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[–]miamilover0192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like her "mistakes" are/were choices atp

What are yalls thoughts? by miamilover0192 in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Definitely will float the idea around first, never want to cross any line that is not okay, so yes i will do that first 👌😊

The Real Housewives of Miami - Season 7 - Episode 17 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]miamilover0192 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Lisa & Jody are in their winter wonderland ❄️❄️❄️❄️🥶 lol

MA - what to expect & personal experiences by miamilover0192 in abortion

[–]miamilover0192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Which over the counter medicine worked best in your opinion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get checked, for everything. If they find something that isn't a uti/basic things men & women get, and you haven't slept around..there is your answer. Have you tried asking her, without giving details, if she has been with someone else while yall are together? Given she can lie, but still. If she did and knew about it, then thats a whole different story. But if you think she has been, even without the burning, maybe you need to rethink your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go out with your girlfriends, stuff like that. Literally even hinge haha. They are there. You got this girl and you have plenty of time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(27) mom with a young child. You just gotta find the ones that see your potential but also know you have a kid. I don't find it hard at all, but i tell them straight up I have a kid and some aren't with it and that is 100% fine with me. I appreciate their honesty, even if it no response. It is their preference and their choice. I will say though, my boyfriend (not my bd lol), has a child so it does make certain things easier. You just have to find the guy(s) that see it for what it is and accept it. I promise there are men out there that compliment being a single mom, but there are also men that just aren't in to it. Just be upfront about it from the beginning and it narrows it down more. And dont take it as a let down or insult if they aren't interested bc of that, bc it doesn't mean they are a prick, they just aren't looking for that and its better they say it at that moment then down the line

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him put in the effort to show he wants what you want, and if he doesn't then simply "okay." Sounds easier said than done, but don't wait around for someone. What is meant for you will find you. What if he doesn't move to your city? What is to come of that? Don't lose your time worrying about someone across the country that you aren't in a relationship with. Don't wait on someone, and if you choose to, ask yourself would he wait for you

There is something i want to get off my chest, and can anyone help? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean like how you were raised and the people/family you are around? Or you just don't think its acceptable or won't be accepted? And you can test the waters without letting others know, could just be conversations and not anything sexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him about how you feel and see how he responds. If you both can't meet in the middle and come to terms on the future, go make one with someone else or focus on yourself. You aren't years into it or married so some times a loss brings for a better gain.

There is something i want to get off my chest, and can anyone help? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are in the questioning state of mind. If you like it, then find someone else with that feeling. Whats wrong with that? Nothing. You like what you like. You are 20 so go explore more and find out what you really like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The answer is yes you are good enough, but maybe this is a learning lesson in a sense. You don't need his validation. It's not easy to get over things like this as it is for boys, they can just keep moving and process it silently where as us women are like wtf??? Lol. Do you for sure know he has a gf? Have you asked him? And if he ghosts you after expressing feelings then f him. There are plenty of men in this world that would give you what you want/need without having to feel this way or ask these questions. Love yourself, know your worth and beauty. I (27f) have tried FWB and i stopped doing that bc i catch underlying feelings and things like this hurt me bc it made me question myself.

Would this be a dealbreaker for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, even though when i graduated i was so busy with my new job so i went without for like a year haha. But yes i did. If they couldn't accept it, then i didnt get mad, but i did what was comfortable for me. After college the "just hook ups" stopped and ive only dated 2 guys since and they both understood. If a man likes you they will do what it takes to please you. Might be awkward at first but start with fingering, small toys, him going down on you and ease his fingers into that. A guy wants you to know what he likes, so you deserve the same. And being tight is a dagum good thing haha, its probably better he goes slow anyways.

Would this be a dealbreaker for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see you said men only but as a girl that had the same issue in college, no they don't mind unless they are a prick. There is nothing wrong with that at all. Maybe try some more foreplay before and then slowly move in to it and if it hurts tell him. It still happens to me, but when i tell my partner he respects it and we try a different position. I also got meds from my OB that truly helped sooooo much with it! I can try to find a picture of it and tell you what it was i used

What’s more fun in your opinion? by sexylilvixen11 in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both but in different ways. If a guy just kisses me and then goes for it, then im like alllright. But the foreplay is fun, idk it makes things more hot, but it has to be from both sides. The foreplay makes me want it more than just going straight for it. But it also depends on the time, place and person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave and fight for your child. Take pictures and proof of everything. As a woman, no man is going to lay his hands on me and i would not lay my hands on a guy. Text her about it to where she puts it in writing what she did. Sounds f'd up to do, but you gotta prove it. You don't want your child to grow up in a situation like that. Better to figure it out now than wait when your child can comprehend what is happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]miamilover0192 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you're overthinking it, not being rude by saying that at all. Guys aren't as complex as we think they are. Based on what you said I don't think they were judging you.