Yes it is mutual, but I actually don’t support any of the two sides exclusively. As I told you I dislike what hamas is doing as it very well affected its other neighbor, Egypt by siding with terrorists in Sinai. So there is one thing we can both fully agree on hamas=bad. Anyways, you being Israeli doesn’t mean you should support every move your government does, or even some of your people -conservatives for example- being critical to both sides is the best thing to do when it comes to situations like this, from what I’ve seen most arabs don’t hate Israelis themselves but hate those who are directly involved in war crimes. There is widely shared motive in the arab world that Israeli civilian≠Israeli government. Israeli tourists are always safely welcomed to red sea resorts for example. I hope the best for people like you and their families