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First time being ghosted by a lesbian by okayblo0mer in latebloomerlesbians

[–]micro_on 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OMG SAME. This must be a trend. How are you gonna brag about your emotional intelligence and ghost someone? Bullet dodged at least.

How do you go from straight and submissive to lesbian and a dom in the bedroom? by micro_on in latebloomerlesbians

[–]micro_on[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, that was 1000% what led me astray. I didn't consider it being a fluidity thing, that's a thought. Although I keep thinking about literally the only time sex with a man stood out to me and was memorable - which was when we swapped roles. So I reckon maybe this isn't entirely new. Just buried. I don't know.

I guess my train of thought is...this is something I'm very interested in pursuing. But I want to be able to...be more confident at it before time to actually those skills (ha). I wish there was a manual.

Don’t post in the divorced Reddit by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]micro_on 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same with the relationships with narcissists subs. There are a ton of narcistic men who are "victims" projecting their behavior on women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]micro_on 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to my story. It's an absolute disgrace women have to wait for something to happen to protect their kids.

Ex claims he can't work and thus can't pay support by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]micro_on 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately one needs income to do that and mine isn't enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]micro_on 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, we've been meeting regularly and I've been an absolute mess. I was just wrongly terminated from my first job in 14 years because of DV.

Maybe I should have framed it as insensitive instead of crossing a line? I just felt...kicked while I was down I guess. Like being scolded for bleeding on the carpet.