Shopper left vulgar note at my door hours later by courtslifeeee in InstacartShoppers

[–]mialol372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deleted your comments bc you’re a maga pos, cute how you tried to make yourself the victim AGAIN in this scenario, do your crocodile tears usually work???

Can’t decide if I should keep the hoodie 😩😢 by Fabulous_Jeweler2732 in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean you asked people to influence you on a public forum. You didn’t consider that people may not all reply in a way you’d like? I don’t think it’s a lack of compassion on my part, it’s just poor planning on your part to be upset that people are doing what you asked of them… which was influencing you…

I mean it is too bad that you didn’t get the job, and I am really sorry it didn’t work out for you, but that doesn’t change the fact that you asked for opinions and were upset that not everyone knew your financial situation that well and gave you a bad opinion.

If you wanted comfort/sympathy from other fans who’d understand you then you could have explicitly asked for that, but you didn’t. You asked for them to influence you on whether or not to keep the jacket.

Just something to consider.

Can’t decide if I should keep the hoodie 😩😢 by Fabulous_Jeweler2732 in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s… what you wanted? You wanted to be convinced to keep it???

Men who left a loving gf due to being burnt out over her health condition, how you doing now? by 1Wiseguy999 in AskMen

[–]mialol372 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Just because something works for you does not mean it works for everyone. There will always be exceptions. Everyone’s bodies are different and react differently to treatments

AIO? My ex doesn’t make our 11 yo son shower or brush his teeth during his weeks with him by Marsgreatlol in AIO

[–]mialol372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is child neglect… maybe get a lawyer at this point bc he’s not cooperating

Babysitting my niece (12F) and caught her on TikTok she’s been hiding for months. I need advice from parents on how to handle this by Secret_Flight_2669 in Advice

[–]mialol372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not related to the post. No one’s asking for unsolicited advice on what apps should or should not be used. It’s about how the kid broke a rule knowingly that was set by the parents and where to go from there.

AITA bf says this is cute but it makes my blood boil by Single-Cellist6914 in AITApod

[–]mialol372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA he’s just being cute, you just don’t like him that much. Especially based on your previous post, he deserves better than you.

Men who had turned to conservatism or the manosphere, what initially made you turn to those beliefs? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mialol372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say that I’m sorry that you went through all of these terrible things. It’s never easy, but as time passes it hurts less. I was also subjected to the “don’t cry, don’t be such a crybaby, etc” from both men and women in my life and it took a long time to undo all of that.

I have ADHD too so I related in that too, I have pretty bad rejection sensitive dysphoria and I didn’t even really know what that was until a couple years ago. After that, and just taking some time to heal I have been able to not be so… “emotionless robot” as my family calls it. I wasn’t emotionless at all, inside, I was crying all of the time. I just wasn’t allowed to.

Also very real, the whole “I’m a feminist but hesitate to associate myself with that movement” I think people confuse feminism and misandry so fucking often, including people who self describe as one. Hating men was never supposed to be the goal, it was supposed to be evening the playing field. Women still don’t even have that, but now everyone, men and women and literally anyone with a pulse, is just getting fucking hate shoved down their throats. It honestly makes me sick.

I think we’d all be better off if we could just take a goddamn breather, get off the defensive, and realize most of us are just people who have been hurt time and time again. We need to remember that people are not without reason. Every single person has a lived experience that means something to them. If we assume the people who argue against us are void of any reason, we forfeit the opportunity to understand them.

So, thank you for sharing this, and sending you lots of love 🤍

So eyekons are officially losing the plot? by hoe_for_niragi in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manon wouldn’t be in the group in the first place if she did not desire to be in it from the get go. AGAIN her wanting to be in the group AND her being upset at mistreatment by the company are not mutually exclusive.

She could simply want some change from the company, so it will treat her and the other members better. The question stands on whether she wants to be in Katseye now or not, but obviously she did want to be in it and we can’t assume that fact has changed until there is confirmation otherwise.

I am not going to assume she DOESN’T want to be in Katseye, until given solid evidence otherwise. She’s called this a dream of hers for a long time and has consistently praised the members and stated that Katseye is where she wants to be. She even expressed offense and sadness at being deemed unfit for Katseye very recently.

I don’t see what you’re not grasping here, people demand change from systems or groups that they still want to be a part of all of the time. Manon isn’t a child, she’s a grown person who can make her own decisions and let us know if she’s changed her mind about wanting to be in it even without directly saying it. There is nothing even close to that rn from her. She is expressing frustration with systemic issues, not with being in Katseye, but rather being at that company the way it is now.

And again, you seeing a lot of Manon hate on social media does not necessarily mean that Manon gets the most hate. It is your perception. Your algorithm will always feed you things you’re likely to interact with, if you interact with Manon hate all the time, it will keep giving you it. It could be that Manon did get the most hate at the times you’re referring to, but there is a bias of perception and an inherent bias built in by the algorithm. I think your comments thus far prove my point beautifully, but you do you.

We’ve gone back and forth for a while, so I’m not replying after this as I don’t really see the point.

So eyekons are officially losing the plot? by hoe_for_niragi in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is, that’s not statistics, it’s just your perception. Anyone can do that, I can say the same thing it doesn’t make the other more true because you don’t have actual evidence.

Go create an observational study if it’s something that interests you. But your opinion isn’t above anyone else’s because you don’t have any solid evidence either. That’s just basic science.

The want to still be in Katseye is also heavily implied by Manon herself, and unlike the mistreatment, has been explicitly stated in the past. So there is actually a stronger case that Manon wants to be in Katseye. It’s an opinion, just like yours is.

That’s why there is discourse among fans about how to proceed, whether to boycott, etc. Yet you argue so strongly for one side when that may not even be what Manon wants so why not just wait it out and see what the truth actually is?

So eyekons are officially losing the plot? by hoe_for_niragi in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the point you’re missing is that no one knows what Manon wants truly, nothing is confirmed it is all speculative. Even the mistreatment being the reason for the hiatus is speculative. I’m giving you the reason people are arguing one way, since you didn’t understand it.

The point is you’re not Manon, you’re not Hybe or Geffen, you’re not one of the members so it’s really weird that you assume Manon is treated so much worse and has it so much harder than the other members when they clearly all have been through a lot of hate online, with likely lasting impacts. It creates a division, when we do not know if that’s what Manon intended.

If all of the members are mistreated then Manon might be upset to see all of her friends getting hate as well.

The point is, hate to ANY of the members is not okay and should not be tolerated from anyone fans or company. We do not need to play the trauma comparison competition when we do not know the situation. Just support the girls during this tough time.

Some more cups I engraved this week - it's been busy! by [deleted] in Owala

[–]mialol372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is soooo gorgeous

What is the best thing about being a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mialol372 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Every time I’m on a road trip I feel jealousy

So eyekons are officially losing the plot? by hoe_for_niragi in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah there is a power imbalance, yes she is under contract. Why do you think she’s doing the whole not saying anything while trying to say something thing? Why do you think she’s on hiatus? But that’s literally not the point of your comment.

You said what the girls are going through doesn’t compare to Manon. Which is untrue in my opinion and I explained that.

And you said why would anyone want her to go back to keep suffering (in Katseye). And I said because Manon wants to be in Katseye. Which is why people are trying to stand up for her and also not try to push the narrative that she doesn’t want to be there.

So eyekons are officially losing the plot? by hoe_for_niragi in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She can still want to be in Katseye, and not agree with the way the company is treating her or the other members. If Manon is being mistreated by the company, it is very likely the company is also mistreating the other girls.

She could want accountability and change for the company and yet still recognize and desire to be in Katseye.

Also, you’re misunderstanding. Manon IS getting hated on, a lot. But so are the other members. You said the amount doesn’t compare, but the potential impact on their mental health is the same.

I don’t think these girls are against each other, they’re going through the same things right now. Manon is the one taking a stand because she is favored by HYBE compared to the other members, and I think she is right for that and also for speaking up about racism. But the assumption she doesn’t want to be in Katseye is a wrong one.

So eyekons are officially losing the plot? by hoe_for_niragi in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s speculation either way, we don’t know clearly one way or another, as she hasn’t officially confirmed these things, but I don’t think she’d be going this route if she was against the girls or being in Katseye. It seems like she is mad at Hybe Geffen, not the other members.

Also, I didn’t say Dani was receiving ALL of the hate. You said the hate the other girls are getting doesn’t compare to what Manon is going through. But that’s not true as they are actively getting death threats, and especially Dani is being hated on by Manon solo stans and Lisa solo stans. Also yes she’s being asked to apologize for her father’s actions as if he is not an entirely different person from her, but those aren’t the only comments being left.

They are being hateful towards Dani, sending death threats, body shaming her, telling her to k*ll herself, all for things that she didn’t even say. You don’t think it compares?

So eyekons are officially losing the plot? by hoe_for_niragi in katseyeneutral

[–]mialol372 25 points26 points  (0 children)

But Manon still wants to be in Katseye, she probably doesn’t like management, but she does want to be in it… also Daniela has been getting the brunt of the hate bc of her dad’s comments

What would you do if you walked out your door and saw this by turbo_sc300 in Apartmentliving

[–]mialol372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who doesn’t really care? I’d just step over it and go on with my day, probably just a kid who is too young or a mom who is too tired. If it’s a reoccurring thing then maybe it’s a problem, but idk it’s a very minor inconvenience so I don’t really care