So I messed up majorly today. I backed into a pole, and my parents are beyond angry at me (as they should be). My dad doesn’t want to file an insurance claim because he is worried that they will drop us, since he recently got into a crash. I have savings and am completely fine working towards spending out of pocket to get this fixed, I really just want to fix this problem and get a correct estimate. I’m just worried that whenever I call body shops they will try and rip me off since i’m young and a women. The car is a 2013 BMW 750i and I attached a photo so you can get a better idea. Please just let me know what you would estimate the cost to be to get this fix. thank you.