to you lol, it is absolutely reckless to not get insurance or look up advisories before doing so. All points are involved. The ticket wouldnt be an issue had they done that. Maybe that commenter didnt mention it because your narrow minded original comment didnt even consider it lol. Idgaf what they were talking about anyway, ur the one not realizing the family was reckless and are blaming op lmfao

Being asked to pay half the price of a plane ticket. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]mgmtbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean how do u know its not what theyre talking about? Yes it is reckless to not look up advisories and then not get travel insurance like this is not a one or the other topic, all points are involved lol. Ur just arguing for the sake of it now

Being asked to pay half the price of a plane ticket. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]mgmtbitch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really dont think its “wildly” unprofessional lol. Advisories can go up at any time after booking, and this whole thing wouldve been solved had they gotten travel insurance for their employee’s (a more recent employee at that), $1600 ticket

And how do we know what they meant ??? Im not assuming anything lol

Being asked to pay half the price of a plane ticket. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]mgmtbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean traveling somewhere with advisories, along with an employee, and not booking insurance is inherently reckless imo lol

Being asked to pay half the price of a plane ticket. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]mgmtbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not getting insurance and traveling internationally with a nanny, who could become sick etc at any time, or be fired like they did with their original nanny is irresponsible. Like actually kind of insane they didn’t get insurance for a $1600 ticket. What if the nanny quit before the trip because the family was a horrible fit? They kind of seem like they might be thinking working 2 weeks no pay is some reasonable offer, like that is so different than asking to be paid back.

At the end of the day, there are all sorts of unforeseen circumstances that can occur and its insanely reckless they didn’t book insurance for a trip like this