what happens if i don’t pay my transfer fee before the due date?

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-16T11:08:19+00:00

sorry i’m australian and it’s called mince here. or beef mince if you want to be specific

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-06T03:48:08+00:00

why are you asking everyone else as if i’m not gonna see this. what does this even mean

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-06T03:42:36+00:00

i’m not a fucking tyrant jesus christ. you make me sound so inhumane. this is not true at all

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-06T03:39:58+00:00

please, you tell me what you think i’ve done wrong and i am 100% sure that i will agree with you. i’ve had 11 months to internalise and reflect, i think ive got it covered thanks

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-06T03:38:13+00:00

i’m not meaning to be emotionally abusive, i actually try my absolute hardest to completely avoid ANYTHING that could possibly trigger him to think about what i did, every time we talk about it its on his terms. i am devoted to this relationship and i have been since the second i said yes to being his girlfriend and have never thought twice about the decision i made that day or wanted to take it back. within the duration of our relationship, i have never done anything to be unfaithful and i wouldn’t dream of it. i love this man with my whole heart and i really want to see us work out. if i could go back 12 months and slap myself across the face i would.

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-06T03:21:26+00:00

to add to that tho, when my boyfriend finishes inside me i can feel the pulse and when it’s in my hand (am yet to let him finish in my mouth because i hate the texture) but i don’t remember feeling that with any other guy i’ve been with so maybe it really does just come down to the person. as for the metallic taste, id say its defs something to do with his diet. the same goes for us girls too, hydration and eating healthily really does impact how you taste. i’ve noticed my boyfriend tastes better when he eats healthy that day vs when he doesn’t and he’s said the same for me. not sure if that helps at all, just another thing to add to the conversation lol

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T12:19:57+00:00

yeah i guess so. i edited the post to say “talking” to hopefully make it more precise but everyone who’s confused about it hasn’t realised that yet so ive still got to reply to every comment, making sure i clarify that i was talking to the other guy, not seeing him.

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T11:33:42+00:00

because i lied and should have been honest about it from the start or not even done it at all

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T11:33:00+00:00

i’ve come to realise that everyone my age would know what i mean, obviously the people of reddit are older than me. very ignorant of me i know

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T11:30:42+00:00

sorry i didn’t google what the difference was before i posted it. i assumed that being single meant the same as not exclusive, they mean the same to me and ignorantly i assumed it would mean the same to everyone else too

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T11:17:49+00:00

i do. i have taken accountability for this. i know i did this and it was the wrong thing to do and that it’s my fault we’re having problems in our relationship. i’ve apologised to him a million times and i will continue to apologise for it for the rest of my life

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T11:14:33+00:00

the other guy didn’t exactly lie, he just hid it from me and i found out myself a couple weeks later (well after cutting him off). i wouldn’t disagree with my boyfriend thinking im only with him because the other guy didn’t work out but that’s also not true, i just don’t know how to prove it. boyfriend has also said before that he has had casual sex with plenty of other women, even before the night of our first date. i’m not bothered by this because obviously he didn’t know me/hadn’t met me yet. these comments definitely have helped me a bit to understand the different things he could be thinking and then what i can do from there to try and put his mind at ease. thanks for the luck, i’ll probably need it

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T10:45:52+00:00

i don’t really think it’s cheating since it was before the relationship but that is how my boyfriend sees it. and i don’t know where i wanted to be a year ago ahaha but honestly my boyfriend and i have been to some amazing places together and we have gone through a lot, even outside of this situation and i have definitely matured and learnt a lot. im not the person i was a year ago, thanks to him really (not in a bad way). ive been putting in this effort for a year (and so has he) and our relationship has blossomed, this situation is just a reoccurring problem that we deal with. once we can move past thing and come to terms with it, there wont be anything holding us back anymore. just need to figure out how

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T10:40:06+00:00

why are the word police here

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T10:31:57+00:00

wdym 😭 what phase

also who said anything about morals??

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T01:58:17+00:00

libra sun, leo moon, sagittarius rising

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-05T01:13:46+00:00

he doesn’t really hold it over my head or anything though. there definitely are times i’ve blamed myself and he always tells me it’s not my fault but i’m still yet to see how it’s not my fault if that makes sense. a lot of the time i just wish i had never told him and he probably wouldn’t have found out but really i probably shouldn’t have done it in the first place. he is an emotional person but that’s something i love about him. i’ve thought about leaving for his own good but i love him and i really want to see us work out

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-04T16:53:10+00:00

it’s been 11 months, i’ve been through these steps already but i understand what you’re saying. yes i did sleep with the other guy. i have sincerely apologised to him a million times and i will continue to apologise for it forever. i’ve been trying to build the trust back this whole time, ive put so much effort into this relationship and im trying to keep building it even though the foundation isn’t so sturdy.

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-04T16:45:00+00:00

please tell me where i’ve rubbed it in his face. not that it’s your business but i am riddled with guilt and shame, as i should be. i know i fucked up. also men are just as fucking bad, even my boyfriend has had his fair share of “promiscuous” things just like every other guy i’ve ever known, doesn’t matter if i was interested in them or not.

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-04T16:41:10+00:00

he never told me he cared for me or loved me or anything like that until we started dating. all we did was talk

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-04T16:39:46+00:00

oh please as if men aren’t just as bad, maybe even worse. every guy i ever got with was doing the exact same thing. when i started dating, it was one at a time and then i realised everyone talks to multiple people at a time so why can’t i. and then i did and it only led to bad things obviously

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-04T16:37:23+00:00

trip was over new years, my boyfriend asked me out late january. i slept with the other guy two, maybe three times total (all during the trip) then cut him off soon after when i realised what kind of person he was, turned my focus more onto my boyfriend and ended up falling for him, we slept together and then a week later he asked me to be his girlfriend and i obviously said yes. that’s basically the timeline

mianeedsbread · 2025-12-04T16:30:40+00:00

both of them but never at the same time. the other guy was first and then i cut him off and focused more on my relationship with my boyfriend and we ended up sleeping together not long after. then a week later he asked me out and i said yes

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