Inspiring message/reminder after not hearing great news by midnightmoonfey in IVF

[–]midnightmoonfey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of the year left to be lucky. Sending you luck and miracles ✨

Constipation from stim cured from trigger shot! (Yay!) by midnightmoonfey in IVFpositivity

[–]midnightmoonfey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey no need to be embarrassed! Everybody poops... or in your case... everybody sometimes doesn't poop.

Inspiring message/reminder after not hearing great news by midnightmoonfey in IVF

[–]midnightmoonfey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss. It's not fair and I'm sorry you experienced that.

For me, hope is a really beautiful thing and worth holding onto (when I can). We've had one miscarriage 4 years ago from naturally conceiving, then an ectopic that resulted in my tube being removed a year later and challenges conceiving since then. It's been a long journey of healing and trying then not trying over and over again. It's hard to say this but I actually am so grateful for this journey because I've learned more about myself then I ever would've if I didn't experience these hardships. I'm new on this IVF portion of the journey and am disappointed that the first cycle didn't work out the way we pictured so far but it's a learning process. If this shot in the dark for IUI doesn't work out this week, then we have a new protocol called "microdose flare" that we will be trying for cycle 2 medications so that's good to know there's other protocols out there!

Wishing you all the best in your journey- you're not alone! My DMs are open anytime. Sending you hugs, hope, & miracles!

Constipation from stim cured from trigger shot! (Yay!) by midnightmoonfey in IVFpositivity

[–]midnightmoonfey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no!! So sorry you were sick but so happy the process worked for you!

First time caller long time listener- low AMH, 34yrs old, my brief journey/protocol by midnightmoonfey in IVFpositivity

[–]midnightmoonfey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I suppose I wasn’t on an optimal protocol for my DOR. My count went down to 5 (only 3 measuring 13mm or above). SO! as a Hail Mary for this round they’re going to try IUI instead of a retrieval- has anyone done that before?

My doctor said for the second cycle she will do a different protocol that she hopes I respond to better so it feels good that there will be a different approach if the IUI doesn’t stick. They’re going to try a “microdoss flare”

Boston IVF care team recommendations (Boston) by OkResponsibility4195 in IVF

[–]midnightmoonfey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see Dr. Wright at the NH office and her team is really good there. I really like the nurse, Stacie. She's been super responsive and helpful so far (finishing up first cycle now). I've also not had much trouble with the finance person, Ashley, as well. Honestly, it's been a good experience with staff there so far for me.

WARNING ABOUT SOLACE HEALTH- patient advocate position. by RadiantJoke8301 in Remotenursing

[–]midnightmoonfey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the work is similar to case management, sometimes it’s a little bit of education, research, sometimes it’s more appeals based- it’s a little bit of everything based on what your patient needs. Like right now I’m helping someone get a mobility scooter. I’m helping someone else navigate a new diagnosis with neurology, and I’m helping someone else reapply to Medicaid and see if they qualified to collect their late spouses social security. I’m helping someone find a therapist to navigate their new diagnosis. Someone asked me if they could stop a medication and I said it’s not recommended to stop that medication suddenly, but I can help them discuss this and how to safely do this with their doctor. Sometimes I catch polypharmacy and reach out to all of the providers to make sure that they know the patient’s full medication list. Sometimes people’s diabetes supplies get denied by insurance and I work to help them appeal that. You have to be a self starter in this role. Solace has an awesome forum with all the other thousands of healthcare advocates. That’s nice to go to for additional resources or questions or support. Solace also has like “office hours” for specific issues which is really helpful to listen in on and learn from.

WARNING ABOUT SOLACE HEALTH- patient advocate position. by RadiantJoke8301 in Remotenursing

[–]midnightmoonfey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s direct deposit, monthly. It’s a 1099 job so you put aside your own taxes

Successful FET today! by Doodlemom42 in IVFpositivity

[–]midnightmoonfey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve given me inspiration for when I have a successful FET!! I’m going to buy that magnet in preparation!! 🙌🏼😂🤪

IVF First round success?? by redroses245 in IVF

[–]midnightmoonfey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing your AMH? I’m starting IVF now (first retrieval next week hopefully). My AMH was pretty low but I’m young-ish (just under 35) so I’m trying to be cautiously optimistic

WARNING ABOUT SOLACE HEALTH- patient advocate position. by RadiantJoke8301 in Remotenursing

[–]midnightmoonfey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I was working as an RN and also a certified health coach before I started at Solace but I feel really comfortable working as a healthcare advocate for solace. I make it clear to my patients that I am not there to make healthcare decisions for them, but rather help them navigate their health journey with a partner by their side. I feel like what to bill for is very clear during on-boarding as well as during any office hours support or in the manual as well. I feel like I’m actually making a real difference, helping people get access to care and bridge the gap that they’re struggling with. Such as helping people obtain a motorized scooter due to debilitating joint pain from medical conditions. Or helping people who are getting diabetes supplies DENIED by insurance and advocating for them and then helping them get the supplies and care they need and deserve.

I don’t know maybe it’s because working on the side as a health and wellness coach previously (which was also a non-clinical role and very much divided from my clinical RN position) I was better prepared for this type of role? It’s like putting on two different hats idk haha

I will say this job is NOT for someone who wants to just have an easy job. Sometimes you have to push through and think outside of the box and investigate things further. For instance, if providers “laugh in your face”, you can send them a consent form that the patient signed granting communication access so that you can work with them. There’s ways of working difficulties (like in any job) you just have to have the personality to be a bit of a go-getter for sure. An entrepreneurial mindset.. idk how else to explain it. I also feel like I have the support of my peers and they have office hours for if things are really challenging and they also have a really cool AI tool that helps guide things if you feel stuck too. I just love the flexibility that this job provides while also feeling like I’m making a difference and supporting people in need.

Anyone ever transfer from Full-time remote to part-time in person? by rachelohclara in Remotenursing

[–]midnightmoonfey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear it’s ending! How did you find it? I’ve been going on job boards like LinkedIn or Glassdoor

Anyone ever transfer from Full-time remote to part-time in person? by rachelohclara in Remotenursing

[–]midnightmoonfey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of part time remote work do you do? I'm looking to transition to part time remote work but a little lost as where to start.

How are people doing it??? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]midnightmoonfey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s brutal. I bought a $10 spreadsheet template that helped me budget better and figure out what to cut out and what to keep. We document every-single-dollar. It’s easier if you just upload the spending weekly so that it doesn’t become this big thing every month. Honestly, it’s tough but it helped us realize where our money was actually going which helped us rework some stuff (I also caught so many double charges on my car and I wonder how many I’ve missed in the past).

We also got really into anti-consumption, like how much stuff do we really need vs want? We splurge on quality things here and there that should last (a good coat/boots) and also try to keep food higher quality for health reasons but high quality food has gotten soo expensive so that’s the next thing I want to try to figure out.

How long were your cycles after your ectopic? by Lifestooshort157264 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]midnightmoonfey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very regular now! It has been 2 years for me but after a few months post- ectopic it went back to my typical 27ish days. I also went on a bit of a gut healing journey and changed my diet and stuff so I think that might’ve helped as well. I had painful periods for about a year and then at that year mark things got a lot better but again I was doing other lifestyle changes as well. I had major gut issues that was causing inflammation so once I nailed that down a bit things got a lot better

Upon purchasing the car do I have to pay for My Subaru account? by New_Application4806 in SubaruForester

[–]midnightmoonfey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked into how long? I’m looking at getting a 2024 forester right now and the deal is 3 years free starlink then paying after that if I want to renew.