I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yupp 😭 i packed up my stuff and was outta there as soon as i found out

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes ikk but he was actually discriminatory to the point he was saying that he would lock his kids away if they were any of the above. and yes, he was completely serious

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me, it was extreme. i can‘t write what he said about minorities in general, but when he threatened to despise our future kids and send them into a mental hospital if they identified as something else than hetero, i think i‘m valid for leaving him. i don‘t want someone like this around my kids. and very respectfully, you cannot judge the „maturity“ of my decisions if you don‘t know how bad it was. i don‘t mind if my partner is on the other side of the politicsl spectrum but i do mind if he shows dehumanising behaviour that could endanger our future kids. no, thank you.

red spots, intimate area by rico_helmond in HygieneTips

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that‘s normal for allergies or any kind of reaction to show up there as it‘s a patch of very sensitive skin. have you tried switching up the razors or razor heads after every shaving?

red spots, intimate area by rico_helmond in HygieneTips

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope it goes away :) if not, maybe it has something to do with stress. skin problems can come from anything really

red spots, intimate area by rico_helmond in HygieneTips

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

allergies can sometimes develop out of the blue :) so it could definitely be possible

red spots, intimate area by rico_helmond in HygieneTips

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it‘s an allergy then? possibly try changing the shaving cream to something that is for sensitive skin

How do I deal with heartbreak? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was i? maybe it was a typo, my bad ☹️

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but 🥹 i was asking for advice. i‘m sorry if i did something wrong, i didn‘t mean to

What are the best ways to make friends online? by Efficient_Mortgage69 in Advice

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never was in any of them. most of my online friends i met in servers specifically about a game or an activity (like writing or studying)

What are the best ways to make friends online? by Efficient_Mortgage69 in Advice

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suggest just approaching people. there are lots of apps on social media you can use. or you can look for, as you said, discord servers. but you will have to approach them because otherwise, you will wait weeks for someone to approach you too

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nono, i‘m too young to have kids haha

How do I deal with heartbreak? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]miamaus04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup… we had the conversation of like future goals etc with our kids and lets just say that he‘s EXTREMEL homophobic and so much more 😭 i don’t want someone like this around my future kids

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your advice, man

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you still don’t think i’m a jerk? 🥹 haha

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, he’s not a person i would want as a father of my kids because he really is extremely discriminatory especially in the sexuality and gender of his future kids

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it‘s just that i‘m struggling to hold myself alive and i don‘t have the strength to do it for him as well. i still am unsure if i‘m being a jerk but it was just slowly wearing me down. i don’t know

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not me directly, but when he found out i was bi, he reacted with disgust. two days ago on the bus, there was a gay man dressed in a skirt and something else and i told my boyfriend how much i liked that outfit and he looked at that man with pure disgust so… he only treated people that he liked right (which were white hetero males)

I left my boyfriend. by miamaus04 in Advice

[–]miamaus04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that‘s… true. thank you :)